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highresolution

highresolution

I'm lost
February 2005

OCT 22, 2005 12:54 AM

your face is squished.

lowroller

lowroller

Australia
May 2008

OCT 22, 2005 01:27 AM

A really good friend of mine had something similar happen to him. A few years ago his then best friend started seeing his fiance behind his back. It really hit him hard when he finally found out about it. He had a feeling something was going on a few weeks before they told him. It divided a lot of his old friends too. Some of them sided with him .. some with the other guy.

The last time he saw his (ex) friend he hit him and broke his jaw. He didn't press charges or anything since part of him must have felt like he deserved it.

Some best friend huh?

*Edited due to temporary dislexia*

[Edited on Oct 22, 2005 by lowroller]

tech29

tech29

I'm lost
July 2004

OCT 22, 2005 04:10 AM

Grow up dude choose your friends more carefully a lot of the time you bring thease things on yourself Ive been there done that got the t shirt.
One thing i learnt travelling around the world and living in different cities is your friends respect you if they dont them make them by any means necessary then dumb them. Your mate respect you no ifs no buts no ands .....

fpkk

fpkk

United Kingdom
June 2003

OCT 22, 2005 05:08 AM

thorr74 said:

ImpulsePoster said:
You could wish them happiness and understand that noone is out to get anyone, they are mostly struggling to search for their own happiness, which is elusive without wisdom rooted in self-knowledge. Like Rilke told the young poet, young lovers always think their love is forever, but they do not think they may be only helping each other in the long run to love someone else to come.




Pfft



biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin biggrin

Seriously, people should realise that you may not even strictly speaking hate them

SPOILERS! (Click to view)

(Although you now class them as enemies which is so fucking martial arts movie cool that I almost wish I had some now. Proper enemies not just "people you don't really get on with" but people who, every time you saw each other, you were *required by blood oath* to fight. Taking the concept of enmity to such an insane degree that it transcends the personal. Anger always makes a sloppy fighter, youngling.)



but that they may take an action out of fear, or cowardice, or some negative space that it makes you impossible to like them any more. Wish them all the happiness in the world, go ahead, but that doesn't mean that even after all the pain has gone you would ever be able to trust these fuckwits again. That's the kicker, and you don't have to be all serene and graceful about that shit because, newsflash, that's never going to stop hurting.

People urging you to develop grace and tranquillity from a reguritated 2nd party story are missing the point of grace and tranquillity. They help you deal and finish but they don't change the fact that you got fucked over by some close friends and therefore have to rebuild.

But rebuilding *can* be fun. The grace and tranquillity can help you see that.

Find the fun my friend and fuck the fuckers.

Kore

Kore

SUICIDEGIRL

I'm lost

OCT 22, 2005 05:53 AM

i'd fuckin freak out. but that's me.

then i'd send the girl flowers and chocolate cake. but that's me.

TheNonStopDancer

TheNonStopDancer

I'm lost
May 2004

OCT 22, 2005 05:54 AM

bean said:
SGUK, They're a great group of people



Prove it .

Mersault1982

Mersault1982

United Kingdom
October 2005

OCT 22, 2005 07:58 AM

If I ever started an emo band I'd call it 'Her Brutal Rejection' - it'd be really fucking whiney and adolescent. I had a band by that name on Project Rockstar before they wiped everything and started again. Cheers for the advice guys, sorry I haven't replied more I'm on a dial-up connection at the moment and it's not even 56k. Takes an age to load anything.

I don't want to hurt these people particularly, but at the same time I do rather hate them and never want to see them again. I've never been very good at forgiving and forgetting.

Right, I'd best try and find a better photo for my member page. smile

Fenstar

Fenstar

Australia
January 2005

OCT 22, 2005 08:17 AM

Karma will bite them in the arse one day

At least I'm hoping that's how it works, cause i'm waiting for it to bite other people too smile

fpkk

fpkk

United Kingdom
June 2003

OCT 22, 2005 08:23 AM

fenoodle said:
Karma will bite them in the arse one day

At least I'm hoping that's how it works, cause i'm waiting for it to bite other people too smile



Every person on this planet who will never be able to trust you completely ever again is a massive karmic load of shit on you.

See that was quick.

FrankMask

FrankMask

Saint Paul, MN
June 2003

OCT 22, 2005 03:41 PM

KMFCM said:


excommunicate them ALL



Dude, he'd have to be the Pope to do that. You know, Pope Palpatine?

Fenstar

Fenstar

Australia
January 2005

OCT 22, 2005 04:25 PM

my arse is huge, i'll be fine biggrin

venomkid

venomkid

I'm lost
January 2003

OCT 22, 2005 06:42 PM

Uhm... what happened exactly?

Jabroni

Jabroni

Frackville, PA
April 2005

OCT 22, 2005 09:02 PM

PointBlank said:

jabroni544 said:

bean said:

Rested said:

ImpulsePoster said:
You could wish them happiness and understand that noone is out to get anyone, they are mostly struggling to search for their own happiness, which is elusive without wisdom rooted in self-knowledge. Like Rilke told the young poet, young lovers always think their love is forever, but they do not think they may be only helping each other in the long run to love someone else to come.



The gayest shit is that?


Not only should you cut each one of their penises...you should do to the girls what they did to you...emasculate them!


OMG LOOK AT WHAT A BIG NOT GAY MAN I AM!!!!

Seriously. Someone with more maturity than your typical 15 year old finally comes along and posts here and they get called "gay." Grow up. Honestly, this is the best advice here, though it takes more balls to do than most people have.

Don't wish them ill. Just move on. If you have to say something to them, tell them you understand that they might have been afraid to hurt you, but that hiding it from you hurt you more than being honest in the first place would have, and that you need to not see them for awhile. Don't return their calls. Don't let them convince you that anything was somehow your fault. Just move on and make new friends.



Wow, is this that "turn the other cheek" thing? Ya wanna know what I've learned? When you turn the other cheek, you usually end up with both sides of your head hurtin'.


Uhhh, if you'd actually learn to read, you'd see that nowhere did he say anything even approaching "turn the other cheek." I'm not even sure where you get that from. What he actually said was "just move on." Maybe that's a concept that is a bit too difficult for you to grasp...judging from most of your posts, I can't say I'm surprised. Maybe your head hurts for other reasons?

[Edited on Oct 22, 2005 by PointBlank]



Please forgive me for misundurstanding. Thanks fur stratening me out. Im sorry if i uffended you. After all, im gist a dum hump from da sticks not like you edumacated people from da big city.

eqbd

eqbd

I'm lost
January 2005

OCT 22, 2005 09:31 PM

Mersault1982 said:
Hey guys,
Is this board just for sex? Or for sex and relationships? I have a more relationship style issue. That is, what do you do when you find out that the girl you love, plus one of the best friends you've ever had, have secretly conspired to completely fuck you over, and all your other friends have hidden it from you so that you now feel like there's not one single one of your friends who hasn't been involved in some elaborate game to mark you out as a stupid, naive, too-trusting fucking idiot and you never want to seee any of them again?



Play along with their crap, and think of something to fuck them over...
I did that when it happened to me... It doesn't get you new friends, but it makes you feel goooood hehehehe

aksiokersa

aksiokersa

I'm lost
October 2004

OCT 22, 2005 10:05 PM

Ummmm...hide out in an emotionally unhealthy relationship for six years before you finally feel brave enough to stick a toe out into the world of friendship again by joining soft-core porn site where ostensibly you're lookin' at chicks, but in reality you're hoping to encounter kindred spirits that you can screen first by comment-stalking them and posting links to "silly, entertaining" personality tests in your journal until you slowly gain an uncanny sense of who you can and cannot trust and finally feel autonomous and strong enough again to have realistic expectations of yourself and other people in relationships and realize that yeah, to a great degree, you'll always be cosmically alone, but are eventually able to find some peace in that? Or maybe eat some donuts. That works for me too. Especially chocolate raised.

papawheelie

papawheelie

Fisty, KY
February 2003

OCT 23, 2005 01:24 PM

something like this happened to me once and I came to terms later with the fact that it was because I was being an asshole. but that might not apply to you.

Samebeat

Samebeat

USA
September 2003

OCT 23, 2005 03:45 PM

I lost my fiance, my friends, almost everything I owned, all my money and my job because of something like this. Now I live 2000 miles away, found a better job, have replaced a lot of my stuff and have made two friends (one of whom is turning out to be a bit of a sadist and not a very good friend). I'm lonely as hell but I'm finally coming to terms with everything. The realization that I really didn't do anything to create the situation and then left it with grace is a little consolation. I've always though the concept of honor was just some bullshit social control mechanism, but I've found that it can mean a lot when you don't have much of anything else.

Morgan

Morgan

SUICIDEGIRL

Illinois, USA

OCT 23, 2005 03:51 PM

Revenge doesn't do any real good, and holding grudges doesn't either.

Let yourself be angry, then let it go. They probably aren't worth your time, but karma will sort them out.

waldo

waldo

I'm lost
June 2004

OCT 23, 2005 04:58 PM

Samebeat said:
The realization that I really didn't do anything to create the situation and then left it with grace is a little consolation. I've always though the concept of honor was just some bullshit social control mechanism, but I've found that it can mean a lot when you don't have much of anything else.



:applauds:

TheEvilDrSmith

TheEvilDrSmith

I'm lost
September 2005

OCT 23, 2005 05:54 PM

aksiokersa said:
Ummmm...hide out in an emotionally unhealthy relationship for six years before you finally feel brave enough to stick a toe out into the world of friendship again by joining soft-core porn site where ostensibly you're lookin' at chicks, but in reality you're hoping to encounter kindred spirits that you can screen first by comment-stalking them and posting links to "silly, entertaining" personality tests in your journal until you slowly gain an uncanny sense of who you can and cannot trust and finally feel autonomous and strong enough again to have realistic expectations of yourself and other people in relationships and realize that yeah, to a great degree, you'll always be cosmically alone, but are eventually able to find some peace in that? Or maybe eat some donuts. That works for me too. Especially chocolate raised.




geez.....I guess I'm not alone, eh? blackeyed

[Edited on Oct 23, 2005 by TheEvilDrSmith]

2low

2low

Etobicoke, ON
February 2005

OCT 23, 2005 08:00 PM

Mersault1982 said:
Hey guys,
Is this board just for sex? Or for sex and relationships? I have a more relationship style issue. That is, what do you do when you find out that the girl you love, plus one of the best friends you've ever had, have secretly conspired to completely fuck you over, and all your other friends have hidden it from you so that you now feel like there's not one single one of your friends who hasn't been involved in some elaborate game to mark you out as a stupid, naive, too-trusting fucking idiot and you never want to seee any of them again?



your not alone buddy after loving this girl for 3 years my best friend stabbed me in the back and she broke my heart. took a few good years to recover from that shit and i have a feeling its about to happen again, so your not alone frown

2low

2low

Etobicoke, ON
February 2005

OCT 23, 2005 08:32 PM

edited for double post, your mom made me do it eeek

[Edited on Oct 25, 2005 by 2low]

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