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Nikoli20

HOPEFUL

Orlando, FL

JUL 11, 2005 05:30 PM

Has anyone had a bad threesome situation? Is it bad to have a 3some with your bf and his bestfriend (female)?

StarBelliedBoy

Philadelphia, PA

December 2003

JUL 11, 2005 05:34 PM

I'd say YES.

Subrosa

San Francisco, CA

July 2004

JUL 11, 2005 05:35 PM

I've only had threesomes with random thirds, but I'd probably shy away from that sort of thing unless I was REALLY comfortable with the openness of your relationship.

In other words, I'd be hesitant to have a threesome with my GF and her best friend just because it will be a walking reminder of that night (good or bad) that you'll have to deal with all the time. The beauty of the one-time-only three way is that if it's bad you never have to speak of it again, but if it's good you can repeat at your leisure.

Good luck!

[Edited on Jul 11, 2005 by Subrosa]

nogodsnomanagers

United Kingdom

August 2003

JUL 11, 2005 05:38 PM

a resounding YES, i sure as fuck wouldn't want to have any reasons to think awful evil thoughts about whether my boy was secretly shagging his best friend, you need a clear head to be a true sleuth

movement4

Northampton, MA

December 2004

JUL 11, 2005 06:03 PM

If you think you AND the other parties involved are able to walk away absolutely chalking it up as a night of "experimentation and fun," I say go for it. A 3some can be an amazing exp. BUT!, if there is any inclination of doubt that that isn't possible for someone....don't do it. A 3way isn't worth loosing any type of friend over. In fact it sucks, I'm with Subrosa on the "random 3rd party" thing, or at least semi-random. good luck!

FridgeMagnet

Chicago, IL

November 2004

JUL 11, 2005 06:20 PM

I wouldn't do it.

Oh who the hell am I kidding, if they were hot, of course I'd do it. But I bet I'd regret the hell out of it later.

[Edited on Jul 11, 2005 by FridgeMagnet]

blindside

Bangladesh

April 2005

JUL 11, 2005 06:31 PM

I think it'd take an EXTREMELY stable relationship to make it through the experience unscathed. If it's with someone he's already close to, I would worry about the jealousy factor then or later.

It's fun at the time, but the aftermath may not be as much so.

reprobate

New Orleans, LA

December 2002

JUL 11, 2005 06:31 PM

Eh, go for it. Sure, bad things can happen, but frankly, bad things happen in all relationships. Trying to obviate or even predict what they will be in advance is futile.

PullOffMyWings

HOPEFUL

Mission Viejo, CA

JUL 11, 2005 06:34 PM

my only bad threesome (well, foursome for me) situation was when I passed out in the middle of it.

Nikoli20

HOPEFUL

Orlando, FL

JUL 11, 2005 06:37 PM

StarBelliedBoy said:
I'd say YES.

Yes to what?

Subrosa

San Francisco, CA

July 2004

JUL 11, 2005 06:43 PM

FridgeMagnet said:
I wouldn't do it.

Oh who the hell am I kidding, if they were hot, of course I'd do it. But I bet I'd regret the hell out of it later.

[Edited on Jul 11, 2005 by FridgeMagnet]

Yeah, I thought about adding a "Unless she's really hot" caveat to the end of my post... because then I would too. Consequences be DAMNED!

StarBelliedBoy

Philadelphia, PA

December 2003

JUL 11, 2005 06:43 PM

StarBelliedBoy said:
I'd say YES.

Yes to what?

Yes, it's a bad idea. Don't give your boyfriend license to fuck his best friend. Odds are, if it's any good, it won't stop there.

Malinko

HOPEFUL

Montreal, QC

JUL 11, 2005 06:45 PM

Well it can go either way, sometimes it can turn out bad sometimes it can be great fun.
But it is his best friend.. and if you seem unsure, then don't do it

FridgeMagnet

Chicago, IL

November 2004

JUL 11, 2005 06:51 PM

FridgeMagnet said:
I wouldn't do it.

Oh who the hell am I kidding, if they were hot, of course I'd do it. But I bet I'd regret the hell out of it later.

[Edited on Jul 11, 2005 by FridgeMagnet]

Yeah, I thought about adding a "Unless she's really hot" caveat to the end of my post... because then I would too. Consequences be DAMNED!

Right, plus it occurred to me that there's a certain hotness if it is truly her best friend. Cause then it's more than just fucking, it's like there's a tenderness there, and intimacy or something that would likely be SOOOOOPER hot. At least that's how it is in my head.

NeakyLikeANinja

HOPEFUL

USA

JUL 11, 2005 09:12 PM

Yeah... I dunno. The only great experiences I have had were in completely unstable relationships, i.e.- people I was partying with, and I wasn't in a relationship with.
Last time I had a threesome, my guy got attached to the girl, the girl got attached to me, and they both wanted to make it permanent. Bad times.
If it's fun, and completely one-time-only, then they can be great. But I don't really recommend doing it with someone you like.

BlastProcessing

USA

OLD SKOOL

JUL 11, 2005 09:15 PM

Buncha pessimists, that's what you are.

Sydni

SUICIDEGIRL

Washington, USA

JUL 11, 2005 09:20 PM

bad idea. Your situation, that is.

good can be threesomes, right permutation necessary.

/yoda

NeakyLikeANinja

HOPEFUL

USA

JUL 11, 2005 09:24 PM

Yeah, I think it should just never include anyone's best friend, or close friend, or good aquaintance...

BigFloppy

Hartford, CT

June 2005

JUL 11, 2005 09:24 PM

Nikoli20 said:
Has anyone had a bad threesome situation? Is it bad to have a 3some with your bf and his bestfriend (female)?

no no i have not, although i have only had one and talked about it here i was not bad.

a little hard, seeing how i was done in the back of a honda civic, not a new one or an old one but one thats a few years old.

i cant wait for the next, i just hope its in a more comfertable place than the back if a car.

it may have been acuward for them, they are best friends and roommates. one if the girls i hooked up with a few weeks ago and the other is the gf of my bestfriends roommate. the whole situation was kinda wierd but not bad, well not bad for me.

GravesForTheDays

Grand Rapids, MI

November 2003

JUL 11, 2005 09:29 PM

Threesomes ruin relationships, plain and simple.

TheJuanupsman

Hopkins, MN

April 2004

JUL 11, 2005 09:30 PM

I honestly can't say from experience. But I will say that from my perspective, based just on how I have felt about my female "best friends" it sounds like a bad idea. Very bad.

Subrosa

San Francisco, CA

July 2004

JUL 11, 2005 09:32 PM

GravesForTheDays said:
Threesomes ruin relationships, plain and simple.

Not in my experience they haven't.

bean

STAFF

Los Angeles, CA

JUL 11, 2005 09:36 PM

GravesForTheDays said:
Threesomes ruin relationships, plain and simple.

Please don't project your crappy experiences on the rest of us who have had threesomes that went well and maintained a wonderful, healthy relationship before, during, and after. Thanks.

bean

STAFF

Los Angeles, CA

JUL 11, 2005 09:38 PM

I'd say go for it as long as you're realistically sure that it's not just an excuse for them to get it on. If you're attracted to her and she's attracted to you, as well as any other dynamic that the three of you have going on, then it may be worth a shot.

On the other hand, if you have to ask whether you should do it, the answer is probably "no."

BigFloppy

Hartford, CT

June 2005

JUL 11, 2005 09:38 PM

GravesForTheDays said:
Threesomes ruin relationships, plain and simple.

my 3some would ruin my relationship, but that cause my girlfriend wasn't in it.

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