OK GIRLS HELP

I can be a bit shy around girls I think are just absolutely BREATHETAKINGLY GORGEOUS. I don't know why I usually just go around will talk to anyone do anything, but it's just those few girls who just knock you on your feet that make me fucked up in the head. If any of you have any advice PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE fill me in.

youre young, you'll develop game soon.

[Edited on Aug 26, 2005 by Jah]

Confidence is everything.

Pull your balls out, worked for me.

Talk, even though (as Gwendolyn aptly shows us) they may have spectacular bodies, wicked eyes, nice naughty bits and excelent taste in underoos, they also have minds, appeal to them as you would anyone else. Worst case scenario, you can't fault yourself for telling the truth and being normal. Or there's always the Nuclear Option, whip out the package? Am I right Gwen, am I right? Go RICKIE, GO RICKIE, GO RICKIE!

Confidence.

getting on a solid workout routien will boost your confidence a great deal.

HEH thanks all, lets see what i can work out heh

Don't think. Just do.

"If I was a young fella like you, I would be MOUNTIN' every woman in Wabasha!"
_Burgess Meredith, Grumpy Old Men

I get all these e-mails about penis enlargement. Seems like that might help a guy in your situation. I could forward them if you like.



Actually that whole confidence thing might be a better idea. They're just people.

HAHAHAHAH, thanks about the enlargement but I'm QUITE alright.

Corollary: What's a good demonstration of the line separating confidence from arrogance?

I myself might be a lot more confident if I wasn't worried about coming off like my own number one fan.

everyone says confidence but what are you supposed to do if you're scared shitless?

yes I admit that I find confidence to be attractive but I also know what it's like to not be able to speak to someone you reaaallly want to talk to. I don't know if you've ever done any acting but I try to think of myself as a "character" when I get really nervous. I'm just being someone else and if that guys rejects me or isn't that interested, he is blowing off the character I was playing...

So with this in mind I also use the character to do things that I, Koleeta, wouldn't normally do because I am too shy. For example, as this other person I would randomly go up to a guy and start shootin the shit about nothing...about something really random. It would be okay because it's not really me out there, I'm just along for the ride.

hey, way to sound really stupid, Koleeta. I'll go away now.

[Edited on Aug 26, 2005 by Koleeta]

What if you fake confidence? Can they tell?

I think Koleeta's ideas are interesting, not stupid.

On the flip side of that there is this. Breathe, relax, and just be who you are. It's just another person in front of you, not some unattainable thing. If you are looking for love, or even a good hook-up, how can it work if you aren't yourself?

don't talk about yourself. I mean you can talk about yourself as in "Hi I'm ___, I do this for a living, I enjoy blah blah blah." I find it annoying when I'm at a show and a guy will come up to me and start talking about how he's such a better bass player or drummer than the one in the band. I won't tell you how many times this has happened to me. When you're confident you can talk about other things...things that the other person might find funny, or also do as a hobby, or a movie, something besides you.

I think you should rent the fine film Magnolia, sir Tom Cruise the wacko's finest hour performance. In his role he shows you how to make that sweet little hard body your cock sucking honey. Fucking priceless advice.

Like a dog senses fear! A shark to blood!

I've never been able to spot someone who faked confidence so...no?

koleeta and toothpickmoe I tihnk the two of you have been the most helpful on this thread so far. Thankyou so much. As for that last comment about the shark to blood YIKES!!! lol

I would have to say....don't let them know that they make your nervous. Because yeah....I know what I'm trying to say but I can't get it out.

Or bees...

A pleasure.

Maybe she and I should start a "Ask Her & Him" advice column.