Threesomes...

How many people have actually tried a threesome?

What i mean is, were you with someone and you decided to spice up your sex life by adding an extra partner for one night? Or even a few nights? Or even full time!!

I'm sure most people have either thought about it or at least fantasized about it. I was just sort of wondering what the pro's and con's would be. Like, has it come between a couple and messed things up or did it make things better?

Tried a threesome?

no.

Screwed up my chance for a threesome?

yes.

How do you mean you scrwed up the chance? Did you fall asleep or something?

Overated, or at least fucked up a relationship in the end.

it's dangerous cuz the third person might seem all well and together but, then start totally stalking you and your husband, switching into total drama mode, "but I love you..."

not that I know or anything...lol

I'm too greedy for that kind of shit.


I don't share my toys.

yes definately overated! it's more fun as a fantasy before all the interpersonal stuff gets muddled.

exactly. totally screws with relationships.

however .... there are situations where 3 friends who are all attracted to each other can have a threesome without emotions becoming involved. that is fun.

My theory is that girls like 'em with two boys because they get total fucking attention everywhere. But for a guy with two girls...you can only do one of 'em at a time anyway so it's not that big a deal.

Are you speaking from experience? Hahaha

*raises hand*

me, ex-girl, guypal

ummm i actually think they're fucking great...havent tried MMF so i can only speak fom a 2 female one male position...didnt even cause a bruise to my relationship (we're still together)...has happened a few tmes and it'll happen a few times more.

i think it helps that i missed out on the jealousy gene though...

Ive done that one a few times, zen. And also a few times with 2 girls. never was a problem.

well, ive had 3

1st one, screwed up a relationship....sorta


next 2 with the "other" girl from the firt one

yeah but it's all about the visuals...i reckon if i were a guy i'd rather have the opportunity to be doing my girl doggy watching her go down on another chick than actually having the anatomy to allow me to do em both at once...that's just me though, i dont even have ONE penis so i shouldnt be knocking having 2...

god i'm hungover.

Yeah, I would never try it with a loved one...Just some random people, but NEVER a lover...too much drama and thinking afterwards.

yes the visuals............mmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Why am I never in any threesome situations? Every girlfriend I've ever had has just been like "don't even think it"

Never had a threesome, but have had a partner who liked her girlfriend to watch us making out. Especially the foreplay bits.

This other girl seemed to particularly enjoy watching what was being done to me. The first time it happened I didn't think it was planned. Just one of those crazy things you get into at the end of a really great night out. But when it started to happen on subsequent occasions I realised it was probably all set up from the start without my knowledge.

I never tried to touch the other girl, who always remained clothed. It was kind of understood that was the way it would be. Who was I to complain?

I've never had one, but I want to have one with two other girls at least once in my lifetime. Then afterwards, we'd have a cuddle session and go pick flowers naked.

I'd only do it if i was in Milwaukee.

Dude, don't lie! You want a piece of this sooo fucking bad.

*Raises hand*