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crazygrrl

crazygrrl

Boulder, CO
September 2002

JAN 08, 2003 10:03 AM

I am going out to buy my first strap-on this weekend and I was wondering what advice all of you veterans have for a newbie user. I've never used one (or had one used on me) before, so what kinds of things should I be aware of when selecting and using one? Length? Width? Color? Shape? Lube? Built-in vibration? Nubs? Latex vs. elastic? Etc...

treehugger

treehugger

Netherlands
OLD SKOOL

JAN 08, 2003 10:07 AM

i wouldn,t know, but as a vegan, i thought it was cool they sell them at
veganerotica

thats all i know about it

Winter

Winter

I'm lost
December 2002

JAN 08, 2003 10:14 AM

That is one cool site, treehugger! biggrin

Here is all the strap-on info you could ever want and more...

http://www.straponloversguide.com/info.shtml

Shal

Shal

Los Angeles, CA
October 2002

JAN 08, 2003 10:16 AM

Lube. Definitly lube, and lots of it. And be gentle and patient with your partner (at least at first eeek ), or you'll never get the chance for a repeat performance.

As far as color, shape, length, width... unless you have a strong personal preference, it's really best to coordinate with your partner on that one. wink

[Edited on Jan 08, 2003 by Shalome]

sixsixty

sixsixty

Oakland, CA
OLD SKOOL

JAN 08, 2003 10:19 AM

if you got the money. it's all about the vegas strap-on. the rockstar of strap-ons.

here is a link to goodvibrations: vegas strap-on

they don't have the best picture of it, but trust me it is fucking awesome. glittery pink and white shiny vinyl.

ver0nika23

ver0nika23

New Orleans, LA
OLD SKOOL

JAN 08, 2003 10:26 AM

i have a harness from good vibrations, and i love it. generally i use vixen's nexus dildo for the business end of things. this is definitly something that you want to spend a good bit of money on. when we were first expirimenting with strap-ons we got a cheapo deal that did not work at all. the nexus dildo is nice, as one end of it fits inside of you and provides more stability and sensation. whatever dildo you choose, make sure that it is not too long and use lots of lube. silicone is the best because it can be sterilized-otherwise use a condom.

t12117174

t12117174

Thailand
September 2002

JAN 08, 2003 10:26 AM

Damn, that's hot. Strap-ons.

I haven't had one used on me (someday <sigh>), or used one on another, but I highly recommend anything jelly, although, if you choose one that also vibrates, jelly doesn't conduct the vibrations all that well, cuz it's an insulator.

Have fun and rock on!!! -t.

gobuildinhell

gobuildinhell

Vallejo, CA
January 2003

JAN 08, 2003 11:53 AM

Dunno if yer doin guys or girls, but if you plan on sticking that up anybodys butt, i reccommend "liquid silk" for the lube. stuff rocks. i know. its made by bodywise limited but you can get it almost anywhere.

Roxy

Roxy

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

JAN 08, 2003 07:00 PM

There's not much I can add that hasn't already been said, but I felt the need to post here.

I've had one used on me, and have used one on a chick. They're great fun smile I'm not sure if you're after using this on a guy or girl... but for a boy I would suggest something on the smallish side, definitely. Especially if it's new to him. Start him off gently smile

If it's for a chick, well... you can definitely go bigger smile Get something bigger than the average cock, but don't go overboard. The one I used was 8 inches and pretty average girth -- and that was *almost* too much. smile

Whatever you do, have fun!! miao!!

BoxterJulep

BoxterJulep

San Francisco, CA
October 2002

JAN 08, 2003 08:07 PM

I know this lesbian couple...

okay, so they are huge and they said they like to wrap the strap-on around their thighs for better leverage from behind. It's not like a guy can detach his dick (at least I don't know of this occurring) and stick it on his leg although he could just as easily...but what's the point?

They didn't give me any details on what kind of strap-on and I didn't particularly care to ask.

cozybear

cozybear

Canada
November 2002

JAN 08, 2003 08:11 PM

I'd highly recommend silicone as well. They feel great, can be sterilized, stay warm after they're in warm water and don't get icky after a while like the cheaper ones do. Go with smaller than you think. Those damn cocks always look smaller in the stores, then you get them home try them out and realize that they only looked small. eeek
I bought this harness . I've only used it a few times, but it did it's job. biggrin

[Edited on Jan 08, 2003 by cozybear]

letigre

letigre

Long Beach, CA
October 2002

JAN 08, 2003 08:20 PM

the "terra firma" made by stormy leather is awesome. you can get it at goodvibes.com. and silicone, definitely silicone. oh yeah, and lube is good too. the liquid silk stuff that was mentioned earlier is good stuff. have fun! smile

Soraya

Soraya

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

JAN 08, 2003 08:24 PM

if you can spend the xtra cash definitely get silicone, NOT jelly rubber. jelly rubber is porous, so it will collect bacteria and stuff over time. silicone is non-porous so it can be sterilized. as for getting a good harness and a sood dilicon dildo -i really suggest going to their website:Good Vibrations
They're a woman owned/ worker owned cooperative.
And everyone else pretty much said anything else needed. Also, Vixen Creations has some really good quality silicone dildos.
happy searching. smile

Toreena

Toreena

SUICIDEGIRL

Canada

JAN 08, 2003 08:25 PM

ME doing the fucking.

I can't even imagine.
I would die.
DIE.
Of goodness.

gobuildinhell

gobuildinhell

Vallejo, CA
January 2003

JAN 08, 2003 08:29 PM

All good advice so far. Though as far as roxy's comment, as much as I adore her (just go check the profile) MY opinion is that there is no reason to start a boy off small. My wifey has a BIG fat pink silicon that works for me just fine, as long as you are careful and attentive at first. Startin off small just means the real fun won't happen for a long time. Silicon is the ONLY way to go. Jelly rubber is terrible. But, if youre doing ANYTHING anal, I must reiterate, LIQUID SILK. Love ya roxy smile

gobuildinhell

gobuildinhell

Vallejo, CA
January 2003

JAN 08, 2003 09:06 PM

Wifes birthday is tommorrow. Getting her a new digicam AND a vegas smile she is stoked smile and so am i smile

Edea

Edea

SUICIDEGIRL

New Hampshire, USA

JAN 08, 2003 09:39 PM

if I have one ultimate fantasy it is to try one of these!!!

(with another girl of course!)

biggrin

Surtr

Surtr

Davis, CA
January 2003

JAN 08, 2003 10:41 PM

My last owner fucked me in the ass with a strap-on. Made me feel like a bitch. It was nice.

erm

screwmesa

screwmesa

Mesa, AZ
November 2002

JAN 08, 2003 11:19 PM

you could strap me on! wink

t12117174

t12117174

Thailand
September 2002

JAN 09, 2003 12:21 AM

Great point about the jelly ones. Here's a trick, use a condom over the vibe. Keeps everything clean and it's even easier to clean up after completion... I think I read that at good vibes... ;-)

Ciao! -t.

Twwly

Twwly

SUICIDEGIRL

Ontario, Canada

JAN 09, 2003 09:01 AM

for us canadians, i shop at

www.comeasyouare.com

they're a cooperative sex store that has been putting a smile on my face for years.

crazygrrl

crazygrrl

Boulder, CO
September 2002

JAN 09, 2003 12:33 PM

Edea said:
if I have one ultimate fantasy it is to try one of these!!!
(with another girl of course!)



Yeah, It's been a fantasy of mine for a really, really long time. It may actually come true in the near future! wink

I actually went to Good Vibrations and picked up a terra firma harness and a nice silicone dildo. I'm so excited! Thanks for the great response!

cozybear

cozybear

Canada
November 2002

JAN 09, 2003 04:18 PM

Have you tried it on and posed in from of the mirror yet, whipping your dick around like guys do? wink I know I did. smile

FuneralDoom

FuneralDoom

Helena, AL
August 2002

JAN 09, 2003 04:58 PM

i wouldn't mind a girl using one on me.

fillerbunny

fillerbunny

Cuba
November 2002

JAN 09, 2003 07:28 PM



so daze, wanna try something new?

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