Staying with your cheat?

So, I recently realized that I wasn't in love with the girl I was engaged to marry, and broke things off with her. This revelation came during/after I began cheating. I'm not proud of the cheating, because I really respect the girl I was with (although my actions don't support that, I know). But I've ended up pursuing things with my cheat, because she's really cool - SO

how many of you out there are still with your cheat? Did it work? Did it not work? Why?

the fact that the first reply posted wasn't a picture of The Cheat makes me sad.

Cheated once, lost someone I loved very deeply when I told her, lesson learned.

not still with her. we didn't break up immediately though, and when we did, it wasn't for that really. i just didn't want to deal with it.

so hey...yea...don't cheat!

Although, two married women cheated on their husbands with me, does that count against me, or them?

I don't know..... Does it offend you to be called a home wrecker? Or does it excite you???

Hm.. Depends, if you had/have a girlfriend at the time, then both. If not, then just them ; O

I've never cheated, but I've been cheated on. I would never do that someone else I just remember the pain that came from it. It's too hard to look at the person that cheated on you in the face and forgot what they have done to you.

Better to stay with someone he doesn't love?

Seems like the non-cheating party involved in the new couple would always be wondering: If he/she did it to him/her, what's to stop the same from happening to me?

Your cheatin' heart will make you weep,
You'll cry and cry, and try to sleep.
But sleep won't come, the whole night through.
Your cheatin' heart, will tell on you.

When tears come down like falling rain,
You'll toss around, and call my name.
You'll walk the floor, the way I do.
Your cheatin' heart, will tell on you.

People need to listen to country music more .. it has the answers.

But their achey-breaky hearts won't listen!

The Cheat is GROUNDED!!!! I installed that switch for you to turn the lights ON and OFF. Not to throw light switch raves!!!

I love that you can download the rave music to that.

Oh and cute girls posting about the Cheat =



Note: Achy Breaky Heart is not country music, but rather an abomination.

if you cheat on me and i find out its over imediatly no excuses no forgiving

I don't know if I could cheat even given the opportunity. There's really no excuse. If I'm having problems in a relationship, I do at least attempt to address the problem as soon as possible.
Then again, in that fucked up corner of my mind, I -almost- want to experience the feeling and mentality of a situation like that, but I've always had too much respect for the significant other at the time. I know it sounds bad, but I hope some can understand

I think I'm in love with you for posting this.

I've never cheated, but I've been the other woman, and I've been cheated on. Goddamn, all those situations turned out horrid.

Y'know, that's pretty rigid. Sometimes shit happens, people honestly fuck up and learn their lesson, and they should be forgiven. Occasionally cheating or being cheated on can actually make relationships stronger in the long run. Being willing to give mercy doesn't make you a doormat.

When you've lived and loved like Hank...... well, I think you still die alone.

staying with the person you are cheating with is no god IMO. its built on a bed of lies. if he/she was any sort of reasonable adult they wouldve backed away from the situation knowing you had someone else and said, "hey, youre cool but...handle your shit then come see me"

theres a time and place for everything, and if youre not in love or into the person youre currently with, it is the worst time to persue something with someone else. chill out, end it with your current partner, then persue that other person. dont be a dick.

well, it wasn't a long term cheat, we told my gf the morning after the first time we had sex, the break up took about a month because my gf wouldn't take a bloody hint. At any rate, I've been married to my cheat for 5 years now, and still going strong.

Well, I would've said THE Cheat, if I'd wanted the Cheat. Dammit, I knew that would happen...