How long? til u get down?

how long do u wait while in a relationship to have sex?

say u have a gut feelin its gonna be a good relationship, does that change anything?

It matters on you and the person that you are with. If I'am have'n that gut feeling I'am going w it. If that mean that we are ging to have sex on the 1st date. I'am down. No matter what. If I didn't go with my gut feeling I wouldn't b with the one that I love right now. Sex should b fun, so make the most of it. And fuck as much as you ,.. pls.

Immediately. But then again, I rush into things far too quickly, so I probably am not the best person to ask.

there's no exact time limit. whenever u and that person feel like it's "time"
for me it's usually a few hang outs.
i know i know.

Going at your own speed is all that is needed, when it comes to sex.

and here I thought I was the only one. *dances* I am not alone!

t minus whenever it feels right

3 days, we found the time to do it, and we found many more times since

[Edited on Jul 29, 2005 by kubrick5]

If it happens and feels natural then whenever,

There is wisdom indeed on these here boards. I am in exactly this quandary myself, so perfect timing to find this

rule of thumb for me is 30 days... but rules are meant to be broken.

If I'm going to have sex with you ever I'll probably consent the first time you ask as long as I've gotten comfortable around you... or if you're aggressive. Never slept with someone I hadn't known a month in advance.

exactly

Wait!?!?

depends how drunk i am

I've waited as long as 4 months as as little as 2 days. It's all about comfort level. And, as Klair said, alcohol content.

Depends....sometimes the first night...sometimes not til the second or third date...never really much longer than that though...if I see someone twice it means I like them and wanna get in to bed with them as soon as possible.

My ex made me wait a month. It was awful and arbitrary, and near the last few days she said fuck it and decided it was a stupid idea. I would've waited a little, but not any specific length of time, just til I'm comfortable enough...Which probably was about two weeks in.