Morgan said:
It's an interesting question. I have definately seen friends of mine get married when they weren't really ready.

But in the end I think there is no black and white answer to this. Some people are find being married "early". For others, it's a horrible idea. It's the same with any situation: works for some, screws everything up for others.

It is more a question of "Do you want to spend the rest of your life with this person?" It's not a question you can quickly answer so yeah i agree it needs time otherwise it's a 50/50 chance it could go up the wall.

wunnspeed

Germany

May 2004

NOV 06, 2005 08:21 AM

I'm on marriage #2. Honestly, I think I knew walking out of the ceremony that'd I'd made a horrible and long term mistake. I hung on for 11 years until I couldn't take it anymore. Now, #2 is a totally different situation. We talk about everything and I really enjoy it. Sex is great and regular, I'm not blamed for everything that goes wrong, we have very similar tastes, hopes and hobbies.

Lucky me, I happen to have married someone that I'm very attracted to and she's my best friend. We have a great time together.

I was really scared going in though as I'd only been divorced for a little over a year. If it weren't for a 5000 move to Germany, it'd probably been another year before we said our vows.

I'm really glad we did it though.

artRob

I'm lost

January 2005

NOV 06, 2005 08:27 AM

hmm...

i need to find a woman who wants to be with me first...a good one that is. where are you??

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