Over...

Could someone please take out their Girl-to-English dictionary and translate this for me: I go out with this girl. Maybe it's a date, maybe it's not, I'm not really sure. Anyway, we go to a show and we dance a bit, we get close a bit, we hold hands a bit, we kiss a bit. Then she tells me that she's in a relationship that is "over but not resolved". What is that supposed to mean?

She's still fucking him.

It means that you wasted any money you spent and have no right to reclaim. Or even to complain about it.

Better luck next time.

She knows that she doesn't want to go out with him anymore.

He doesn't.

She's not ready to date someone seriously. She may not be ready to sleep with you either. If you're interested procede with caution. If you are not interesnted back away carefully.

bingo. don't get involved until she cleans up her last mess

and yes, most likely.

How big is the "former" boyfriend?

Bingo.

...and possibly the one before him.

alright. I'm fucking her. And it's not OVER@!!!!!!!!

Or, He knows that he doesn't want to go out with her anymore.

She is wondering when he'll come back around.

Just fucking, or still together for real?
Because this was the first time we went out, I have no expectation that she's not fucking other guys. But if there's a guy out there who thinks he's got a n exclusive thing... Portland's a small town, with a smaller indie music scene, and word travels fast.

This thread is worthless without pictures.

That means she wants the best of both worlds...
Or that she has no clue as to what she wants.



[Edited on Aug 11, 2005 by COOPS]

Poor clueless Hotcurry. I stole your girl! Mwahahahaha. If you ever want to see her again, please leave two billion dollars in unmarked non-consecutive two-dollar bills in the third stall in the men's room at Denny's. No cops. No funny stuff.

it means that He's stalking her and she likes it but tells him not to call her anymore so ocassionally he catches her when shes down in the dumps and she gives him head....

but that is just my opinion....

Run away dude, she's playing games. She may not mean to, but she is.

I've been there enough times to recognise it.

She hasn't found a new place yet and could you help her move when she does.

Yeah, seriously, get out of that. If anything, she has a problem with being alone and is one of those types to assure that she has a good transition from one relationship to another without dealing with any resentments and complications from the previous. it's not a bad thing, and it's most definately just a guess on my part - but a girl shouldn't necessarily be fooling around with someone else until they figure out their baggage and make sure the previous relationship is dealt with. The last thing you want down the line is drama and restimulation from bad stuff from her previous boyfriend coming up with you. My philosophy is that new relationships deserve a clean slate.

no magic eight ball needed here.

Uno!

TBS - You win for the best translation.

Dude, it's a green light to get in her pants, and then dump her while reminding her that it was not an exclusive thing. Don't get suckered into liking her though. It'd be like falling for a hooker - you know from the get go she's bad news.

you pay attention to what girls say?