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MissMyla

MissMyla

Vancouver, WA
December 2004

AUG 03, 2005 10:37 AM

Has anyone done it? Why'd you do it? How long did you last? Regrets?

Well, last night at midnight, I began my attempt at it. You can read about it in my journal if you like.

Wish me luck biggrin

Onibubba

Onibubba

Hopkinsville, KY
October 2004

AUG 03, 2005 10:43 AM

Good luck! Hey! Try not to suck any dicks on your way to the parking lot!

Sorry, got to put in a Clerks quote where I can biggrin

Onibubba

Onibubba

Hopkinsville, KY
October 2004

AUG 03, 2005 01:24 PM

shocked Sorry for killing your thread! It was just a joke...

So I'll give a serious answer. My experiences show that if you are not careful, abstaining can withdraw you from society somewhat. Be sure you are OK with that if you are considering it for the long term (over a year).

And no, no regrets yet!

Pebbles

Pebbles

I'm lost
October 2004

AUG 03, 2005 01:49 PM

Well I was picky on who I slept with and I finally did have sex when I was 21. I did it with someone I really loved. I noticed that because I hadn't slept with anyone that people were a bit cold to me and now, it isn't that way at all.

I think it is a great idea, just make sure you can handle it.

Mercie

Mercie

SUICIDEGIRL

Connecticut, USA

AUG 03, 2005 02:04 PM

I read your journal. why deny yourself the right of good old masturbation? if you're going chaste that's the only thing that's going to keep you sane.

googused

googused

Portland, OR
OLD SKOOL

AUG 03, 2005 02:05 PM

Why bother? Arm your desires!

MissMyla

MissMyla

Vancouver, WA
December 2004

AUG 03, 2005 02:14 PM

Mercie said:
I read your journal. why deny yourself the right of good old masturbation? if you're going chaste that's the only thing that's going to keep you sane.



Yeah, I know. It seems to be what I'm getting all the shit for so far LOL.

For me, I'm the kinda girl that doesn't satisfy quite easily. I can masturbate, cum really hard, and still not be satisfied. Sometimes, it gets to the point where I'll call a certain someone to come over until I'm good and done. So I figure if I stop masturbation all together, it'll lessen the chance that I'll give in and call someone.

Domnicella

Domnicella

Flushing, NY
March 2004

AUG 03, 2005 02:35 PM

Piece of cake...after awhile surreal .

MissMyla

MissMyla

Vancouver, WA
December 2004

AUG 05, 2005 02:36 PM

Day 3 and I'm still sane biggrin

Actually, I'm a lot happier. Don't know if it's because of what I'm doing or because it's Friday or because it's just a really nice day outside... but I'm in a good mood either way biggrin

Subrosa

Subrosa

San Francisco, CA
July 2004

AUG 05, 2005 02:41 PM

Not on purpose.

papawheelie

papawheelie

Fisty, KY
February 2003

AUG 05, 2005 02:43 PM

i find that 30 days of chaste now and again (including masturbation) is awesome. I'm a guy so it's maybe different, but I bet the results (clear head, lots of creative energy, etc.) are similar. i even notice a difference after like a week, though i haven't had a week of no sex in a very long time

stockula

stockula

Anchorage, AK
May 2003

AUG 05, 2005 02:59 PM

Why do girls do stupid things like this?

1kiss_of_life

1kiss_of_life

St Vincent/Grenadines
December 2004

AUG 05, 2005 03:10 PM

I agree with Pebbles. Be picky. Don't settle. Things like that. Know what type of person you want to be with and look for that. That's what I did .... do. As for how long. Um, yeah, well I don't remember.

btw, the type of person you want to be with? Make sure that person can actually exist. I'm just sayin'. wink Good luck.

1kiss_of_life

1kiss_of_life

St Vincent/Grenadines
December 2004

AUG 05, 2005 04:14 PM

I'll seize the Acropolis. They will be able to deny us nothing. Mwahahaha.

Britney

Britney

Kennewick, WA
December 2003

AUG 05, 2005 04:22 PM

.............. I'm not jumping into the chastity boat with you..... But I will be here to throw you a lifesaver if you jump out of the boat and start drowning in sexual frustration!......

MourningGlory

MourningGlory

Vancouver, WA
July 2005

AUG 05, 2005 09:38 PM

Again, I just hope it helps ya out. It sounds nuts to me....but it's not me making the vow. Good luck, hon. smile

MamaZuma

MamaZuma

USA
March 2005

AUG 05, 2005 09:53 PM

MissMyla, check out Mantak Chia's books on tantra, particularly Healing Love Through the Toa, Culivating Female Sexual Energy. You may find it interesting and helpful.

Here is a

Reveiw of Healing Love through the Tao from his web site.

Rephrased

Rephrased

Portland, ME
June 2003

AUG 05, 2005 10:40 PM

Once I didn't masturbate for about four months. I actually got to feeling pretty depressed. It has a serious effect on your mental well-being. Not having that release is a lot of stress that builds up. Now I take care of my business on a regular basis. Aside from taking care of #1, I've been chaste for almost six years. Voluntarily for two, then involuntarily for two, and (semi)voluntarily for the last two or so. (By semi I mean that I don't exactly have a security detail outside my bedroom door holding back the restless mob.) Sex with other people is just too much emotional hassle to go about getting, maintaining, and feeling good about.

[Edited on Aug 06, 2005 by Phased]

MamaZuma

MamaZuma

USA
March 2005

AUG 05, 2005 11:04 PM

You can get depressed because of a blockage of your chi. Sexual energy is very powerful and essential to our health and well being. You can release that energy through regular orgasm or you can with practice, transform it into very potent spiritual energy.

Cultivating sexual energy benifits both those who are chaste and sexually active. But if you are chaste it is especially important to channel sexual chi in a healthy way. And if you are active you can learn to acheive multiple orgasms that can last for an hour or more!

MissMyla

MissMyla

Vancouver, WA
December 2004

AUG 06, 2005 03:22 PM

stockula said:
Why do girls do stupid things like this?



Because of stupid boys tongue

Hotpockets

Hotpockets

Portland, OR
April 2004

AUG 07, 2005 01:56 AM

MissMyla said:

stockula said:
Why do girls do stupid things like this?



Because of stupid boys tongue



ZING!

MissMyla

MissMyla

Vancouver, WA
December 2004

AUG 07, 2005 03:44 AM

There has been tempation all around me since I started this... I'm surprising myself with how strong I've been.

By the way, thanks for everyone's words good or bad smile

Melika

Melika

SUICIDEGIRL

I'm lost

AUG 07, 2005 04:31 AM

WTF?
no reason on earth i would do this.

MissMyla

MissMyla

Vancouver, WA
December 2004

AUG 07, 2005 04:41 AM

Yeah, I'm only now realizing what I'm giving up. It's okay though. Not too bad, really. Just keep the hot girls in panties away from me. It's hard to be in a bed with a girl in her panties and another girl in hot pants and not get to touch. *sigh*

Woe is me.

Rephrased

Rephrased

Portland, ME
June 2003

AUG 07, 2005 08:13 AM

MissMyla said:
Yeah, I'm only now realizing what I'm giving up. It's okay though. Not too bad, really. Just keep the hot girls in panties away from me. It's hard to be in a bed with a girl in her panties and another girl in hot pants and not get to touch. *sigh*

Woe is me.


It is SO hard to feel sorry for you.

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