Masterbation........I need to understand something

With women.................they only do it when they want to do it and they don't want or need to do it all that often.

With men..................have to do it, its a requirement, a week cannot pass without this nessesary action to relieve pressure on a currently idling libido.



This is my bias so far between the genders.............

what are your thoughts?

I'd... respond...but... must... masturbate!!

Well you're applying masturbation habits to someone of a certain age and mindset, and possibly nationality.

Yeah, it depends on alot of factors. My person masturbates 2-3 times a day apparently. I mean..that would hurt me.

Yeah next girlfriend has to be a nympho

Proof positive that it varies. Sometimes I go months without masturbating. With a gf, it doesn't need to happen most of the time nowadays. However, I did jerk off 8 times last sunday, so you never know.

With women, you can't put them in a separate status as far as libido goes. It all depends on their libido. Some women have one, some don't (I'm from the christian south, and some really DONT).

With all due respect: You don't know a whole lot about women, do you?

I think, most people don't know a whole lot about people. I think the problem is that people try and figure people out as a whole, when obviously we are all different.

As for the masturbation thing, I forgot what I was going to say, I got distracted.

I don't disagree, but this statement was just so patently silly and based on (likely) this guy's interaction with at most one or two women (if that).

OK. How about this: How many women reading this thread ever feel like they "want to" masturbate relatively often? Because I guarantee you it's a large percentage.

Does this person know either gender that well????
I think they are off on both...then again...I have gf...so maybe I am off.

Well the pic messages I get on my phone from the girl that works at the Vets office tells me different, and it's about 2 to 3 times a day. I think it's a cry for help

If the opening thread poster understood as a result of this thread that the word is

mastUrbation

rather than

mastErbation

I think we'd have made some small progress at least.

Anyway, I heard that girl creatures only ever masturbate during a full moon.

Id respond to this better but my keys on my puter are sticky from all the jizz I spew on them once a week.

Yeah I live in the south and know what you mean. Goddamn hate that song from the Georgia Satellites no huggy no kissy 'till you buy me ring bullshit. That's why I like the SGs.

BTW, I masturbated ealier. It was very disappointing.

You know I think the real question is why do us guys still masturbate even when we have wives and/or girlfiends. I think it's like that guy said in the movie Frida when was explaining why he was cheating on Salma Hayek "It was nothing, it was like shaking a hand..."

Funny thing is, my wife and I have been pretty active lately, but yesterday I thought to myself, "I haven't spanked it in awhile, I'll do that tomorrow while she's at work." Last night I was orally pleasured, but still today I... manually pleasured myself. But I only did so, because I had already planned on doing so... it was pointless and it sucked. I tried switching hands and everything.

We all thought so too.

It really is hard to type while masturbating, have to keep switch hands for the different sides of the keyboard...

Used to spank it all the time back when I was married. Not so much anymore, can't even remember the last time (two or three weeks ago maybe?), my girlfriend keeps the need away.

Maybe also it keeps us monogamous. Or disease free. My life would be more of mess than it already is if I went for every chick that came along. But it really does feel natural and healthy to have a sex drive. These uptight prudes around here in Charlotte are the ones who are sick. My 2cents....

amateur

I fully agree with you. It seems to me that most women crave intimacy over sex and most men crave sex over intimacy. I'm not saying women don't enjoy sex and men don't enjoy intimacy, sometimes I'd much rather cuddle then have sex and I'm a guy. So I find in even the most healthy relationships, that Men trade Intimacy for Sex and Women trade Sex for Intimacy.

It seems to me that's just how we are wired. When you look at the basic model of male/female vaginal sex. Most men always climax and when they do that's the end of the act, because they lose rigidity of the member which is what was simulating the woman. So the woman may or may not climax by the end of the act. Since this is the case, women derive intimacy from the act, which is more important to them. I've heard many women say they don't care about climaxing during sex because it's all about sharing themselves with their lover and that if they want to they can climax by themselves.

Sorry, if that came off like a high school health class, but I've always been fascinated by the differences between men and women, so I've studied up on it and have several theories about it. Case in point, my research has only been conducted on American men and women from the ages of 18 to 30.

[Edited on Nov 25, 2005 by Weapon0]

8 TIMES!!! Good God, Man. Do you have any skin left on it?

My personal record is 3 or 4 times in a day.

[Edited on Nov 25, 2005 by Weapon0]