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JacksColon

JacksColon

USA
February 2005

AUG 24, 2005 10:02 PM

I try not to cheat, but sometimes it's hard ( no pun intended). For me, seeing the cheat reminds me of what a loathsome shit I can be. I prefer nuking my bridges over burning them.

meatpieboy

meatpieboy

Korea, D.P.R.
June 2004

AUG 25, 2005 06:57 AM

shinyredstar said:
Sometimes shit happens and you fall out of love or realize it just isn't happening and that's okay but I wish I'd been more open with my ex about it.




This is it exactly... It sucked and I wish I had been mature enough and not-fucked-up enough to have handled it differently, or realized that it was going to suck, but I wasn't, so it was. Shit.

carla

Carla

Edmonton, AB
July 2004

AUG 25, 2005 07:25 AM

I'm currently with the one I left my last boyfriend for. We weren't doing much by way of cheating, pretty much just a lot of snuggling, but emotionally it might as well have been cheating.

The overlap between the two relationships was a year ago this month. I recently realised that the idea of even looking at other boys with the serious consideration of being with them had stopped for me. Yay monogamy! That feeling never came with the ex in this situation, nor with any of my other exes, for that matter. But then, I never pretended that wasn't the case, either.

meatpieboy

meatpieboy

Korea, D.P.R.
June 2004

AUG 25, 2005 07:55 AM

shinyredstar said:
Sometimes shit happens and you fall out of love or realize it just isn't happening and that's okay but I wish I'd been more open with my ex about it.




This is it exactly... It sucked and I wish I had been mature enough and not-fucked-up enough to have handled it differently, or realized that it was going to suck, but I wasn't, so it was. Shit.

BigFloppy

BigFloppy

Hartford, CT
June 2005

AUG 25, 2005 08:33 AM

1, no
2, ?
3, ?

HostileIntent

HostileIntent

Oklahoma City, OK
August 2005

AUG 25, 2005 08:48 AM

NEVER been the other woman . . . but been cheated on by almost every man I ever cared about. I've always wondered if redemption and remorse was REAL or just a way for them to gain forgiveness.


[Edited on Aug 25, 2005 by hostileintent]

lanks

lanks

Canada
May 2005

AUG 25, 2005 12:19 PM

No way I would ever cheat on someone.. nor would I stay with someone who cheated on me.

Nage

Nage

Seattle, WA
April 2004

AUG 25, 2005 05:59 PM

Dated someone while travelling who neglected to tell me (for the first three weeks) that he had a gf of three years back home. I was horrified to have been the other woman without even knowing it frown but i was in love...horrible, I know. She broke up with him, and I moved across the country to be with him, and here we are over three years later.

meatpieboy

meatpieboy

Korea, D.P.R.
June 2004

AUG 25, 2005 08:07 PM

hostileintent said:
NEVER been the other woman . . . but been cheated on by almost every man I ever cared about. I've always wondered if redemption and remorse was REAL or just a way for them to gain forgiveness.


[Edited on Aug 25, 2005 by hostileintent]



Since I'm here in public and she's never going to see this, I'll be honest. It's real, in my case. I don't think I deserve forgiveness. I don't think she should ever need to talk to me again. I want her to, I want her respect, but I can't ask for it. And it's not pride, it's that I did something that betrayed all the many years of trust she gave me, and I don't deserve forgiveness.

Skurvash

Skurvash

Kailua, HI
July 2005

AUG 25, 2005 08:21 PM

I've never cheated in any way shape or form. I have been cheated on however by two or three girlfriends. If anything, it's made my morals all that much stronger, I'd never put someone through that, and now, when entering a relationship, I make it very clear that communication is key, and if at some point they feel like cheating, respect me enough at least to break up with me first, then do whatever you like. I'd much rather get dumped then be cheated on.

I_Poop_Too_Much

I_Poop_Too_Much

I'm lost
February 2004

AUG 26, 2005 04:49 AM

Ohhh, the Cheat is not dead....I'm so glad the Cheat is not dead...

meatpieboy

meatpieboy

Korea, D.P.R.
June 2004

AUG 26, 2005 02:19 PM

StrongSad, I didn't know you had rhythm!

shinyredstar

shinyredstar

Tempe, AZ
January 2005

AUG 26, 2005 10:14 PM

lanks said:
No way I would ever cheat on someone.. nor would I stay with someone who cheated on me.



Haha. This is funny. It's kind of like listening to my pretentious fuck of a friend who stopped talking to me because I got a divorce and she couldn't understand my decision. She said she'd never get a divorce- she'd do whatever it took to make her marriage work. She got married and divorced within three years of writing me off as a friend. You can't know what you will or won't do until you're there. whatever

Juliana

Juliana

SUICIDEGIRL

Saint Lucia

AUG 26, 2005 10:30 PM

I don't agree with the "Once a cheater, always a cheater" notion. People can change for the better.

xecutech

xecutech

Nashville, TN
August 2005

AUG 26, 2005 11:39 PM

It hurts to be cheated on! I found out that in a 10 year relationship that it went on for 7-8 of them. PAIN!!!! I still ache from it, but I'm over it now.

I owned an adult entertainment business and never cheated once, everything was done mutually, at least I thought it was.

Morgan

Morgan

SUICIDEGIRL

Illinois, USA

AUG 27, 2005 12:30 PM

Juliana said:
I don't agree with the "Once a cheater, always a cheater" notion. People can change for the better.



Word.

I cheated once, a very long time ago. I learned that it's stupid to be such a coward and that cheating means doing something I'll never forgive myself for...and I can't imagine ever doing it again.

MrDaft

MrDaft

Vancouver, BC
January 2005

AUG 27, 2005 12:37 PM

Morgan said:

Juliana said:
I don't agree with the "Once a cheater, always a cheater" notion. People can change for the better.



Word.

I cheated once, a very long time ago. I learned that it's stupid to be such a coward and that cheating means doing something I'll never forgive myself for...and I can't imagine ever doing it again.



I have never actually cheated...but I have always believed in this rule of people being able to change.

smile

attn_ho

attn_ho

Brooklyn, NY
February 2004

AUG 27, 2005 12:47 PM

just a thought,

maybe when someone confesses to being a cheater, you should casually say, "oh thats ok, everybody cheats SOMEtimes".

the reaction and yelling might just be worth it. when they ask you who youve cheated with, respond, "nobody, yet."

yup, that would be healthy.

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