Not liking it?

Try doing it with her wearing silk/satin knickers, this makes the friction much more pleasurable (I'm presuming the receiver is nude).

im not a fan of receiving, either. it doesnt do anything for me. what gets me off is getting the girl off. for me, sitting there being serviced just makes me uncomfortable.

Blowjobs have never realy done it for me. Yeah they're nice as a warmup, and I've had plenty that were good (I've had a couple girlfriends that REALY liked giving them and were REALY good at it). But with the exception of one time they've never been enough to get me to come.

UPDATE:
Okay, so I talked it out with some people today, and I'm pretty sure the foreplay stuff was just too much friction downstairs. So... I figure we just take it a little easy in that neighborhood next time, and try it again, hopefully with more success. But even with what it was, it was nice. I hope she calls soon...

ive yet to get a blowjob that gets me off. im not really a fan.

i love dry humping more than sex sometimes. i think the stripclubs messed me up in that regards. i have a problem with too much dry humping and sometimes getting a little raw. thats no good at all.

good luck

Um... well... not exactly. Fact of the matter is, she was wearing jeans and cotton underwear. I was wearing boxers and camo shorts. Which really makes it remarkable that she managed to get off from it.

That hurts me just to read it.
Well, perhaps as your relationship progresses (and going by your reports, I think it will) this could be something to try and improve the sensation.

I used to have that problem. But not anymore. I have no idea what changed.

Yeah. Well, like I said, it had been almost six years. I've got a lot to learn and re-learn. But for what it's worth, she said she'd never gotten off that way or that fast before, so at least if it worked for one of us. Even if it did have me walking like John Wayne at work all day.

I like getting oral sex, I have never gotten off on it though ... it kind of hurts so much that I can't handle it long enough to get off on it ... it's a good hurting though

as for giving I can only get a guy off if I am in the mood to give oral sex and have to really really be into it


I think she would have to be stupid to not call you again over that, maybe she will see getting you off orally as a challenge

I think your 5 and a half year dry spell is what's doing it. Of course you want some action....but while leading up to doing the deed I think maybe you run into a mental blockage. It's the built up anxiety. I'm no Frued but here's my 2 cents.

I don't so much like getting as I do giving oral.
And, to pat my back a little... I have, on two different guys, gotten them off on a blow job after they said they didn't like them.
I think it really just all depends on how you do it. It's almost always possible to enjoy it that much, you just have to do it right



and by the way.... "So even if she took out a restraiting order against my cock, I think I'd be fine, as long as I get to see her." ... is like the cutest thing ever!!

1. nothings wrong with you. a lot of guys say they never get off on it.

2. you told her...i don't get off on it. now she wants to be the best and actually make you get off on it. i have a friend who was told that by her ex and just to prove him wrong she did it...after an hour and a half! girls will take that seriously as you challenging them. what you should have said is, i don't mind kisses and pets there but i don't really like blow jobs. solves the problem.

3. this question should've been asked to girls becuz they know more about it than guys know of other guys. no. it's not that rare for us to hear it.

1) nothing's wrong with you

3) like everyone before me mentioned, it really depends on who you are and what you dig on. I don't usually enjoy oral from a girl until she gets to know what things feel good for me and what doesn't. give her a chance to learn your body and maybe it'll improve.

I don't know about the rest but if I was the girl it happened to I would feel bad- extra bad if I were really into you. Big blow to the ego ya know??? If it really always happens or whatever, you need to let her know it really isn't her. Really- talk to the girl, I would feel super shitty... if you didn't talk to me bout it I really might think it's me. you get me???

I know for me its not my favorite thing in the world for some reason. I really love giving, but receving .. meh. I have had situations where the flag went to half mast during a blowjob. I turn it into some 69 action, and everything is all good.

from a girl's point, she was probably secretly happy to stop and continue with the better stuff

I will rarely ever get off from a blowjob. In fact, the person I've been seeing for the last 5 years has never been able to get me off with one. But I still enjoy it. It's like forplay for guys lolz.

Very early in the relationship after I let her do her *best* to make me cum from a bj she asked what was wrong with me. I about dumped her.

I could've had the best orgasm ever... but if I thought I didn't turn a guy on I would probably not call him and would hope to never see him again.







But with any luck she isn't as neurotic as me.

Never been a big fan either to be honest...like you say, I've never really had a good one and no amount of communication has really made it better.

Don't ever think there's anything wrong with yourself mate...you're unique and perfect as you are.

As for her not liking you because of it...I've never really encountered that...I mean, people just like different things...my girlfriends have always been fine, I think this is helped in part because I really, really love going down on them...

Here's my blow job story.

At 24, I've had my first consistently good blow job action. I always had experiences just like Phased's, where nothing was all that satisfying. Now, finally, I'm with someone who's persistent and she figured me out, and I love blow jobs from her.

The important thing is she's patient, and has a lot of endurance. It takes me a long time to come, unless there's some danger that someone will walk into the room. We've found that KY Jelly helps a lot, because when she rubs my cock with that stuff I feel like Snuggles the bear miniaturized and moved into my groin, and is helping her out from the inside.

It also helps when she alternates between using her mouth and jerking me off at the same time, then just rubbing the end of my penis really fast. I find that switching around a lot helps. Staying with one sensation for half-an-hour does nothing for me. Neither does someone putting her mouth on it; that doesn't feel like much, and I need friction.

It also takes me a long time to come during sex, again unless there's some danger of discovery.

If you wany my opinion, to anyone with this sort of problem it just takes time and experimentation. And communication!