Ladies... lesbian? straight? bi?

So it's like this... I identify myself as a straight girl. I like boys and thier cocks and don't really have any interest in being with girls, although it is a recurring fantasy. It could just be that I've yet to meet a girl who did it for me aside from physical cuteness... so I guess I'm a wee bit confused on the subject, and sorting all this stuff out is part of the reason I decided to join the site...
Anyhoo, I'm curious if there are any other straigt girls out there who are into looking at and fantasizing about other girls, but are nonetheless content with hetero sex. Anybody...?

Yeah. I consider myself a straight girl. I love men. However, I think women are beautiful. I've just never gotten further than kissing them. Maybe I just need to meet the right girl....

Straight......the closest I've gotten to kissing a girl is on New Year's when I grandma-pecked my friend Lauren. And that was it. But chicks are beautiful.....

I'm content with certain people, regardless of gender.

I think men are just as beautiful as women, but I know I'm in a minority there. It seems to me that women prefer to look at nudes of women, even though they're straight.

Of course, it may be a slippery slope...I started just liking nude photos of women. And now I identify as bi. Sexuality can transform over time.

I've been thinking about this, too... If I watch a video of two women making out, it turns me on. But when I think about it, it's not necessarily that I'm imagining getting it on with a girl... but seeing a woman in the throes of passion, so to speak, is a turn-on. Seeing anyone in an erotic way like that can be a turn-on, just because it reminds you of how you feel in that same situation... whether or not you're straight or bi or whatever. (using the general "you" there) I think it's more like a gradient with me and my friends... there's people that are very very straight... those that are very very gay... and then those, like me, that, while basically straight... can see women as sexually attractive in a way. Sorta. Yknow?

That about hits the nail on the head.
Thanks for sharing

To quote Brian Molko:

"I don't believe in the categorisation of desire, why we have to choose these tags for ourselves. I'd say that sexuality is very fluid and I think it changes from month to month. The way that I feel certainly does. If I were to put any kind of tag on it I'd just say that I was Sexual."

I like to call it the On/Off Switch. I know what I like, I just never know when.

Jenna

I kinda went backwards on this. Well.. a long time ago I thought I was straight (like in middle school.) Then came high school and I thought I was bi... I dated a female for a while. And then in college I dated another girl. I always was attracted to both sexes, but for a while I just couldn't see myself dating a guy again. Uhh-- but now i have a boyfriend. And i've noticed it's harder to say you're bi when you have a bf then to say it when you have a gf. Not that it should matter what anyone else thinks-- I mean, fuck them all. But still... I almost feel guilty because I used to be all annoyed w/ the girls who dated boys and called themselves bi. Ah, i'm such a hypocrite when it all comes down to it. Now, I guess I just know better- people can love/fuck whoever they want whenever they want. Sexuality labels are bullshit. That's all I know so far.

i am bi. and always have identified myself as such. i am content with hetero sex... i mean, i get off all. but i enjoy other sexual ventures as well.. i mean, who knows a girl best than another girl? being bi is about people... to me it is just being open-minded. i love the person for who they are not what lies between their legs (or what doesn't i should say)
but as to your question, it is so normal for girls to fantasize about other girls... i mean, girls are positively beautiful etc. so, good for you about realizing that and not being all weird about your feelings for girls.

i prefer the terms 'half-gay' or 'greedy.'




that was a joke. i like to kiss boys and girls. i just happen to kiss boys more often because they're easier to find.

This is a topic that has been going through my mind like crazy! I consider myself bi even though I have a wonderful man to be with. I haven't been with a chick, but I know I want to, it's just something I need to experience I guess being with another woman is a dream I haven't quite caught yet.

This is a topic that has been going through my mind like crazy! I consider myself bi even though I have a wonderful man to be with. I haven't been with a chick, but I know I want to, it's just something I need to experience I guess being with another woman is a dream I haven't quite caught yet.

I considered myself a lesbian for a long time... but one that was attracted to ftm's as well, so I dunno... just used the term 'queer', but lesbian for those who weren't familiar. I do enjoy making out with boys though... so I guess I think of myself as bi but leaning towards girls. *shrugs* Sexuality can be so complex...

And actually, hah, I realized I also liked boys a bit at the SG parties. So this site has made me question my sexuality! But not in the way I thought it would.

hey it took me 4yrs to decide what i was was..so i tooka long time and i never experimented..but the only reaason i knnow i'm bi is cause atracted to both sexes in a sexual manner and i can see myself having relathionship with either sex

“Once I had sex with a woman and I went through this whole thing, like, ‘Am I gay? Am I straight?’ And I realized, I’m just slutty. Where’s my parade? What about slut pride?”
--Margaret Cho, "I'm The One That I Want"

I'm 50% lesbian, 50% straight, 100% bisexual.

Look around! What's not to love about girls?

<3

HAHAH, omg, that's great. I really need to see her sometime.

You most definitely do! both "I'm The One That I Want" and "Notorious CHO" are available on video. Make it a Blockbuster night and prepare to laugh your butt off!

Margaret Cho rocks my socks!

You're so funny. And yes it is very easy to find boys to kiss.

i hate labels more then anything. i go through phases where i despise guys beyond belief and i would get to the point where i wouldn't even look em in the eye. i am more attrached to girls then guys by far. i would choose a girl over a guy. but i see it as either i fall inlove with a guy or girl i do not look at the gender i look at them as to who they are not what they are.