Furry Guilt

That's what I was expecting too. There's a whole subculture out there who would totally hijack this thread.

Not that I'm among them, or anything. Nope, nope, nope, not me. No way.

I have totally experienced Furry Guilt. You should get a nickel every time someone says it.

I think the guy should have a say in how much (or how little) the girl grows on her bonsai tree. Maybe not the FINAL say, but I think that area is for both of you to enjoy, and if the guy is turned off by something (or lack thereof) I think the girl should really think about how much trouble it really is to trim to his preference. If the girl I'm with doesn't like beards, I don't grow a beard (not to compare beards to bushes). And for every guy that likes it smooth, I'm sure there's one that likes the jungle.

The last girl I was with categorically REFUSED to shave all her pubes, even though she knew that I'm really turned off by any body hair on a girl (Am I sick? Am I perverted? Well who isn't?). We fought about it for THREE YEARS until I got diagnosed with Cancer and I think she felt bad, so she shaved for me. Then she kept doing it because she liked it. But by this time our relationship had deteriorated so much that it didn't matter (she had other problems, like being a selfish cheating liar). I still feel really bad for fighting all those years, and vowed to be more accepting of folicles in the future.

Well, the first time I removed my new girlfriend's panties, I nearly screamed. She had hair from navel to anus and EVERYWHERE in between. But given my previous bad karma, I decided not to say a word about it. I experienced "Furry Guilt" (EXCELLENT term, btw, if you take is as feeling bad about not liking your g/f's pubes, but not having the balls to say anything) almost to the point of breaking up with her, because I was so disgusted with myself for not being attracted to her simply because of her hair. Luckily, she just picked up in a passing conversation that I liked shaved girls, so she's shaving everything now and she's getting waxed next week. I didn't ask her to do it, so I don't feel guilty at all. She did it for me, and that's why she's a keeper.

I'm not into furries at all, but since I'm a giant Platypus, I tend to date people who are into that kind of thing.....Weirdos.
As far as shaving goes, I've mentioned in the past to people I was with that it's easier to lick it without the hair, and the head seems better; That's usually a good selling point there, but your mileage may vary.....
I find a bit of a trim makes the whole operation smoother.

Say what you will, but Taureolt doesn't have shit on brinstar.

Does anyone else feel me on this or am I all alone?

It's simple. He has every right to ask her to shave. His girl has every right to tell him to fuck off, because it's her hair, and her naughty bits.

There's nothing wrong with telling your partner what turns you on/off. It takes realistic expectations, however, If a hairy cooch is a deal breaker, that's YOUR issue, not the woman's. If shaving is not something the woman's into, that's HER business. Move on, and find someone who loves the bic. Or, realize that the good parts of the relationship far outweigh having to pull hairs out of your teeth from time to time, and get the hell over it.

Wow, this being a friend of yours, and trying to make general statements, have my pronouns all over the damn place. And I am far too drunk to be expected to deal with that.

I came to this thread thinking I was going to see someone in a cat, tiger, or some kind of other animal costume

that was a pretty good response for being drunk.

Wait, since when has it been socially unacceptable to express a preference about body hair? I have always expressed a preference for less hair to my significant others. *shrugs* The "it's healthier" argument doesn't seem very compelling to me, since any protective function seems likely to be marginal at best; plus, it doesn't really explain male pubic hair.

I'm like comming from Europe

guess that does disqualify me from having any opinion published on this matter...

[Edited on Mar 29, 2006 by BareKroell]

Yeah what he said.

Armpit hair is gross. I trim mine and often consider shaving them. I perfer a woman without armpit hair. As far as the vag goes, all I ask is that it's trimmed a little. I find it annoying when I'm going down on someone and have to thumb aside a lock of pubes to get to her clit. Not to mention if the hair around her lips is too long, it sometimes gets pulled in an causes me a little chaffing. I trim my pubes because I find it more comfortable, and I have a little dick so it looks bigger!

hahhaha way to go

But brinstar gave us This thread.

why doesn't he ask her if he can shave her?