my girl and I broke up

I broke up with my live in girlfriend that I have been dating for 4 years....I dont know what the hell to do now....any help would be great!

*Mandatory stupid cruel male statement*
what was her number again?

*I'll get kicked out of the union if I don't make a horrible remark at least once a month*.

First step, get the fuck out of whereever you are living. ASAP.

Deal with everything else later.

the answer lies at the bottom of a bottle.

i hear that

Find a new apartment and move as fast as possible.

Agree move out or kick her the hell out

^Best answer yet.

You'll find someone else.

[Edited on Oct 24, 2005 by YourCoffinOrMine]

Become a slut.

Henry the 8th? Is that you?


Yes, get the distance, get it fast, look back later.

same thing happened to me...3 years of living together ended in one weekend when she dumped me, kicked me out of our apartment and then moved in with the guy she was apparently seeing behind my back.

what did i do to get over her? i started a fucking band.

girls suck. get over it quick and get back on your feet, cause she aint gonna be the last one that fucks you over.

Is it your place if so she goes not you your things are yours remember and your just going to suck it up and get ready to move on. Things may get nasty just keep a cool head ( easyer said than done I know )When she is gone get all your male friends over then hit the bottle.. it works. What ever your into that she hated throw yourself into you need to keep busy .

Sorry to hear it.

My answer has always lied in lots of music, lots of drinking, and a few really good friends. It worked for me, but it takes time.

PS-I kinda feel a little bad for suggesting alchohol ... I wouldn't want someone to develope a problem. Just speaking for myself.

[Edited on Oct 24, 2005 by lowroller]

This seems like a really vague question. How is the internet going to tell you what to do with your life which it knows nothing about? You don't even specify what you want help doing.

For some reason I read this as and lot of Hobbits! I agree, get yourself lots of little Hobbits. I think they will cheer you up!

Good luck! Sending some hugs your way!

Thanks for all the advice....unfortunatly both of us dont have the money to just up and move out and we are both locked into the lease. Luckly we have a three bedroom place so it looks like what was my office is now my bedroom hahah....oh well, fuck it I say.

when you get another girlfreind, don't move in with her

my freind was with a girl for 6 months
they moved in together, she got EXTRA controlling and jealous. . .and then cheated on him with a girl. she got thrown the fuck out too.

[Edited on Oct 24, 2005 by KMFCM]

I don't know I lost my girlfriend of 5+ years and now I have to get off the painkillers I was taking for a shoulder injury. This is the most perfect storm of misery I've ever experienced.

you + girl + office = three

who else lives with you?

it's their fault.

of course, i tend to jump to conclusions.

but four years with no explanation?

It was a breaking up waiting to happen I guess....I dont really feel like going into specifics at the moment.....I honestly just dont care anymore I guess, sounds bad but oh well....life goes on and I know there is plenty of nice ladies out there that will treat me right haha.....

damm, you beat me to it

Try to work your way back to the level of fuck buddies, if everthing else leads to an argument.... It worked for me. The last 4-5 months of the lease were schweeeet and we are still friends to this day.





[Edited on Oct 24, 2005 by gambitnuitamment]

Have a law enforcement officer present when the time comes to move out. It makes no difference if it's you or her moving out. Unless it's a fairly friendly breakup...the moving out process can get ugly.