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Dainty

Dainty

I'm lost
August 2007

SEP 11, 2007 06:59 PM

Zarth said:

Dainty said:
Is giving it til tomorrow good enough?


Only if your head is clear tomorrow, which is a chancy proposition.

You broke up for a reason, probably a lot of reasons. Properly speaking, dating right now is a bad idea anyway, because you need time to really digest your last relationship, and get to know yourself again.

Otherwise the same problems will keep emerging.



I concur, it's just hard, especially since he was the only family I had.

c_iggy

c_iggy

Milwaukee, WI
May 2007

SEP 11, 2007 07:00 PM

Zarth said:

Dainty said:
Is giving it til tomorrow good enough?


Only if your head is clear tomorrow, which is a chancy proposition.

You broke up for a reason, probably a lot of reasons. Properly speaking, dating right now is a bad idea anyway, because you need time to really digest your last relationship, and get to know yourself again.

Otherwise the same problems will keep emerging.



the man is right. i've wanted to get back together with the girls i've broken up with a thousand times, but all it takes is a cool head and a good look at the person to remember why I ended it in the first place.
Give yourself a chance to breathe before making any decisions.

Rory_B_Bellows

Rory_B_Bellows

Dallas, TX
April 2007

SEP 11, 2007 07:01 PM

Being alone for a while is good for you. It lets you learn more about yourself and your own strengths and weaknesses.

Dainty

Dainty

I'm lost
August 2007

SEP 11, 2007 07:01 PM

Sigh.
k. I will. Thanks you guys.
♥

Zarth

zarth

Seattle, WA
December 2004

SEP 11, 2007 07:02 PM

Dainty said:

Zarth said:

Dainty said:
Is giving it til tomorrow good enough?


Only if your head is clear tomorrow, which is a chancy proposition.

You broke up for a reason, probably a lot of reasons. Properly speaking, dating right now is a bad idea anyway, because you need time to really digest your last relationship, and get to know yourself again.

Otherwise the same problems will keep emerging.


I concur, it's just hard, especially since he was the only family I had.


I know the feeling. It never goes away, either, but you get used to it.

Life is pain. The best we can can do is wrest some wisdom from it.

And for what it's worth, I'm proud of you.

Dainty

Dainty

I'm lost
August 2007

SEP 11, 2007 07:04 PM

Thank You. smile
I am a bit rash right now, I was going to call him but I will give it some more time...
And you being proud of me is worth alot. ♥

ShaggyVixe

ShaggyVixe

New Orleans, LA
November 2005

SEP 11, 2007 07:05 PM

You cannot have love without pain and you can't have happiness without sorrow eventually. Nothing lasts forever so enjoy your life learn from this and carry the experience with you always.

Dainty

Dainty

I'm lost
August 2007

SEP 11, 2007 07:07 PM

The thing is even though we are not together, I think he is the one.
The crush is a dead end, I gave up on him...And no one loves me as much as he does...maybe my little brother but you know what I mean.
I will wait it out for as long as I can, but I do want him back.
The reason why I broke up with him was because of-
1. xbox was more important than me
2. he barely paid attention to me and my intrests and I devoted time into his
3. I had the crush
4. I wanted to see if I was happier without him....I am not.

imprettywhenilie

imprettywhenilie

Phoenix, AZ
February 2007

SEP 11, 2007 07:11 PM

Dainty said:

imprettywhenilie said:

Dainty said:
Is giving it til tomorrow good enough? I really miss sleeping next to him, and his scent, and his smile, and the beautiful words that came out of his beautiful mouth, and his arms wrapped around me making me feel safe from the world...



until things go back to the way they were that made you want to leave him in the first place.

give it time. you're just not used to being single.

wanna be my girlfriend?! *stares at toes*



I know...I will give it time, it's hard though. And lonely. All I wanted was him to pay attention to me more and not the bloody xbox all the time or the fishtank or even the damn cats!


*plays with hair* really?! biggrin



yes, really...though...i may only break your heart.

Dainty

Dainty

I'm lost
August 2007

SEP 11, 2007 07:13 PM

imprettywhenilie said:

Dainty said:

imprettywhenilie said:

Dainty said:
Is giving it til tomorrow good enough? I really miss sleeping next to him, and his scent, and his smile, and the beautiful words that came out of his beautiful mouth, and his arms wrapped around me making me feel safe from the world...



until things go back to the way they were that made you want to leave him in the first place.

give it time. you're just not used to being single.

wanna be my girlfriend?! *stares at toes*



I know...I will give it time, it's hard though. And lonely. All I wanted was him to pay attention to me more and not the bloody xbox all the time or the fishtank or even the damn cats!


*plays with hair* really?! biggrin



yes, really...though...i may only break your heart.



oh. You see...my heart is fragile...I don't want it broked. :{

imprettywhenilie

imprettywhenilie

Phoenix, AZ
February 2007

SEP 11, 2007 07:14 PM

Dainty said:

imprettywhenilie said:

Dainty said:

imprettywhenilie said:

Dainty said:
Is giving it til tomorrow good enough? I really miss sleeping next to him, and his scent, and his smile, and the beautiful words that came out of his beautiful mouth, and his arms wrapped around me making me feel safe from the world...



until things go back to the way they were that made you want to leave him in the first place.

give it time. you're just not used to being single.

wanna be my girlfriend?! *stares at toes*



I know...I will give it time, it's hard though. And lonely. All I wanted was him to pay attention to me more and not the bloody xbox all the time or the fishtank or even the damn cats!


*plays with hair* really?! biggrin



yes, really...though...i may only break your heart.



oh. You see...my heart is fragile...I don't want it broked. :{



exactly. s'ok.
we can still make out and try to make babies.

Dainty

Dainty

I'm lost
August 2007

SEP 11, 2007 07:15 PM

I'd like that biggrin

meatpieboy

meatpieboy

Korea, D.P.R.
June 2004

SEP 11, 2007 07:17 PM

ShaggyVixe said:
You cannot have love without pain and you can't have happiness without sorrow eventually. Nothing lasts forever so enjoy your life learn from this and carry the experience with you always.


How the fuck is SV gonna be right and then go post a seizure-inducing .gif??? Listen to this man.

meatpieboy

meatpieboy

Korea, D.P.R.
June 2004

SEP 11, 2007 07:18 PM

Dainty said:
The thing is even though we are not together, I think he is the one.
The crush is a dead end, I gave up on him...And no one loves me as much as he does...maybe my little brother but you know what I mean.
I will wait it out for as long as I can, but I do want him back.
The reason why I broke up with him was because of-
1. xbox was more important than me
2. he barely paid attention to me and my intrests and I devoted time into his
3. I had the crush
4. I wanted to see if I was happier without him....I am not.



1, 2, 3 are fine.

4 is tougher to assess. It's so easy to become comfortable with someone, even if they eventually become the wrong person. Then, when you try to figure out "happy", you're at a loss.

That one will take time.

Tiger_Fodder

Tiger_Fodder

Braintree, MA
June 2007

SEP 11, 2007 07:19 PM

Dainty said:
Thank You. smile
I am a bit rash right now, I was going to call him but I will give it some more time...
And you being proud of me is worth alot. ♥


We are ALL proud of you Dainty...seriously!

Tiger_Fodder

Tiger_Fodder

Braintree, MA
June 2007

SEP 11, 2007 07:23 PM

Dainty said:
The thing is even though we are not together, I think he is the one.
The crush is a dead end, I gave up on him...And no one loves me as much as he does...maybe my little brother but you know what I mean.
I will wait it out for as long as I can, but I do want him back.
The reason why I broke up with him was because of-
1. xbox was more important than me
2. he barely paid attention to me and my intrests and I devoted time into his
3. I had the crush
4. I wanted to see if I was happier without him....I am not.



1. There should be no question if you are more important than a piece of wires
2. At least some of your interests should be the same
3. Crush is not love
4. A couple of days is not enough. Give it time!

At your age, I was crushed for over a year over breaking up with Caroline. I still wonder what happened to her, but I know she was NOT for me.

Dainty

Dainty

I'm lost
August 2007

SEP 11, 2007 07:24 PM

meatpieboy said:

1, 2, 3 are fine.

4 is tougher to assess. It's so easy to become comfortable with someone, even if they eventually become the wrong person. Then, when you try to figure out "happy", you're at a loss.

That one will take time.



Exactly. 4 years together is along time...for me. I never cheated on him, I was always honest...he is the first relationship I acted like a grown up in and it's because of how I feel about him...plus he is incredibly sexy as hell and that shouldn't matter but it does...anyway, I know what I am going to try to do...I am not good at admitting I am wrong or saying sorry so if I do in fact try to go back it will take me time to figure out how to do it without looking foolish.

Dainty

Dainty

I'm lost
August 2007

SEP 11, 2007 07:26 PM

InnocentSid said:

1. There should be no question if you are more important than a piece of wires
2. At least some of your interests should be the same
3. Crush is not love
4. A couple of days is not enough. Give it time!

At your age, I was crushed for over a year over breaking up with Caroline. I still wonder what happened to her, but I know she was NOT for me.



I concur but if he is willing to try, than I want to try. I never not wanted to be with him...a week without my best friend is a long time for me.

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