I have yet to finish with a condom on. This is immensely irritating as I'm also prone to some pretty fucking intense blue balls (long story), so it's a good thing I'm in a relationship where condoms are not necessary.

ElizaTheTroll

Australia

January 2006

DEC 06, 2007 11:37 PM

What's an erraction?

Soya

SUICIDEGIRL

Minnesota, USA

DEC 12, 2007 03:11 AM

hahaha! ERRACTION!

heck yes!

Well, since apparently Olaf is uneducated in 'erractions' ...

I think 'erractions' are kind of like ingrown toenails... only on your penis.

It usually happens to every guy on Wednesday nights or during
dinner with mother. They have ointment if it wont go away.

rub twice a day... with fury.

ElizaTheTroll

Australia

January 2006

DEC 12, 2007 05:19 AM

Ingrown toenails? On my penis?

*note to self: no more foot jobs from strangers*

Soya

SUICIDEGIRL

Minnesota, USA

DEC 12, 2007 06:17 AM

OlafTheTroll said:
Ingrown toenails? On my penis?

*note to self: no more foot jobs from strangers*

No silly! ingrown PENIS nails.

doy!

dingoes8

Milwaukee, WI

March 2004

DEC 12, 2007 10:05 AM

It's a total double standard.

In any thread about female orgasms, you'll find plenty of posts like "I just enjoy the sensations and intimacy, I don't have to get off. It frustrates me when a guy feels like he needs to make me cum." But the second a guy says that, they're some freak and they get dumped because the girl has some bogus need for orgasmic validation.

I was talking to a gay friend about it (he knows penises). He said guys who masturbate without lube lose sensation. So if they've always been doing it like that, it's nearly impossible to get off with a lubed condom on.

Ooops. I think I'm going to try not masturbating for like a month and then starting over, using lubed condoms.

soulcompromise

I'm lost

November 2006

DEC 12, 2007 12:09 PM

lol... I usually do but I remember a few times when i didn't want to and several when I just didn't. I was trying to impress her with how mature I was by not having an orgasm. Lol... I think it actually worked too!

StarBelliedBoy

Philadelphia, PA

December 2003

DEC 12, 2007 12:16 PM

dingoes8 said:
I was talking to a gay friend about it (he knows penises). He said guys who masturbate without lube lose sensation. So if they've always been doing it like that, it's nearly impossible to get off with a lubed condom on.

He's totally wrong.

soulcompromise

I'm lost

November 2006

DEC 12, 2007 12:29 PM

agreed.

Soya

SUICIDEGIRL

Minnesota, USA

DEC 13, 2007 02:46 AM

dingoes8 said:
It's a total double standard.

In any thread about female orgasms, you'll find plenty of posts like "I just enjoy the sensations and intimacy, I don't have to get off. It frustrates me when a guy feels like he needs to make me cum."

People actually say that crap?

TomeiNingen

USA

March 2007

DEC 13, 2007 06:37 AM

I have a problem of this nature too but mine is rooted in vulnerability issues. If its not the condom and you don't masterbate too much, it could be related to trust. I'll admit though, the condom doesn't help.

ElizaTheTroll

Australia

January 2006

DEC 13, 2007 03:51 PM

Soya_ said:

People actually say that crap?

Replace 'the sensation and intimacy' with 'fucking', 'guy' with 'woman' and 'he' with 'she', and you pretty much get exactly the crap I would say.

StarBelliedBoy

Philadelphia, PA

December 2003

DEC 13, 2007 04:01 PM

Soya_ said:

People actually say that crap?

Well, yeah, when they grow up and realize that an orgasm is not the be all/end all of sex.

Luscious

SUICIDEGIRL

Canada

DEC 13, 2007 05:22 PM

Yeah, the first few times I got with my man, he couldn't finish, he had only ever had one tight wad gf before me, so I think he was really intimidated...we would end up goin' at it for hours until we were raw...it didn't bother me, but we quickly got over it.
I personally have never got off from anything other than pretty rough sex, masturbation is useless to me...so I can see how a guy could be the same...no biggie...

dingoes8

Milwaukee, WI

March 2004

DEC 13, 2007 05:40 PM

StarBelliedBoy said:

He's totally wrong.

I'm not saying the guy is a licensed cockologist or anything, but he's interacted with many more penises than either of us, so I imagine he can see trends and patterns we can't. I also remember Dan Savage saying something similar, frequent and fast dry masturbation is not good. It would also explain my current predicament (hyuk). Do you have anything to disprove it?

StarBelliedBoy

Philadelphia, PA

December 2003

DEC 13, 2007 06:06 PM

dingoes8 said:

StarBelliedBoy said:

He's totally wrong.

My own experience. Maybe I just do it differently or something. I dunno.

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