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existentialsex4

existentialsex4

I'm lost
October 2007

JUL 01, 2009 09:41 PM

I’ve known women who have gotten a vasectomy and found them sexier than some girls with huge breasts or small breasts; I’ve also known girls with small breasts who I found incredibly sexy and girls with huge breasts who I have found equally sexy. One might suggest that I liked the whole woman and not the breasts but I’m inclined to disagree. Women with vasectomies might be more sensitive around the area of their scar and the fact that I could kiss it and drive her wild I find incredibly sexy. So do I find her breasts, or lack of breasts sexy? I’m inclined to say that I do. One might say that I find her confidence in her body and sexuality sexy. But I could easily imagine a woman who has small breasts who is uncomfortable about her breasts, and allows me to share in her discomfort as sexy. I find some of the answers on this thread interesting, but not surprising, since these are the answers we often see. “It all depends on personal preference...anything between sizes ______ and ______.... a handful is good”. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not criticizing people’s views about breast size, you can have whatever preference you want and make sexual choices based on that. But, I guess I question the dichotomies and preferences that I might “naturally” make about what I desire, or what I find attractive, or sexy. I find often times when I make these ascetic decisions they make me uncomfortable, because it excludes some people that I don’t think should be excluded. In addition if we take into account my sympathies towards feminist philosophies, then I find the particular exclusions we make about the certain groups of women we think are “pretty” even more questionable. Let me re-iterate I’m not criticizing peoples preferences, but I find it intriguing how we often find these so called preferences entirely legitimate and unquestionably acknowledge them as true in a sense since “they are MY own preferences, and you might have your own preferences...”. So, to conclude, I don’t know if I can answer this question because sometimes it is difficult not to answer this question without it resulting in exclusions that I think are largely illegitimate. If I were to conceptualized my preference or my views on what I find sexy, I guess I would say “What I find sexy is the complex sum of attitudes and thoughts I have about bodies, other people’s bodies that are not my own, their attitudes, combined with acceptance and touch”. (lol sorry if this was a bit harsh, but Fhire said be blunt and honest so I am)

saliv8

saliv8

Australia
August 2006

JUL 01, 2009 11:43 PM


what the hell!
i hate to break it to you but the women you know who have had vasectomys are men!
great way to start a post dude

existentialsex4

existentialsex4

I'm lost
October 2007

JUL 01, 2009 11:53 PM

saliv8 said:

what the hell!
i hate to break it to you but the women you know who have had vasectomys are men!
great way to start a post dude



Actually they had breast cancer...I was thinking masectomy or lumpectomy. hahaha. I can't belileve I wrote vasectomy, meh it was an honest mistake. THEY SOUND THE SAME!

MisterSatan

MisterSatan

Portland, OR
August 2002

JUL 01, 2009 11:57 PM

zoom image

SirLazarusCries

SirLazarusCries

Westerville, OH
May 2008

JUL 02, 2009 12:46 AM

I should hang that picture up at work.

Suri

Suri

SUICIDEGIRL

Pennsylvania, USA

JUL 02, 2009 12:12 PM

existentialsex4 said:

Actually they had breast cancer...I was thinking masectomy or lumpectomy. hahaha. I can't belileve I wrote vasectomy, meh it was an honest mistake. THEY SOUND THE SAME!



Yes!! a man who digs lumpectamys!! step aside girls, i think i found my niche

Kittie

Kittie

Stow, OH
August 2003

JUL 03, 2009 08:36 AM

existentialsex4 said:

saliv8 said:

what the hell!
i hate to break it to you but the women you know who have had vasectomys are men!
great way to start a post dude



Actually they had breast cancer...I was thinking masectomy or lumpectomy. hahaha. I can't belileve I wrote vasectomy, meh it was an honest mistake. THEY SOUND THE SAME!



bahahaha!

darkgodz

darkgodz

Katy, TX
August 2003

JUL 03, 2009 10:24 AM

Fhire said:
Do you men find smaller tits ok? Alot of guys say it doesnt matter but are bigger better? And dont be nice, the blunt harsh truth please



its not about size. its about shape. small, medium, large...

if they are all skewed or flat or weird i say no.

silversoul7

silversoul7

Portland, OR
January 2008

JUL 03, 2009 11:07 AM

I have to admit, while small tits aren't a deal-breaker for me, I prefer to have something I can grab a hold of. Something that will bounce when they run(or when we're fucking), and something that I can smother my face in. That doesn't mean they have to be huge, but I've got to have something to work with. And they've gotta be real.

Kouvre

Kouvre

Moline, IL
April 2006

JUL 04, 2009 10:25 AM

I'm an equal opportunity nipple-sucker, but I'll be honest and say I prefer them a bit larger. Real only though, please.

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