Help getting sex! - confidence

agreed.

That dude Tony Robins the self help guru, Well what he does is called Nero Linguistic Programming or NLP for short. He has just rebranded and re marketed NLP for his own ends. In the NLP community he is hated and i mean hated. get some books on NLP and you'll learn a hell of a lot about confidance I know I have

P.S confidance is just a state of mind just like love, hate, attraction etc. you can make your self confidant by believing you already are.

I say don't focus on sex or being confident. Focus on really enjoying people and yourself. Start conversation with the intent on simply finding out what is interesting about a person. Start enjoying the simple act of meeting new people. When you relax a bit more...people will feel more comfortable with you.

The world is an amazing place...enjoy it...and the people in it. When people realize you are truly doing that...they will want to take part in it.

Again, try not focus on sex...believe me...that will come if people think you are really interested in them.

Does that make any sense or do I seem to be babbling on??? It really does make sense to me but I can't seem to put the appropriate wording to the idea.

One word: Roofies.

You are Merciless! I love it!

Don't listen to them man... Just hit on guys in the presence of women! They'll think you're sensitive, want to be your best friend, and when they start confessing things to you, that's when to lay on the "boy, I've never had sex with a woman before, but if I did want to, I'd want you to be my first... ~sigh~" It works EVERY single time...

[Edited on Aug 08, 2005 by chiaroscurox]

no wonder i don't have any confidence! i'm hung like a birthmark

this sounds like pretty sound advice.

Well, good. Take some advice from an old broad who's been around a while. (well, maybe not THAT kind of "around" ;-) ) If you simply start enjoying YOURSELF and really just try to meet people for who they are...people will start to gravitate to YOU. Be genuine. Don't worry SO much about the sex. BELIEVE me, it will come and if you are true to yourself the sex you DO have will be far more enjoyable than simply when you try to pick someone up. As well, you will simply start to have more fun.

Someone who is really enjoying themself is FAR more attractive. Don't worry if you leave a place one night without someone on your arm. If girls know that everytime they see you somewhere you are just trying to pick someone up...they might be less likely to even bother with you.