Blowjob question

I have had more than one guy in my experience tell me that he "usually doesn't cum when getting head." Tell me, is that something true for a lot of guys, or is that just something a guy will say to get a girl (who loves a challenge) to give him blowjobs more often?

Seriously, in the interest of science....

If that's what it takes, then I know my new line. Personally, if I had to choose to have only blow jobs, or only sex for the rest of my life. I'd take blow jobs.

when can expect to see the results of the experiment and do the participants get paid for taking part?

I told you, this is in the interest of science....

In the interest of Science?
I'd say that as long as the girl is careful with her teeth, and really looks and sounds like she wants me to cum, then there's no problem.
If she's NOT careful and Yearning...then yes I can see why it would be problem to cum while getting head.
God knows that guys like me love good Head - and it's Not easy to find.

Then those guys haven't had a good blowjob or just want to save it.
I don't know. I have had girls that were terrible bj's and I couldn't cum, but a good bj and you are going to cum.

For me it is true that I only had one gf that had me regulary cum anytime she was giving me bj but I can still enjoy without the need to actually cum and it is always a good way to prime me for the next round

Its true for me. I rarely come from oral.

Now, its mostly just one of the things we do while getting each other off.

I'll give you a tip though. Think of intercourse. What gets a guy off? The answer is repetition. Same speed, pressure and sensation.

no girl has ever gotten me to cum through a bj. DOn't get me wrong I love the feeling of it, its just that no one can take me all the way

I never come from getting oral. Not enough empathy, anyway.

Couldn't say, I've honestly never cumed during a BJ.

Nothing has ever worked for me but my own hand or penetration.

maybe its just that ive been lucky enought to get good head....but i usually cum from a good BJ

For me, it depends on many things...how turned on I am and how sensitive the skin is in the area. Even moreso, my partner needs to be enjoying it, else I will have trouble even keeping it up.

When a woman actually does enjoy it and get the hands working, makes eye contact, and maybe even talks dirty...it will pretty much guarantee to take me to places I've never been! On the flip side, you have women that treat it like it's a popsicle that got dropped in dogshit...asking me if I'm "close" every 30 seconds so they can just get the deed done with. Oh, and having a spit cup is NOT sexy. We end up having to find something else to do...

That's just what they tell girls that don't give good head.

I kid, I kid!

There's another reason that hasn't been addressed, like my wife and I, treat blowjobs and eating pussy as foreplay, meaning leading to sex, so when getting head, I usually stop her when I feel like I might cum, so I can make sweet fuckaroo to her...

I don't think I've ever not come from a blowjob.

I rarely orgasm from oral sex. By the time I'm even getting close, my partner is complaining from chapped lips, a raw tongue, and a sore mouth, so she's unlikely to finish.

I know women probably think it's sexy, but licking and kissing, and even ball fondling doesn't really do much for me. PaulNikon is right, repetition. Girls who master the art of Repetition will give good head every time.

I just haven't found many who've mastered the art, I guess.

Now... about that experiment...

I've been told this by a couple of guys, and I've never seen any reason to disbelieve them. Everybody's different, and while it could be because these guys haven't gotten a *good* blowjob, it could just be that that isn't what does it for them. Oh well. That's the great thing about sex - there are so many other ways to please your partner!! ^_^

Heehee!

Every guy is different. I've been told even by the ones who don't get off from oral that I'm pretty good at it. That being said, even though I'm supposed to be good at it, there are always a couple that you just can't get off that way everytime, or in some cases, at all. There'll be a couple you can finish in 2 minutes. I've only been able to finish off my current partner from blowjob-only once, and I've had no complaints from him. Besides, like someone else said- blowjobs are foreplay. I only want to finish a guy off that quickly if he's rubbish in bed and I want to be getting home.

Besides- on the challenging ones it forces you to pull out the whole bag of tricks, and to develop new ones. It only makes you better at what you do!

Personally it takes some real effort for me to orgasm from a BJ but I will tell you this, It means the world to me. I just love the intimacy of it, watching it done (you have to do it so the guy can see it going in your mouth ) and a woman who will happily swallow, lick it clean, and get it hard again for a good pounding is worth her weight in platinum.

Hey, I always go down on my woman, and i'll spend an hour down there, my tonque is buff.

Yeah, it's really pretty hard for me to get off that way too. And if it's the second or third time around in a particular session, you can pretty much forget it.

I still love it though, and there's nothing better than a girl who really makes an effort.

I've had a lot of blowjobs, never came. Not once. Not even close.

Then again, none of the girls were very patient/skilled, so I don't know...but I mean, I have mad crazy endurance, I can go for a full hour in bed without stopping. So for me, the answer is "true".