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HyenaHell

hyenahell

I'm lost
April 2003

AUG 08, 2005 01:51 PM

RedHeadOnTheBass said:
Best. Advice. Ever.


Rock_StarDom said:
First things first, forget about appearing to have confidence. Find your confidence, and the appearance will take care of itself.

Secondly, confidence is not something you create, it's something you find.

Seek out challenges and prevail. Find difficult situations and overcome, rather than hide from them. Get in a fight that you can't win. A black eye or a cracked rib hurts alot more than being turned down by some chick, trust me.

Third, lose the fear. Whether it's fear of defeat, fear of rejection, or the biggest one of all, fear of the unknown, find some way to get over it. Confidence when you know you'll win is cheap, having the balls to "go for it" when the result is uncertain, well, that's pure gold.

Finally, your search for your own confidence must be a journey you take for yourself. Forget girls, and forget getting laid. All of that is just a fortunate side effect of something much more important. If you live your life acting a certain way to impress women, people will thing you're a colossal dipshit, and they'll be right




agreed.

tech29

tech29

I'm lost
July 2004

AUG 08, 2005 01:51 PM

That dude Tony Robins the self help guru, Well what he does is called Nero Linguistic Programming or NLP for short. He has just rebranded and re marketed NLP for his own ends. In the NLP community he is hated and i mean hated. get some books on NLP and you'll learn a hell of a lot about confidance I know I have

P.S confidance is just a state of mind just like love, hate, attraction etc. you can make your self confidant by believing you already are. wink

roxymoron

roxymoron

Alameda, CA
July 2005

AUG 08, 2005 02:04 PM

I say don't focus on sex or being confident. Focus on really enjoying people and yourself. Start conversation with the intent on simply finding out what is interesting about a person. Start enjoying the simple act of meeting new people. When you relax a bit more...people will feel more comfortable with you.

The world is an amazing place...enjoy it...and the people in it. When people realize you are truly doing that...they will want to take part in it.

Again, try not focus on sex...believe me...that will come if people think you are really interested in them.

Does that make any sense or do I seem to be babbling on??? It really does make sense to me but I can't seem to put the appropriate wording to the idea.

StarBelliedBoy

StarBelliedBoy

Philadelphia, PA
December 2003

AUG 08, 2005 02:07 PM

One word: Roofies.






wink

corsair

corsair

Greer, SC
July 2004

AUG 08, 2005 02:14 PM

unravled said:
Ignore all these people. Self-confidence is directly proportionate to penis size. Get a bigger penis.




You are Merciless! I love it! wink

Darke

Darke

Columbia, MO
June 2005

AUG 08, 2005 02:25 PM

Don't listen to them man... Just hit on guys in the presence of women! They'll think you're sensitive, want to be your best friend, and when they start confessing things to you, that's when to lay on the "boy, I've never had sex with a woman before, but if I did want to, I'd want you to be my first... ~sigh~" It works EVERY single time... tongue biggrin tongue

[Edited on Aug 08, 2005 by chiaroscurox]

Thistle

Thistle

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

AUG 08, 2005 02:47 PM

CrazyWhiteGirl said:
Alcohol. But not too much. And a really, really drunk girl.



um, EW.

Thistle

Thistle

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

AUG 08, 2005 03:03 PM

dkmfc said:

Thistle said:

CrazyWhiteGirl said:
Alcohol. But not too much. And a really, really drunk girl.



um, EW.


I'm sure she wasn't meaning to suggest rape.

but yeah that's what you get with a really really drunk girl.



pretty much. personally i find this type of humor pretty lame as it seems to condone date rape. but whatever.

bionictrip

bionictrip

Newport, KY
April 2005

AUG 08, 2005 08:50 PM

unravled said:
Ignore all these people. Self-confidence is directly proportionate to penis size. Get a bigger penis.


no wonder i don't have any confidence! i'm hung like a birthmark frown

bionictrip

bionictrip

Newport, KY
April 2005

AUG 08, 2005 08:54 PM

roxymoron said:
I say don't focus on sex or being confident. Focus on really enjoying people and yourself. Start conversation with the intent on simply finding out what is interesting about a person. Start enjoying the simple act of meeting new people. When you relax a bit more...people will feel more comfortable with you.

The world is an amazing place...enjoy it...and the people in it. When people realize you are truly doing that...they will want to take part in it.

Again, try not focus on sex...believe me...that will come if people think you are really interested in them.

Does that make any sense or do I seem to be babbling on??? It really does make sense to me but I can't seem to put the appropriate wording to the idea.



this sounds like pretty sound advice.

roxymoron

roxymoron

Alameda, CA
July 2005

AUG 08, 2005 09:07 PM

bionictrip said:
this sounds like pretty sound advice.



Well, good. Take some advice from an old broad who's been around a while. (well, maybe not THAT kind of "around" ;-) ) If you simply start enjoying YOURSELF and really just try to meet people for who they are...people will start to gravitate to YOU. Be genuine. Don't worry SO much about the sex. BELIEVE me, it will come and if you are true to yourself the sex you DO have will be far more enjoyable than simply when you try to pick someone up. As well, you will simply start to have more fun.

Someone who is really enjoying themself is FAR more attractive. Don't worry if you leave a place one night without someone on your arm. If girls know that everytime they see you somewhere you are just trying to pick someone up...they might be less likely to even bother with you.

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