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fotopimp

fotopimp

San Francisco, CA
May 2004

NOV 28, 2005 09:43 AM

Tadzi said:

shogun221 said:
1) The cutest women are generally either going to be taken, or assumed taken.


never assume. youre defeating yourself before even trying.


2) They also are going to make most guys assume they have no chance. "out of one's league." Guys have to put their pride on the line each and every time they ask someone out, and beautiful women are often "high risk" since all else being equal the guy is more likely to care about being rejected by her and more likely to be rejected.


rejection is a part of life. if someone cant deal with it, then they need to grow thicker skin.


3) Even if a guy assumes a girl is into her, he's going to have to deal with a TON of other guys constantly beating down her door. This can be taxing. We all have jealousy complexes, and having your girlfriend constantly getting offers by "rival males" can be an awkward position, especially when you're all but assured that some guy who is taller, better looking, richer etc is likely to come-a-calling and try and take her away from you.


i disagree...if a guy has any self esteem, trust in a girl hes seeing, and faith in the relationship, then he shouldnt be looking over their collective shoulder constantly, or if he is, then he seriously needs to reevaluate himself before involving himself with another person.

besides, if a girl is that fickle that shes going to ditch a guy for someone else on a whim, fuck her. shes not worth the time.

4) Beautiful women are more likely to have princess complexes due to having men fall all over them for their affections.


many of the most beautiful girls i know dont realize or believe they are beautiful. and as for girls with princess complexes, see the second paragraph in my response above.




WORD! ARRR!!!

shogun221

shogun221

Pittsburgh, PA
April 2005

NOV 28, 2005 09:54 AM

Tadzi said:

shogun221 said:
1) The cutest women are generally either going to be taken, or assumed taken.


never assume. youre defeating yourself before even trying.


2) They also are going to make most guys assume they have no chance. "out of one's league." Guys have to put their pride on the line each and every time they ask someone out, and beautiful women are often "high risk" since all else being equal the guy is more likely to care about being rejected by her and more likely to be rejected.


rejection is a part of life. if someone cant deal with it, then they need to grow thicker skin.


3) Even if a guy assumes a girl is into her, he's going to have to deal with a TON of other guys constantly beating down her door. This can be taxing. We all have jealousy complexes, and having your girlfriend constantly getting offers by "rival males" can be an awkward position, especially when you're all but assured that some guy who is taller, better looking, richer etc is likely to come-a-calling and try and take her away from you.


i disagree...if a guy has any self esteem, trust in a girl hes seeing, and faith in the relationship, then he shouldnt be looking over their collective shoulder constantly, or if he is, then he seriously needs to reevaluate himself before involving himself with another person.

besides, if a girl is that fickle that shes going to ditch a guy for someone else on a whim, fuck her. shes not worth the time.

4) Beautiful women are more likely to have princess complexes due to having men fall all over them for their affections.


many of the most beautiful girls i know dont realize or believe they are beautiful. and as for girls with princess complexes, see the second paragraph in my response above.




I'm not claiming all men, or all hot women do act or should act like this...I'm just pointing out some things that can narrow the pool down. Some might pass it off as just weeding out the weak and insecure.

VioletRed

VioletRed

Ferndale, MI
October 2004

NOV 28, 2005 10:06 AM

Cunty said:

ClubsBabyJesus said:

Margate said:
insulting al does not a good first post make...

cunty made me laugh, though smile



She took my answer




Pretty much. ooo aaa




biggrin tongue i think i am in love love

Deelishus_Weenie

Deelishus_Weenie

Australia
June 2005

NOV 28, 2005 02:32 PM

Morgan said:
There's a lot more to finding a relationship than just being hot and finding someone you're attracted to.

First you gotta find someone you think is hot who thinks you're hot too.
Then you gotta be compatible personality wise.
THEN you both gotta be mature enough and stable enough to actually BE in a relationship.
THEN you have to deal with the problems that will eventually come, because every relationship will have problems.
THEN you have to keep up the attraction and interest throughout all that...

Wow, all that made me feel really really tired.



Nah, that's easy. The hard part is telling someone when you can't be bothered continuing, because that means you stop getting all the niceness.

NICENESS!

I submit that none of the women the OP mentioned were actually single - they just told him that in order to make their rejection of him even more painful. Yay them! -- I guess.

hotcurry

hotcurry

Los Angeles, CA
June 2004

NOV 28, 2005 02:45 PM

Because they'd rather be single than date the likes of you!!!!

traceelement

traceelement

Australia
March 2005

NOV 28, 2005 04:54 PM

because they haven't met me yet obviously biggrin

TheFuckOffKid

TheFuckOffKid

NEWSWIRE

Australia

NOV 28, 2005 05:32 PM

Cuntalicious.

Cuntariffic.

Cuntacular.

Cuntish.

Cuntelope.

Use at your leisure/pleasure.

SPOILERS! (Click to view)

OK, the last one was a bit too silly.

TheFuckOffKid

TheFuckOffKid

NEWSWIRE

Australia

NOV 28, 2005 05:32 PM

I forgot "Cuntrageous!"

Deelishus_Weenie

Deelishus_Weenie

Australia
June 2005

NOV 28, 2005 06:23 PM

This thread has become immediately awesome.

I saw a girl's front bottom once - just wanted to share.

TheFuckOffKid

TheFuckOffKid

NEWSWIRE

Australia

NOV 28, 2005 06:47 PM

Cuntrageous said:

TheFuckOffKid said:
I forgot "Cuntrageous!"




Yes, you certainly did. ooo aaa


I swear, I never shall again.

That is awesome, like in a way that redefines the word awesome.

love

RedBstrd

RedBstrd

Riverside, CA
April 2004

NOV 28, 2005 07:20 PM

It is because they need a tan.

Someguysteve

Someguysteve

USA
September 2005

NOV 29, 2005 03:54 PM

Hmm, I had thought that you should just go for it and the worse that could happen is you get rejected and you both go on your merry way, but it seems to have bothered Liante more than I had thought possible. Perhaps there were other circumstances involved but this troubles me somewhat, not that Iask out random people, I'm far too shy for anything like that.

shogun221

shogun221

Pittsburgh, PA
April 2005

NOV 29, 2005 04:30 PM

Someguysteve said:
Hmm, I had thought that you should just go for it and the worse that could happen is you get rejected and you both go on your merry way, but it seems to have bothered Liante more than I had thought possible. Perhaps there were other circumstances involved but this troubles me somewhat, not that Iask out random people, I'm far too shy for anything like that.



Well, I can understand it somewhat, seeing as half the time when I'm out doing busywork, I'd rather not be bothered. In a non-social situation, you either have to be really attractive or really funny for the approached to not immediately want to back out of the whole ordeal.

Actually, I'm not even sure it works for anyone save the really attractive, since if you're not cute, said girl is going to have a VERY low opinion of you since all you look like is an inferior to her. Even if you're funny, her predisposition toward you might be too negative for you to work into her graces in the say, 2 minutes you have to talk

fpkk

fpkk

United Kingdom
June 2003

NOV 29, 2005 04:44 PM

shogun221 said:

Someguysteve said:
Hmm, I had thought that you should just go for it and the worse that could happen is you get rejected and you both go on your merry way, but it seems to have bothered Liante more than I had thought possible. Perhaps there were other circumstances involved but this troubles me somewhat, not that Iask out random people, I'm far too shy for anything like that.



Well, I can understand it somewhat, seeing as half the time when I'm out doing busywork, I'd rather not be bothered. In a non-social situation, you either have to be really attractive or really funny for the approached to not immediately want to back out of the whole ordeal.

Actually, I'm not even sure it works for anyone save the really attractive, since if you're not cute, said girl is going to have a VERY low opinion of you since all you look like is an inferior to her. Even if you're funny, her predisposition toward you might be too negative for you to work into her graces in the say, 2 minutes you have to talk



Plus if you happen to be phenomenally physically attractive and it *does* work for you congrats! you just scored a date with some shallow asshat who wouldn't have given you the time of day if you'd been a nobel prize winning, laureate uggo!

Liante

Liante

SUICIDEGIRL

Kiribati

NOV 29, 2005 04:55 PM

Someguysteve said:
Hmm, I had thought that you should just go for it and the worse that could happen is you get rejected and you both go on your merry way, but it seems to have bothered Liante more than I had thought possible. Perhaps there were other circumstances involved but this troubles me somewhat, not that Iask out random people, I'm far too shy for anything like that.



That's the thing: pretty much the only guys who ask out strangers in non-social situations are social retards. Normal people, by and large, don't do that. It's obviously awkward and often rude (the specific instance that had me pissed off was definitely rude). So anybody who does do that runs a very high chance of being dismissed as a creepy weirdo, since long experience will probably have taught the target that most random accostings are by creepy weirdos.

What annoyed me was pretty much a basic lack of manners. If you don't do that, you're probably okay.

WonderWaffles

WonderWaffles

New York, NY
March 2005

DEC 01, 2005 09:42 PM

Cuntrageous.........sounds like a candy bar. A deliciously sultry candybar.

I'm definately a recovering social retard. wink I have to get used to a person before I can work around much of what's been ingrained in me from my awkward youth. I'm getting better, but it's like negative reenforcement -- if you're totally hot, it's going to take some doing for me to accept that you're not going to laugh at me and you actually LIKE to talk to me and aren't just putting up with me because you like to pretend to be nice.

But it's not always that way, and when the stars are right Dread Cthulu wakes and all the ladies respond....

I mean, online it ain't no thang. I can flirt with Liante all day and night if the mood strikes me and she doesn't ignore it. wink I'm not very self-aware sitting here typing stuff. It's my own home, familiar surroundings, etc. I'd have a good 50% chance to do the same in a normal, easygoing social situation.

But I bet the moment some bombastic cock of the walk talks to her, I'll shy away.

See, that's one of the other reasons, perhaps. Attractive girls attract ALL guys. And the loudest, boldest, and most alpha run right for them. Us slightly less cocksure guys demure -- we're as annoyed by them as the girls are, after all. And so we kind of cede territory to them. Because there's no way in hell I can compete with what he's offering.

So if you're sexy and you want to pierce the wall of bravado being fronted to you, do a little digging through it. Not much...just enough to let the others know they've got a chance to seduce you, too...that you're not like other girls, that you're not just attracted to a guy who throws it in your face how awesome he knows he is...

I mean, I'm amazing, but you're going to have to do a little work for me. Just a little. biggrin

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