I am very hit and miss. I cum quickly about half the time, slowly a quarter of the time, and not at all the other quarter of the time. And I've noticed it has less to do with my partner and more to do with me. If I'm concentrating too hard or trying something new or in a more "difficult" position, it's just not going to happen. No matter how awesome the other person is. If I am chill, I will cum quickly and multiple times. I think it's because I'm relaxed and just going with my body.
I'm not very sensitive internally, and have never had an orgasm during sex. but I can get off fine on my own, with my special technique haha. the most orgasms I've had in one session was 12, each within 5 minutes of eachother. what a great way to spend an hour!
The last three girls I dated where easy o's. In fact the girl I dated for 3 years could come within 3 minutes if I was on my game. She has had upwards of 10 and once, on shrooms she reached over 20. I've given her multiples, long ones, lots of short ones in succession. She is so easy that I've gotten her to come from playing with her nipples alone and even from anal stimulation. Oral as well, she just gets off alot and easy. So, yes some girls can be really easy, but I'm thinking she was an exception not the rule. Sure was satisfying and extremely fun to watch. I think mental blocks or emotional issues are largely at fault for many of the women not able to do so easily or without lots of work. I would also say that the nature of the relationship can be a factor as well.
ohash said:
I am very hit and miss. I cum quickly about half the time, slowly a quarter of the time, and not at all the other quarter of the time. And I've noticed it has less to do with my partner and more to do with me. If I'm concentrating too hard or trying something new or in a more "difficult" position, it's just not going to happen. No matter how awesome the other person is. If I am chill, I will cum quickly and multiple times. I think it's because I'm relaxed and just going with my body.
Same here. The problem, though, with being the kind of girl that typically gets off easily, is if I'm tired/got a lot on my mind/whatever and I KNOW it's not going to happen and say as much, the boy won't give up anyway. Stupid male ego.
I've experienced both extremes, I guess. I dated at least three women that could come very easily -- between oral and intercourse, we'd average at least 6-10 orgasms at a time, often more. On the other hand, my most recent girlfriend had great difficulty coming from intercourse, so we relied on a lot more foreplay. No complaints either way, though.
depends on the skill of the other person. some have gotten me off, some can get me off constantly (6.. 8 times) in one fucking, and then there are those that leave me doing the work myself later. the last ones are annoying because they usually only care about their own needs and then that's it.
My pleasure comes from getting the girls off as many times as they can. It makes me so fucking hard! Sometimes I can't get off unless my girl does. Why don't you boys take a lesson?
ohash said:
I am very hit and miss. I cum quickly about half the time, slowly a quarter of the time, and not at all the other quarter of the time. And I've noticed it has less to do with my partner and more to do with me. If I'm concentrating too hard or trying something new or in a more "difficult" position, it's just not going to happen. No matter how awesome the other person is. If I am chill, I will cum quickly and multiple times. I think it's because I'm relaxed and just going with my body.
ditto...
I am pretty quick sometimes. Other times I might not cum at all. Generally I will cum in about a couple of minutes or so... if I am masturbating it takes me less than 1 minute.
Ah, lucky bastards. I've only ever had one orgasm. ever. I can't even make it happen myself! The one and only time it ever happened was during oral sex.
Edited to add: This may be why I have such high anxiety...
ElizaTheTroll
Australia
January 2006
AUG 27, 2007 05:02 AM