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rocketRat

rocketRat

United Kingdom
October 2003

NOV 18, 2005 11:35 AM

A recent trial of a German brother and sister for incest has led to calls for consensual sex between adult siblings to be de-criminalised in Germany.

News article here.

In my opinion, what consenting adults do in private is their business and nobody else’s. As long as they’re not harming anyone else, people should be free to do whatever they want with whoever they want, without any interference from the law.

PointBlank

PointBlank

New York, NY
November 2004

NOV 18, 2005 11:39 AM

Those lousy motherfuckers!

Liante

Liante

SUICIDEGIRL

Kiribati

NOV 18, 2005 11:41 AM

I keep going around and around in my head on this one, and ultimately can only say that this is one of the very few criminal-law issues on which I genuinely don't have an opinion.

Edited to add: But between this and Cannibal Dude, Germany is way ahead in the International Weird Crime competition.

[Edited on Nov 18, 2005 by Liante]

Techne

Techne

Cambridge, MA
August 2005

NOV 18, 2005 01:10 PM

Coi said:
It can be decriminalized. I don't think that stigma is budging though. skull



I'd definitely agree with that.

hadees

hadees

Austin, TX
December 2003

NOV 18, 2005 01:32 PM

Coi said:
It can be decriminalized. I don't think that stigma is budging though. skull



In western culture. Some other cultures don't have the taboo of close relatives fucking.

[Edited on Nov 18, 2005 by hadees]

Arete

Arete

SUICIDEGIRL

I'm lost

NOV 18, 2005 01:36 PM

problems arise with the possibility of conception blackeyed

other than that let them do whatever the fuck they want.

ricosuave

ricosuave

I'm lost
September 2005

NOV 18, 2005 01:42 PM

Arete said:
problems arise with the possibility of conception blackeyed

other than that let them do whatever the fuck they want.




Oral sex only.

or Anal.



And even though I'm of German descent, I still cannot see ever fucking my sister up the ass. Spanking her yes, and perhaps even getting a lap dance, but that's as far as it goes.

themilkman

themilkman

Penticton, BC
October 2005

NOV 18, 2005 01:56 PM

This is a question that my first reaction is 'eww, sick' but I don't necessarily have a logical argument for or against, other than gut feeling.
Also just yesterday I read this issue asked as a rhetorical question in 'The Blank Slate' by steven pinker, Although it doesnt include the inbreeding issue. to quote:
"Consider this story: Julie and Mark are brother and sister. They are traveling together in France on vacation from college. One night they are staying alone in a cabin near the beach. They decide that it would be interesting and fun if they tried making love. At the very least it would be a new experience for each of them. Julie was already taking birth control pills, but Mark uses a condom too, just to be safe. They both enjoy making love, but they decide not to do it again. They keep the night as a special secret, which makes them feel even closer to eachother. What do you think about that; was it OK for them to make love?
The psychologist Jonathan Haidt and his colleagues have presented this story to many people. Most immediately declare that what Julie and Mark did was wrong, and then they grope for reasons why it was wrong. They mention the dangers of inbreeding, but they are reminded that the siblings used two forms of contraception. They suggest the siblings will be emotionally hurt, but the story makes it clear that they were not. They venture that the act would offend the community, but then they recall that it was kept secret. They submit that it may interfere with future relationships, but they acknowledge that julie and mark agreed never to do it again. Eventually many of the respondents admit, 'I don't know, I can't explain it, I just know it's wrong." Haidt calls this 'moral dumbfounding' and has evoked it by other disagreeable but victimless scenarios: A family's dog was killed by a car in front of their house. They had heard that dog meat was delicious, so they cut up the dog's body and cooked and ate it for dinner.

and

A man goes to the supermarket once a week and buys a dead chicken. But before cooking the chicken, he has sexual intercourse with it. Then he cooks it and eats it. "

Mr_K

Mr_K

Germany
September 2005

NOV 18, 2005 02:05 PM

well, i'm not really sure about it, but i'd guess they made the law in order to prevent hereditary diseases. When i remember the biology class right, there should always be a "good mixture" of the genome which isn't given within a family.

Unibrowser

Unibrowser

Eugene, OR
December 2004

NOV 18, 2005 02:05 PM

"I'm not interested in morality," she said, adding that she didn't think consenting incestuous relationships should be punished as long as they don't result in children being born.


Somebody please think of the DNA! OHhhh WHy won't anyone think of the DNA!!!

"in love" means you want wants BEST for each other.. I'm sorry , I don't buy this garbage.







NJAsmodeus

NJAsmodeus

Evansville, IN
February 2004

NOV 18, 2005 02:34 PM

i wish i could remember what culture it is, but i do recall being taught about one culture that sibling marriage/coupling was accepted. but this was after say the age of 60+. that there is no longer the chance of conception.

don't take this as absolute fact. this is just something i think i remember from a sociology class i had a long time ago

bean

bean

STAFF

Los Angeles, CA

NOV 18, 2005 02:41 PM

Moosejaw said:
"I'm not interested in morality," she said, adding that she didn't think consenting incestuous relationships should be punished as long as they don't result in children being born.


Somebody please think of the DNA! OHhhh WHy won't anyone think of the DNA!!!

"in love" means you want wants BEST for each other.. I'm sorry , I don't buy this garbage.



What the crap are you babbling about? They can't have kids naturally, so if they end up wanting kids at some point, they adopt. They know the risks of bearing children, so they're extremely careful to not conceive, and if they're really serious, they get snipped. Do you still not buy it? I don't think bearing children is a necessary result of any loving relationship, nor should it be.

alpo

alpo

Portland, OR
OLD SKOOL

NOV 18, 2005 02:43 PM

ricosuave said:

Arete said:
problems arise with the possibility of conception blackeyed

other than that let them do whatever the fuck they want.




Oral sex only.

or Anal.



Right, just like Catholic schoolgirls! wink

FridgeMagnet

FridgeMagnet

Chicago, IL
November 2004

NOV 18, 2005 02:49 PM

I think it's ok as long as she's really hot.

datsun

datsun

Richmond, CA
October 2004

NOV 18, 2005 02:53 PM

well, it gives me the heebie-jeebies, and it'll be fun explaining the distinctions between "aunt & uncle" and "mom & dad" to those kids, but for me the overpowering emotional response is to the legislation of sex between consenting adults. there are a lot of sexual acts that I personally don't find appealing (some of which even gross me out), but that doen't mean I should be able to force my morality on others. As long as they're not hurting anybody, why not leave them alone?

bean

bean

STAFF

Los Angeles, CA

NOV 18, 2005 02:54 PM

datsun said:
well, it gives me the heebie-jeebies, and it'll be fun explaining the distinctions between "aunt & uncle" and "mom & dad" to those kids, but for me the overpowering emotional response is to the legislation of sex between consenting adults. there are a lot of sexual acts that I personally don't find appealing (some of which even gross me out), but that doen't mean I should be able to force my morality on others. As long as they're not hurting anybody, why not leave them alone?


Exactly my thoughts on it.

MXV

MXV

Riverside, CA
March 2005

NOV 19, 2005 04:46 AM

And they need to lower the age of consent from 18 in the US, to be in-line with a lot of the rest of the world (and the US military). A 16-year-old knows if they want to have sex or not. It's not like they're kids anymore.

Hooraydiation

Hooraydiation

Boston, MA
October 2005

NOV 19, 2005 04:54 AM

Does Germany have legal gay marriage?

Snottlebocket

Snottlebocket

Netherlands
March 2004

NOV 19, 2005 08:35 AM

this couple is continually churning out severely handicapped children because they won't even practice safe sex.
i think it's safe to say that this couple is harming people, their own offspring.

from what i remember from biology class it's fairly easy to determine what the chances are of a inbreeding couple producing flawed and handicapped offspring with a bit of research.
that would be a pretty good place to start for any incest laws.

this particular couple sickens me with their intentional progreation while they know very well it produces handicapped kids with some regularity.

themilkman

themilkman

Penticton, BC
October 2005

NOV 19, 2005 08:42 AM

Kid_Dangerbot said:
Does Germany have legal gay marriage?



If not, it would be a burn.
gay man- Please may I marry this man, my partner, the love of my life?
government- Well no, but have you looked at your sister lately, that's something you could consider. wink

Subrosa

Subrosa

San Francisco, CA
July 2004

NOV 19, 2005 08:43 AM

MXV said:
And they need to lower the age of consent from 18 in the US, to be in-line with a lot of the rest of the world (and the US military). A 16-year-old knows if they want to have sex or not. It's not like they're kids anymore.


Uh. OK. What does that have to do with German Incest laws?

Also: Not all states have 18 as the age of consent

[Edited on Nov 19, 2005 by Subrosa]

themilkman

themilkman

Penticton, BC
October 2005

NOV 19, 2005 08:59 AM

Coi said:

MXV said:
And they need to lower the age of consent from 18 in the US, to be in-line with a lot of the rest of the world (and the US military). A 16-year-old knows if they want to have sex or not. It's not like they're kids anymore.




When I was 16, I didn't know what the hell I wanted. I had my hands full with 16 and 17 year old boys without having to deal with 26 year olds.

I think the statutory laws are fine where they are right now.


[Edited on Nov 19, 2005 by Coi]



The age of consent in Canada is 14. Also, Even consensual activity with those under 14 but over 12 may not be an offence if the accused is under 16 and less than two years older than the complainant.

themilkman

themilkman

Penticton, BC
October 2005

NOV 19, 2005 09:10 AM

well, it is legal for adults to have sex with anyone over 14.

grahf

grahf

New York, NY
September 2002

NOV 19, 2005 09:34 AM

Snottlebocket said:
this couple is continually churning out severely handicapped children because they won't even practice safe sex.
i think it's safe to say that this couple is harming people, their own offspring.


Even that's tricky. Is it illegal for two people who are carriers of a genetic disorder just through dumb luck to have kids? Even if there's a 100% chance that their children will have a disorder, I doubt it would be illegal. I was under the impression that at least in the US, the legal position was "any life is better than no life". I think Liante said that in the context of whether doctors could be sued for a faulty sterilization that resulted in an impaired child, to give credit where it's due.

Even if it would be legal though, I still think these two are definitely assholes for procreating.

rocketRat

rocketRat

United Kingdom
October 2003

NOV 19, 2005 11:33 AM

this couple is continually churning out severely handicapped children because they won't even practice safe sex.
i think it's safe to say that this couple is harming people, their own offspring.



There’s nothing in the news article that suggests that any of the couple’s children are disabled. Furthermore, inbreeding is not illegal in Germany, so if a woman was artificially inseminated with her brother’s semen, there would be no crime, even if the child turned out to be disabled.

In fact, inbreeding is only a potential problem if the parents both carry harmful recessive genes for a particular genetic disorder. If only one or neither of them carry such genes, the risk of having a disabled child is no greater than for an unrelated couple.

I think that incestuous couples should be made aware of the risks of inbreeding, and discouraged from having children is there is any history of genetic disorders in the family. I don’t think they should be banned from doing it though, because the next step along that road is banning unrelated couples from having children if they carry potentially harmful recessive genes. Then we would be talking about eugenics, which is something that no civilised society should do.

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