burningpanda said:
It seems a lot of people are talking about exes, in which case I've found that distance gives perspective, which leads to being thankful you aren't with them anymore (and that whole "what was I thinking?!?!" stage).
But in terms of missing people when they are absent... I'm in Russia right now and my boyfriend is in Canada. It actually physically pains me. But it's made our relationship tonnes stronger, and I think the "Welcome Home Sex" will more than make up for it.
God, I know this feeling... I've been getting over her, but just recently I had a relapse. Tried to get her back, but it didn't happen, and right now I feel like I'm right back where I started. I think this time, I'm gonna have to let go for real. I'd kept some souvenirs that I couldn't get rid of, but now, I think that's the only way. Not exactly a tangible thing, since I never look at the stuff anyway, but kind of a symbolic gesture of letting go of that part of my life.
fluxuation
Ottawa, ON
April 2005
AUG 27, 2005 08:17 AM