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anzig

anzig

Noblesville, IN
August 2005

AUG 26, 2005 05:24 PM

I can be a bit shy around girls I think are just absolutely BREATHETAKINGLY GORGEOUS. I don't know why I usually just go around will talk to anyone do anything, but it's just those few girls who just knock you on your feet that make me fucked up in the head. If any of you have any advice PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE fill me in.

Gwendolyn

Gwendolyn

SUICIDEGIRL

Indiana, USA

AUG 26, 2005 05:58 PM

Confidence. If you don't have it, get it somehow.

Jah

Jah

I'm lost
August 2005

AUG 26, 2005 05:58 PM

youre young, you'll develop game soon. wink

[Edited on Aug 26, 2005 by Jah]

Clunk

Clunk

I'm lost
August 2004

AUG 26, 2005 06:07 PM

Confidence is everything.

Crim

Crim

HOPEFUL

Portland, OR

AUG 26, 2005 06:07 PM

Pull your balls out, worked for me.

pananarama

pananarama

Worcester, MA
August 2003

AUG 26, 2005 06:09 PM

Talk, even though (as Gwendolyn aptly shows us) they may have spectacular bodies, wicked eyes, nice naughty bits and excelent taste in underoos, they also have minds, appeal to them as you would anyone else. Worst case scenario, you can't fault yourself for telling the truth and being normal. Or there's always the Nuclear Option, whip out the package? Am I right Gwen, am I right? Go RICKIE, GO RICKIE, GO RICKIE!

lanks

lanks

Canada
May 2005

AUG 26, 2005 06:11 PM

Confidence.

getting on a solid workout routien will boost your confidence a great deal.

anzig

anzig

Noblesville, IN
August 2005

AUG 26, 2005 06:28 PM

HEH thanks all, lets see what i can work out heh

PaulNikon

PaulNikon

Melbourne, FL
February 2003

AUG 26, 2005 08:45 PM

Don't think. Just do.

pananarama

pananarama

Worcester, MA
August 2003

AUG 26, 2005 08:53 PM

"If I was a young fella like you, I would be MOUNTIN' every woman in Wabasha!"
_Burgess Meredith, Grumpy Old Men

AbeVigoda

AbeVigoda

Providence, RI
August 2003

AUG 26, 2005 09:49 PM

I get all these e-mails about penis enlargement. Seems like that might help a guy in your situation. I could forward them if you like. wink biggrin



Actually that whole confidence thing might be a better idea. They're just people.




anzig

anzig

Noblesville, IN
August 2005

AUG 26, 2005 09:52 PM

HAHAHAHAH, thanks about the enlargement but I'm QUITE alright.

ajl392

ajl392

I'm lost
January 2005

AUG 26, 2005 09:55 PM

Corollary: What's a good demonstration of the line separating confidence from arrogance?

I myself might be a lot more confident if I wasn't worried about coming off like my own number one fan.

Koleeta

Koleeta

Los Angeles, CA
May 2003

AUG 26, 2005 09:56 PM

everyone says confidence but what are you supposed to do if you're scared shitless?

yes I admit that I find confidence to be attractive but I also know what it's like to not be able to speak to someone you reaaallly want to talk to. I don't know if you've ever done any acting but I try to think of myself as a "character" when I get really nervous. I'm just being someone else and if that guys rejects me or isn't that interested, he is blowing off the character I was playing...

So with this in mind I also use the character to do things that I, Koleeta, wouldn't normally do because I am too shy. For example, as this other person I would randomly go up to a guy and start shootin the shit about nothing...about something really random. It would be okay because it's not really me out there, I'm just along for the ride.

hey, way to sound really stupid, Koleeta. I'll go away now.

[Edited on Aug 26, 2005 by Koleeta]

Spaceboy

Spaceboy

Dallas, TX
October 2004

AUG 26, 2005 09:59 PM

What if you fake confidence? Can they tell?

toothpickmoe

toothpickmoe

Los Angeles, CA
May 2004

AUG 26, 2005 10:00 PM

I think Koleeta's ideas are interesting, not stupid.

On the flip side of that there is this. Breathe, relax, and just be who you are. It's just another person in front of you, not some unattainable thing. If you are looking for love, or even a good hook-up, how can it work if you aren't yourself?

Koleeta

Koleeta

Los Angeles, CA
May 2003

AUG 26, 2005 10:01 PM

ajl392 said:
Corollary: What's a good demonstration of the line separating confidence from arrogance?

I myself might be a lot more confident if I wasn't worried about coming off like my own number one fan.



don't talk about yourself. I mean you can talk about yourself as in "Hi I'm ___, I do this for a living, I enjoy blah blah blah." I find it annoying when I'm at a show and a guy will come up to me and start talking about how he's such a better bass player or drummer than the one in the band. I won't tell you how many times this has happened to me. When you're confident you can talk about other things...things that the other person might find funny, or also do as a hobby, or a movie, something besides you.

Jena

Jena

New York, NY
June 2003

AUG 26, 2005 10:01 PM

I think you should rent the fine film Magnolia, sir Tom Cruise the wacko's finest hour performance. In his role he shows you how to make that sweet little hard body your cock sucking honey. Fucking priceless advice. love love love

Jena

Jena

New York, NY
June 2003

AUG 26, 2005 10:02 PM

Spaceboy said:
What if you fake confidence? Can they tell?



Like a dog senses fear! A shark to blood! tongue kiss

Koleeta

Koleeta

Los Angeles, CA
May 2003

AUG 26, 2005 10:03 PM

Spaceboy said:
What if you fake confidence? Can they tell?



I've never been able to spot someone who faked confidence so...no?

anzig

anzig

Noblesville, IN
August 2005

AUG 26, 2005 10:07 PM

koleeta and toothpickmoe I tihnk the two of you have been the most helpful on this thread so far. Thankyou so much. As for that last comment about the shark to blood YIKES!!! lol

zombiexdoll

zombiexdoll

San Antonio, TX
November 2004

AUG 26, 2005 10:14 PM

I would have to say....don't let them know that they make your nervous. Because yeah....I know what I'm trying to say but I can't get it out.
whatever

shinyredstar

shinyredstar

Tempe, AZ
January 2005

AUG 26, 2005 10:15 PM

AverageGroupie said:

Spaceboy said:
What if you fake confidence? Can they tell?



Like a dog senses fear! A shark to blood! tongue kiss



Or bees...

toothpickmoe

toothpickmoe

Los Angeles, CA
May 2004

AUG 26, 2005 10:16 PM

anzig said:
koleeta and toothpickmoe I tihnk the two of you have been the most helpful on this thread so far. Thankyou so much. As for that last comment about the shark to blood YIKES!!! lol


A pleasure.

Maybe she and I should start a "Ask Her & Him" advice column. smile

Fatality

Fatality

SUICIDEGIRL

USA

AUG 26, 2005 10:18 PM

I'm sorry, I almost always feel like that.

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