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unfiltrator

unfiltrator

San Francisco, CA
April 2004

NOV 23, 2005 09:01 PM

It's also possible that what is a normal (and just plain considerate attitude) may be over extended by extra feeling of guilt or seperation towards women.

You should consider...is the idea, or the experience of being dumped, totally devastating beyond remembering? If you can remember how you felt and you got over her then you'd be stronger and wiser, but if it produced "shock" which added to other older feelings then you may have attachment issues and be trying a tad too hard to please your girl for your own good in the long run.

I know tons of guys that feel ill after masturbating to porn. I think its the same thing. Why should you ever feel ill about masturbating? You get ill when you get bad at fantasizing. You get ill when you think your sex life is being measured and that you HAVE to have awesome sex and you aren't, and there is something wrong with you because you've failed to.

You may cum but if you are depressed its not that great.

You should always just have a good time. If you come and it leaves you feeling as though the sex never got as good as you wanted, then you should be able to keep your head up knowing that later you can masturbate and fantasize that it DID go how you wanted.

SirPsychoSexy

SirPsychoSexy

Ridgewood, NJ
January 2004

NOV 23, 2005 09:14 PM


Try Alan Cumming instead:

Weapon0

Weapon0

Indianapolis, IN
October 2005

NOV 24, 2005 06:07 AM

Numbers makes a lot of sense. My best friend told me, he can't cum with a woman for the first few times until he gets acclimated to her smell.

Alan Cummings kicked my ass as Nightcrawler in X-men-2. I'm dissapointed he's not in the third one. frown

[Edited on Nov 24, 2005 by Weapon0]

Jenya

Jenya

HOPEFUL

Azerbaijan

NOV 24, 2005 06:21 AM

is it normal? no, becuz it's not 'the norm'. is it wierd? that's subjective.

if you feel happy not cumming and your partner can be okay with t hat, then don't worry about it. if a time comes when you feel differently, then you might want to seek some type of professional help.

if i were your partner, i would be happy to make you feel good in whatever way that is. if you don't like cumming, then that's cool. to me sex is about pleasure, not about the end result.

now, as for myself, i have a very hard time cumming with a partner, but can usually cum with myself. i know that mine is a psychological problem.

however, it doesn't bother me that much, and my partner is quite accepting of it, he is happy just to make me feel good.


( i think i just rambled there....sorry)

Weapon0

Weapon0

Indianapolis, IN
October 2005

NOV 24, 2005 07:04 AM

Kirby said:

baudot said:
Yes, it's strange.
But then again, so is enjoying being handcuffed, bitten, insulted, dressing up in latex, golden showers, buttsecks, or any of the thousand other common fetishes you'll find in this community. Welcome to the family.



mmm... bitten.....



MMM...indeed. I love biting and being bitten. Sometimes I'll even bite the other arm while pleasuring myself.

[Edited on Nov 24, 2005 by Weapon0]

ClubsBabyJesus said:



Lance Armstrong should play him in a TV movie.



[Edited on Nov 24, 2005 by ClubsBabyJesus]



and yeah the resemblance is uncanny like X-men. Damn, I'm such a geek. smile wink tongue biggrin

[Edited on Nov 24, 2005 by Weapon0]

MistressMinx

MistressMinx

Regina, SK
April 2004

NOV 25, 2005 08:11 AM



If one can't please they one they are with then they feel inept.

sTiF_LiL_broKeN

sTiF_LiL_broKeN

Salisbury, MD
August 2005

NOV 25, 2005 08:17 AM

huh... confused

Weapon0

Weapon0

Indianapolis, IN
October 2005

NOV 25, 2005 08:23 AM

sTiF_LiL_broKeN said:
huh... confused



Yeah, I was trying to translate that one too. smile

Kirby

Kirby

SUICIDEGIRL

USA

NOV 28, 2005 01:24 PM

Taureolt said:

Al said:

Kirby said:
i cant orgasm. even my myself. confused but its sort of one of those things where... since i've never done it, i dont feel like im missing out on much, you know?


This is one of the saddest things I've ever heard.


That's not helping, Al. You need to help that poor girl.



hmm.. i like that solution shocked

Quirky

Quirky

Birmingham, AL
October 2005

NOV 28, 2005 01:41 PM

Kirby said:

Taureolt said:

Al said:

Kirby said:
i cant orgasm. even my myself. confused but its sort of one of those things where... since i've never done it, i dont feel like im missing out on much, you know?


This is one of the saddest things I've ever heard.


That's not helping, Al. You need to help that poor girl.



hmm.. i like that solution shocked


Hmm is that a photoset idea?

Lord_Frous

Lord_Frous

Brazil
September 2003

NOV 28, 2005 04:29 PM

Allie said:
is it normal? no, becuz it's not 'the norm'. is it wierd? that's subjective.

if you feel happy not cumming and your partner can be okay with t hat, then don't worry about it. if a time comes when you feel differently, then you might want to seek some type of professional help.

if i were your partner, i would be happy to make you feel good in whatever way that is. if you don't like cumming, then that's cool. to me sex is about pleasure, not about the end result.

now, as for myself, i have a very hard time cumming with a partner, but can usually cum with myself. i know that mine is a psychological problem.


Very well put!

hotcurry

hotcurry

Los Angeles, CA
June 2004

NOV 28, 2005 04:48 PM

thunderboltz said:
yeah that's a new one on me but I have a couple of quick guesses:

a) maybe you don't deal well with feeling like you're out of control even if it's only for a brief moment.

b) or possibly you grew up being told that it was bad and there is too much guilt associated with getting off.

c)..or you just don't want it to be over.

d) all of the above?

..or maybe you just plain don't like it ..some people don't like chocolate either.





I hate chocolate.

But I love a good orgasm.

ctrlcat

ctrlcat

Saint Paul, MN
December 2002

NOV 28, 2005 04:59 PM

Kirby!

Please, please please buy yourself a Hitachi Magic Wand for X-[Holiday].

Then lock yourself in, relax, and take some time to experiment.



blush kiss

PsychicGoldfish

PsychicGoldfish

HOPEFUL

Orono, ME

NOV 28, 2005 05:02 PM

I love making the other person cum. And I love cumming. Except I'm a touch loud. I can't help it. Yep, I'm a screamer. Hurray for cumming.

And this is totally my 2000ndth post. Go me!

KorbenDallas

KorbenDallas

Qatar
January 2005

NOV 28, 2005 05:12 PM

I think it's stranger that i love cumming, and no one wants to help make me cum. Or is that sad?

hotcurry

hotcurry

Los Angeles, CA
June 2004

NOV 28, 2005 05:21 PM

Me too. Give to the needy. Give someone an orgasm today.

traceelement

traceelement

Australia
March 2005

NOV 28, 2005 07:00 PM

Kirby said:
i cant orgasm. even my myself. confused but its sort of one of those things where... since i've never done it, i dont feel like im missing out on much, you know?



that is like the most totally surreal thing ever...


*ponders what he has just read* ooo aaa

edited: for spelling due to being stunned by above statement.

[Edited on Nov 29, 2005 by traceelement]

Lord_Frous

Lord_Frous

Brazil
September 2003

NOV 28, 2005 07:18 PM

traceelement said:

Kirby said:
i cant orgasm. even my myself. confused but its sort of one of those things where... since i've never done it, i dont feel like im missing out on much, you know?



that is like the most totally surreal thing ever...


People who never reached an orgasm are actually less rare than it would seem. Not really that surreal.

mastercraftsman

mastercraftsman

Charlotte, NC
November 2005

NOV 28, 2005 07:19 PM

Never been with a woman who can't have an orgasm. Been with a couple who'd never had one YET though.... Maybe you just need a partner who can tune in more to your needs.

myomiao

myomiao

Boston, MA
July 2005

NOV 28, 2005 10:45 PM

it's not that wierd...

it's like those lollipops with stuff in the middle ... once you get to the middle you don't have any more sweets left and it's sad.

TafkanX

tafkanx

Ridgecrest, CA
November 2005

NOV 28, 2005 11:40 PM

Cumming rocks, though it's not really all that important to me. I get off more by getting my partner off. If I don't get off myself, that's okay. I can always rub one out later. But getting them off is just awesome. Rocking someone's world just makes you feel like a porn star smile

turmoille

turmoille

Saint Stephen, SC
November 2005

NOV 28, 2005 11:42 PM

PsychicGoldfish said:
I love making the other person cum. And I love cumming. Except I'm a touch loud. I can't help it. Yep, I'm a screamer. Hurray for cumming.

And this is totally my 2000ndth post. Go me!



me too. you have to kiss me to shut me up.
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