Foxtrot_Uniform

Bump

Not a good night for me. Saturday night I ran into a girl who broke my heart at my local hangout with the guy she dumped me for. Kept quiet about it for several days and tonight texted her about her going to where she is more likely than not to run into me with him none the less. Waring via text.

I told my ex if I ever see her with her new guy in our old spots I will automatically kick the shit outta him. She doesn't do that now.

It's kind of hard to do that when she shows up where I hang out and hides when I show up then runs away and acts like she didn't see me there. This over the course of 20 min. Passive aggressive to say the least. The reason why I tried to make contact is I didn't want to force the friends that her and I have in common to have to choose between her and I. This is beyond the point that someone that has been her close friend for over ten years made it clear that she would chose being friends with me over her. She has been my friend for about 2 years. I thought it was unfair to put mutual friends in that position to begin with.

I want to go out drinking with both Foxtrot and Ray. We would be excellent drinkin buddies.

I don't know the next time I'll be in Northern CA. Last time I was there I was going stir crazy and not that far from Mountain View.

LOL Yeah that would be nice.

I say start being the greedy ex! Don't make friends choose but don't have the POV that its bad that they do. Start collecting and hording the friends!!! Get that mine mine attitude!!!

Apparently she didn't get the message that there were places I won in the break-up. I don't have to worry about losing any friends if the circumstances make the mutual friends have to chose. I've saved the mutual friends from DUIs, creepy guys, and once dragged away a maniac waving around a can of mace.

Be selfish. . . thats all I can say. . .

wow since that ^ picture has been taken I've grown it out long enough to donate again and had most of it chopped off

It's a vicious cycle.

I would still have it if I didn't lose my job and have to try to look more socially acceptable to look for a new one. It hasn't paid off yet