Dirty Talk...NO REALLY

So, in the thows of passion, do you dirty talk? And if so, where does it usually go? I normailly find myself muttering the same stuff, but I still think it's a big turn on.

You?

[Edited on Jan 19, 2003 by Inara]

I've never been with a vocal guy...

and I hate to be the one making all the conversation.

word. i love to dirty talk, but come ON! you gotta give a little, too!

If someone even whispers something dirty to me....whew. That's all it takes to get me going.

I want lots of detailed descriptions, too. I have entire relationships built on dirty talk.

I have found that dirty talk works quiet well to get with the ladies. I also discovered from several girls that i make primal animal noises in the thrallls of lovin. which i dont hear at all. But besides that I am not a vcocal guy all that much. I tried phone sex once and it actually worked...that was interesting. But yeah I got a sexy voice and I guess that helps. cHUCKLES
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haha, I was always a nervous wreak during sex... until I realized how damned comfortable I was with my (now, ex) girlfriend. I could actaully like tell jokes during sex, it was amazingly arrousing to be that comfortable with someone, and to see her smile was the hottest thing ever...

she was probably laughing at my peepee, but lets say it was my keen sence of humor, ok?!?

Meh. I never censor what comes outta my mouth...especially during sex. I like my partner to feel super comfortable too, obviously. I like the mention above about being able to tell jokes during sex, that gets huge gold stars...

Dirty talk is required in sex otherwise how would you make obscene commands to your slave ?

it definietly helps out, the ladies seem to like to it, and I have been quite nicely suprised at how well girls are at it when they find it is alright for them to do it too. Alot the same stuff is said, but still a great turn on and can always heat things up.

[Edited on Jan 22, 2003 by Prudence]

Phone sex.
If you haven't tried, look for the classifieds and look for your local chat line. they usually give you a free two hour or so trial. it is good for the uninitiated to cut their teeth on, no pun intended. You can send these little messages to each other until you are ready to accept and talk one on one. did that make sense? the point was to tell you about this one woman/girl/she said she was 26 who's vibrator was so loud i could barely hear her. i giggled, but it sure was fun. this is a good way to get used to not feeeling awkward with a wonderful thing, especially all you SG folks who live so far away from your lovers. It can be so wonderful especially if you know the person. Try calling your lover at work. He'll/she'll/it'll be your forever if you so desire.

Phone text.
Last summer was the summer of love. I had a phone text message relationship with a person i met once, but we continued with naughty phone text for a couple of months. I'm in the middle of one with a friend these days. ten cents per text = fun. if it is good, like the one i have now, you get excited just re-reading the old messages the next day...what, girls can talk about masturbation here and i can't??

(edited cos my freezing comp is a grammar hacker)

[Edited on Jan 20, 2003 by kid607]

dirty talk is SUCH a turn on. ooooooooh yes.

i dated a guy for 3 years who lived in another state so phone sex was the only sex we had...

i was pretty young at the time and now it's kind of ingrained in me as something terribly sexy. i just love to hear those secret desires and the things you're embarrassed to say but let slip out anyway.

whew... oh yeah.

three cheers!

last summer, i dated a girl on and off who had a freakishly, outlandishly high pitched voice. she sounded like an 8 years old. of course, every word that came out of her mouth sounded sexy. but one time, we were having sex, and she began saying 'its in me, its in me, its in me, its in me...'. at first i was really, really aroused, but she kept doing it, and it got a little strange and gross, and of course, i couldn't tell her to stop. that would have ruined the moment. that is neither here nor there, just something to share.

I channel an old cranky man that screams obcenities in italian during sex. Unfortunatly I speak no italian...

Talking dirty can be a HUGE turn on. But with a new partner I used to feel hesitant (when I was single). I really wish there was a system of lapel pins like one set of colors do denote sexual preference(s), Interests (toe sucking, on top, oral fixation, dirty talk, cuddle / no cuddle, stick around for breakfast or get the fuck out. Ah that would have made life so much easier when meeting people...

Edited because I can't type worth a damn tonight.

[Edited on Jan 21, 2003 by Sebsis]

Dirty talk is such a turn on for me. When I'm having sex, I really can't help it, the words just tumble out. The only problem is I've never dated a guy who even MADE NOISE AT ALL during sex. So here I am talkin and screaming, while they're quiet as a mouse....I'd like some reciprocation please.

I have a terrible habit of occassionally crackin really bad jokes.

heh i always come off like a dumbass...it just doesn't seem genuine, like i'm trying to be funny

oh, the whole phone sex thing...i run the front register at at a pharmacy/convenience store, and just before closing one night the guy in photo lab was cracking up on the phone and he waved me over and handed it to me...i didn't recognize the voice at first, but one of the workers from pharmacy was attempting to have "phone sex" with him while he was at work...he just wasn't playing along, he thought it was hysterical...then she paused and was like "are you there?" and i just said "yeah, hey mrs carol, jackie had to run to the back room so i'll be taking over for a bit" hee hee hee...she started laughing and hung up, now she turns beet red every time she sees me but gets a good laugh out of it

The first girl I made out with found my "mmm..."s annoying.

I've been self-censoring ever since!

i've been known to chat it up from time to time.

Dirty talkin rules. I had an old girlfriend train me in the ways of the darkside of the Force. I cant even remember what sex was like before. It makes most girls uncomfortable at first , but overall it has been a benifit.

I don't all the time, but sometimes, it just feels right. I mean how can you have hot monkee love without talkin' nasty? But sometimes when things are, i dunno, I guess tender is the work I'm looking for it would just ruin it.

Phone sex? Oh yes, well sort of. I love talking dirty.... but most of all, I love being coy. I get sleepy and tend to get a (what i've been told) a phone sex type of voice Guys dig it I'm lovin' it...

well like ive said before, ive never actually had sex... but i know that when im beating off, i dont make a sound, unless im specifically trying to.. but 99 percent of the time, silent... so i imagine that i wouldnt be much different in the sack, unless someone brought it out in me, or tried it first... seems like more of a foreplay thing to me anyway...