Im doomed to live a life of loniless

This is great fucking advice. I've also been single a long time and often feel like I'm lacking something because of it. But when it comes down to it, alone and lonely aren't the same thing. If you project your loneliness outward, broadcasting it to the world, you just come off as needy, which no one likes. If you use it, convert it into writing, humor, career ambition... anything... you'll feel better about yourself. My advice is the opposite of what most people will tell you. Most people will say to you that you'll meet someone, and you should just keep looking. I'll tell you to ask, "If I am going to be single the rest of my life, I've got 60 or so years of it ahead of me. What am I going to do with it?"

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[Edited on Oct 31, 2005 by Phased]

We should all be so lucky.

Do what you have always done get what you have always got..

Getting the fuck out of Vallejo would be a good start

When you aren't thinking about love, it will strike like a lava bomb.

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Tell me about it, I once beared my heart to this girl who I was good friends with but she didn't want to date. Then the next week some girl told me she had a big crush on me for months and I hooked up with her. Then the next week some hot girl I had met recently wanted me and her to become fuck buddies and that lasted 5 months.

I don't know about you guys, but I feel bad for Loni.
She's really missing out here.

Hahah. I'm having his babies.

Join the club.

how about going GAY!

then you can be turned down from both sexes!

or just give up you only have 50 or so years to deal with this until you will die.

the only things I have to say are move and stop looking for love you will NEVER find it! ... be patient it will find you

Get a dog and dress yourselves in matching outfits. Not only will you have a new companion, but it takes a certain amount of self-confidence to walk your dog down the street wearing a matching sweater. Chicks dig confidence.

listen to this dude, rufus, he knows what hes talking about.

Craaaaaawling in my skiiiiiiiiiiiiiin......
these woooounds they will not heeeeeaaaaaal.....

For serious though, I can definetly empathize with what youre going through. I also concur with the advice of not looking for it, its the only advice Ive gotten in real life on the subject as well.

said the clitoris to Stan

"Dude, you just have to have confidence in yourself, chicks love that"

Im doomed to die miserable and alone too, but you don't see me bitchin' about it!!

*plucks cigarette on the ground*

*snarls and spits on your shoe*

*turns and walks away*

on a slight tangent:
don't let yourself get stuck on one girl
you can miss some really great opportunities and she's never going to date you anyway
(not that i know...but... :blackeyed