If you're bored with what you're doing, then stop doing it.
As we've established, you don't care for the women you shag.
When you find a woman you do care for, and get to shag her, I'd give good odds you'll find it enjoyable again.
To say it ever so slightly differently:
If easy sex from women you find in bars (or wherever you find them) has ceased to entertain you, set your sights on sex that does entertain you. Or on something else entirely. Stop wasting your nights.
Yes, bringing home ye random bar floozy is easy. Getting her into bed is easy, its not rocket science, they are human with hormones, just like you. Now lets pretend you can stop bragging about how much game you have for a second, and concentrate on your problem.
too much of one thing can become a bad thing. For example, chocolate, it's good as shit if you haven't had it in a while. But take one day and eat nothing but chocolate and see if you still want it after two hours. It just gets boring, and at some point, gross.
Yeah. you just made our points for us.
When chocolate (sex) becomes gross or boring, you have the choice to stop doing it. Then when you come back to it, it will be infinetly better. This is made harder if you are a sexaholic (yes... it happens, honestly). You will also have to put your player-esque ego in the bag until you sort it out.
Another mental block to the enjoyment of sex could be the death of your wife so recently ago - a trying experience for anyone. Basically my advice is - if it doesn't feel right, don't do it. Your body will tell you when it will feel right again.
When we're bored over here we watch Law & Order SVU and try to recreate the most heinous, sexually based offenses. I like the perp and victim routine but I love when I get to be Ice-T. And he's Olivia, duh.
hotcurry
Los Angeles, CA
June 2004
NOV 28, 2005 02:34 PM