Is it strange to not like cumming?

It's also possible that what is a normal (and just plain considerate attitude) may be over extended by extra feeling of guilt or seperation towards women.

You should consider...is the idea, or the experience of being dumped, totally devastating beyond remembering? If you can remember how you felt and you got over her then you'd be stronger and wiser, but if it produced "shock" which added to other older feelings then you may have attachment issues and be trying a tad too hard to please your girl for your own good in the long run.

I know tons of guys that feel ill after masturbating to porn. I think its the same thing. Why should you ever feel ill about masturbating? You get ill when you get bad at fantasizing. You get ill when you think your sex life is being measured and that you HAVE to have awesome sex and you aren't, and there is something wrong with you because you've failed to.

You may cum but if you are depressed its not that great.

You should always just have a good time. If you come and it leaves you feeling as though the sex never got as good as you wanted, then you should be able to keep your head up knowing that later you can masturbate and fantasize that it DID go how you wanted.

Try Alan Cumming instead:

Numbers makes a lot of sense. My best friend told me, he can't cum with a woman for the first few times until he gets acclimated to her smell.

Alan Cummings kicked my ass as Nightcrawler in X-men-2. I'm dissapointed he's not in the third one.

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is it normal? no, becuz it's not 'the norm'. is it wierd? that's subjective.

if you feel happy not cumming and your partner can be okay with t hat, then don't worry about it. if a time comes when you feel differently, then you might want to seek some type of professional help.

if i were your partner, i would be happy to make you feel good in whatever way that is. if you don't like cumming, then that's cool. to me sex is about pleasure, not about the end result.

now, as for myself, i have a very hard time cumming with a partner, but can usually cum with myself. i know that mine is a psychological problem.

however, it doesn't bother me that much, and my partner is quite accepting of it, he is happy just to make me feel good.


( i think i just rambled there....sorry)

MMM...indeed. I love biting and being bitten. Sometimes I'll even bite the other arm while pleasuring myself.

[Edited on Nov 24, 2005 by Weapon0]

and yeah the resemblance is uncanny like X-men. Damn, I'm such a geek.

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If one can't please they one they are with then they feel inept.

huh...

Yeah, I was trying to translate that one too.

Hmm is that a photoset idea?

Very well put!

I hate chocolate.

But I love a good orgasm.

Kirby!

Please, please please buy yourself a Hitachi Magic Wand for X-[Holiday].

Then lock yourself in, relax, and take some time to experiment.

I love making the other person cum. And I love cumming. Except I'm a touch loud. I can't help it. Yep, I'm a screamer. Hurray for cumming.

And this is totally my 2000ndth post. Go me!

I think it's stranger that i love cumming, and no one wants to help make me cum. Or is that sad?

Me too. Give to the needy. Give someone an orgasm today.

that is like the most totally thing ever...


*ponders what he has just read*

edited: for spelling due to being stunned by above statement.

[Edited on Nov 29, 2005 by traceelement]

People who never reached an orgasm are actually less rare than it would seem. Not really that surreal.

Never been with a woman who can't have an orgasm. Been with a couple who'd never had one YET though.... Maybe you just need a partner who can tune in more to your needs.

it's not that wierd...

it's like those lollipops with stuff in the middle ... once you get to the middle you don't have any more sweets left and it's sad.

Cumming rocks, though it's not really all that important to me. I get off more by getting my partner off. If I don't get off myself, that's okay. I can always rub one out later. But getting them off is just awesome. Rocking someone's world just makes you feel like a porn star

me too. you have to kiss me to shut me up.