Bored of Sex

Maybe not entirely bored since I might have to have gotten some to give it up. But I'm personally just tired of trying. I'm guessing this is due to the fact I haven't had sex but I just lost my drive to even try, with anything. Don't get me wrong I still like to jerk off and have attractions to certain girls in specific but the drive is gone. Or it was never there.

both more or less, i'm a virgin who's lost the will to get sex.

maybe you're trying too hard.

that's the thing I'm not trying at all

you said you were tired of trying.

How can you be sick of something you've never had? If you decided you wanna be a monk, fine, be a monk. However I lay $5 on you giving up on giving up in the near future. You're frustrated and jaded, happens to the best of us. Now get out there and try to get laid.

then....try?

okay not sick of sex, but i don't really seem to want sex. but you're right its probably just cause no ones laying themselves on a platter and saying fuck me. even so i don't feel like trying to fuck someone.

i know someone who was 23 when he lost his virginity. he had pretty much the same attitude as you do. it was completely unimportant to him by the time he finally got laid. afterwards he decided maybe there was something to this sex thing that everyone keeps obsessing about. i wouldn't worry about it that much. hell, maybe you're better off than the rest of us in that you don't know what you're missing.

i sure it is.

but i guess i should have been more specific in my topic about what i was hoping to discuss, i mean i really don't want this to go to, Happy junk you need to try to have sex you can do it! or sex being good cause i'm guessing it is. I was mostly looking for similar things too. so i can have some comrades in this. at the same time i'm also worried if this is a bad thing.

[Edited on Jul 22, 2005 by happyjunk]

I'm sure you can find several comrades here. As for if this is bad or not, that's a question only you can answer, Sorry, but no one else can tell you if your opinions on sex are good or bad.

ya i suppose i kinda figured this would end up all on my shoulders, can't blame a guy for trying.

It's not a bad thing. You haven't had sex, so why the fuck should you obsess about it? A virgin obsessing about sex sceams of puberty. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19, almost 20. There were a few years in there when I didn't give a shit about trying to get laid. Then I did, and I was a bit of a fiend for a couple of years. These days it's not a big deal. Sex is awesome, yes, but if you've never tried it, why bother worrying about it?

Trying what exactly? I thought you were tired of trying. You said you wanted "comrades", and you were directed to where you could find some. Did I miss something?

oh no i mean trying to find some other reason besides myself for this issue. you were right it does come down to me.

Oh. Well best of luck in your pursuit of female companionship.

Can I quote you on this?

wow this is the most curiously confusing board i've ever read

I'm tired...
So tired...
I'm tired of (not) having sex. (so tired)

i think what he's really trying to say is seeing all these gorgeous girls is making him depressed because he knows he could never hook up w/ anything close to these lovely ladies.....

i hear ya bro.

(edited cause it's too late to be typing)

[Edited on Jul 23, 2005 by azphataztony]

You know, I'm pretty sure that that's not even close to what he was "really trying to say".

Sounds like this problem is more likely to happen to porn stars than virgins. Once you do it enough, it can become just friendly exercise instead of an intense experience. Happened to me once, till I found that sex can be playful and carefree without the heavy expiation of a mind blowing session. This is more of an older persons issue, not something a young buck like Happyjunk should go through.


Hell if all else fails, save your lunch money and have a top dollar hooker show you the ropes kid.

i thought this was over on page one?

anyways to answer your questions.

!. No.

2. Hookers give me hives, among other things.

[Edited on Jul 23, 2005 by happyjunk]

Loss of sex drive is an indicator of possible depression. Do you think you might be stressed / depressed?