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and we could fill it with endearing, meaningless banter. we'd be the alternative to regis and kelly. I call REGIS!

That means I get to wear tastefully revealing tops, right? I'm in!

Indeed. I used to be really nervous about talking to stangers but after pretending like I wasn't I become more comfortable with it and now I just don't give a shit. Wait, I think that just means I've become jaded.

Give up, drink beer and ride your fucking bike.

heheheh lol that is funny. Good luck to both of you on starting that thread lol. I think you should actually attempt it see how it works out for you. If nothing else it will be good for a laugh

i've been working really hard on faking confidence.

i'm just not sure i'm good enough at it yet.

It wasn't your balls that got me.

hahahahha, hmmmm...i dont have much to say about that

Drink. Lots.

They have a shot, now. Ask you doctor about it. And I hear they're coming out with a pill form of courage to replace the current liquid version.

On a serious note,
I don't believe anyone knows "what they're doing" in any situation with romance. I don't believe it for a second. B/c no matter what "experience" or "confidence" you have IT DOESN'T WORK FOR EVERYONE, it's not universally interchangeable and that's how everyone fucks everything up anyway. And the way you treat one person, how you maybe treated someone you thought you loved or something anything....well every person is different so all the same games may not work. All you can do is just be yourself and be proud I guess. There's a difference between pride and confidence. Confidence might fuck you over---it could get you laid surely. It will get you anything. But it might get you everything the wrong way, too.

So I say just respect yourself. Have pride and be yourself. If people can't handle that FUCK THAT, those are people you'd never want to see again anyway and then make clear decisions between love and lust, liking and fucking, and there are 5 million other degrees. NO ONE IS AN EXPERT IN BLISS!!!

SO being that I am stating that no one knows what the fuck they're doing anyway,

just go out there and make a fool of yourself.

You ain't got shit to lose and you'll find the one person who loves that about you.

Edit:

Ok? There you go. NO MORE OFTHESE THREADS!!! THIS IS THE BEST ADVICE GUYS! Oh my GOD I just told the secret of where all the best women are: They want a guy who's going to make her LAUGH. THAT'S THE CONFIDENCE thing you should know. Confidence? Make her LAUGH. Work on your fucking stand up b/c love SUCKS!!! ahahhahahaa. I'm laughing just thinking.



Well I'm gonna go vomit now, but it's true. This comes from an expert in pain. That's it. I don't own love or anything like that and yeah, I never talk to guys EVER really to be serious. I do stuff like Garth did in Wayne's World when he would see the blonde. Ya...........



[Edited on Aug 28, 2005 by AverageGroupie]

confidence, a smile, and be interested in them - act relaxed (confidence).

Good luck, tell us if you pull.

Booze is sometimes a good substitute for confidence. But it's a sort of fine line. If you drink too much, it is only going to make things worse.

Like a shark to bees? Oh my.

I agree....it's not about what you say....it's about what you don't say.

This seems incredible to me.

I can only assume the guy is actually nervous and babbling, or stupid beyond human belief.

Maybe I am just an awesome bass player. . .