Not enough sex...

You might need to spice up your sex life. Get some toys, new pornos, and some lingerie. Play by yourself, that way you dont need him. And when he sees that you dont want to have sex with him all the time. He 's going to start getting curious. And I think that the fact that he only last 10 minutes is because he is comfortable, just like when women start to gain weight. You reach a level where you dont want to give the extra work. My bf and I went through this...communication is key. Tell him how you feel, instead of thinking he should know how you feel.

Agreed. Sometimes the easiest place to start are the rule-outs. Has he been to a doctor recently, had a physical? It's easy for him to request a hormone profile. What's his job/school stress level and how does he handle it, if he handles it at all (does he ignore it, drink it away, etc etc)? Has he lost enthusiasm for other activities he used to enjoy? When did his drop in sex drive start? Any noticable triggers in his/your shared life?

Medical rule-outs are easy, psychological not so much. Is the only area of your life being affected your sex life, or are there other issues that you two are not addressing?

Good luck.

Thanks for all the advice and such. I am going to try some things. He said he has been stressed lately and we need to discuss that more.
Have a great day!

I feel your pain. My wife has some medical issues, including a condition that makes sex painful. Between the pain and the medications, or sex life is almost non-existant - maybe once a month.

You don't always have to use a penis to get your partner off. I agree with what Al said. Sometimes i would be dead tired, but i would still find the energy to get up and pleasure my girlfriend.