Utter fucking betrayal

your face is squished.

A really good friend of mine had something similar happen to him. A few years ago his then best friend started seeing his fiance behind his back. It really hit him hard when he finally found out about it. He had a feeling something was going on a few weeks before they told him. It divided a lot of his old friends too. Some of them sided with him .. some with the other guy.

The last time he saw his (ex) friend he hit him and broke his jaw. He didn't press charges or anything since part of him must have felt like he deserved it.

Some best friend huh?

*Edited due to temporary dislexia*

[Edited on Oct 22, 2005 by lowroller]

Grow up dude choose your friends more carefully a lot of the time you bring thease things on yourself Ive been there done that got the t shirt.
One thing i learnt travelling around the world and living in different cities is your friends respect you if they dont them make them by any means necessary then dumb them. Your mate respect you no ifs no buts no ands .....

Seriously, people should realise that you may not even strictly speaking hate them

but that they may take an action out of fear, or cowardice, or some negative space that it makes you impossible to like them any more. Wish them all the happiness in the world, go ahead, but that doesn't mean that even after all the pain has gone you would ever be able to trust these fuckwits again. That's the kicker, and you don't have to be all serene and graceful about that shit because, newsflash, that's never going to stop hurting.

People urging you to develop grace and tranquillity from a reguritated 2nd party story are missing the point of grace and tranquillity. They help you deal and finish but they don't change the fact that you got fucked over by some close friends and therefore have to rebuild.

But rebuilding *can* be fun. The grace and tranquillity can help you see that.

Find the fun my friend and fuck the fuckers.

Prove it .

If I ever started an emo band I'd call it 'Her Brutal Rejection' - it'd be really fucking whiney and adolescent. I had a band by that name on Project Rockstar before they wiped everything and started again. Cheers for the advice guys, sorry I haven't replied more I'm on a dial-up connection at the moment and it's not even 56k. Takes an age to load anything.

I don't want to hurt these people particularly, but at the same time I do rather hate them and never want to see them again. I've never been very good at forgiving and forgetting.

Right, I'd best try and find a better photo for my member page.

Karma will bite them in the arse one day

At least I'm hoping that's how it works, cause i'm waiting for it to bite other people too

Every person on this planet who will never be able to trust you completely ever again is a massive karmic load of shit on you.

See that was quick.

Dude, he'd have to be the Pope to do that. You know, Pope Palpatine?

my arse is huge, i'll be fine

Uhm... what happened exactly?

Please forgive me for misundurstanding. Thanks fur stratening me out. Im sorry if i uffended you. After all, im gist a dum hump from da sticks not like you edumacated people from da big city.

Play along with their crap, and think of something to fuck them over...
I did that when it happened to me... It doesn't get you new friends, but it makes you feel goooood hehehehe

Ummmm...hide out in an emotionally unhealthy relationship for six years before you finally feel brave enough to stick a toe out into the world of friendship again by joining soft-core porn site where ostensibly you're lookin' at chicks, but in reality you're hoping to encounter kindred spirits that you can screen first by comment-stalking them and posting links to "silly, entertaining" personality tests in your journal until you slowly gain an uncanny sense of who you can and cannot trust and finally feel autonomous and strong enough again to have realistic expectations of yourself and other people in relationships and realize that yeah, to a great degree, you'll always be cosmically alone, but are eventually able to find some peace in that? Or maybe eat some donuts. That works for me too. Especially chocolate raised.

something like this happened to me once and I came to terms later with the fact that it was because I was being an asshole. but that might not apply to you.

I lost my fiance, my friends, almost everything I owned, all my money and my job because of something like this. Now I live 2000 miles away, found a better job, have replaced a lot of my stuff and have made two friends (one of whom is turning out to be a bit of a sadist and not a very good friend). I'm lonely as hell but I'm finally coming to terms with everything. The realization that I really didn't do anything to create the situation and then left it with grace is a little consolation. I've always though the concept of honor was just some bullshit social control mechanism, but I've found that it can mean a lot when you don't have much of anything else.

:applauds:

geez.....I guess I'm not alone, eh?

[Edited on Oct 23, 2005 by TheEvilDrSmith]

your not alone buddy after loving this girl for 3 years my best friend stabbed me in the back and she broke my heart. took a few good years to recover from that shit and i have a feeling its about to happen again, so your not alone

edited for double post, your mom made me do it

[Edited on Oct 25, 2005 by 2low]