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residue

residue

I'm lost
OLD SKOOL

JUN 11, 2002 06:11 AM

defenitions:
homosexual and heterosexual ar defined ...
but when you love both men and women? why do they call this bi-sexual?
bi mean 2: so doesnt bisexual not mean that you love 2 women/men?
ok, i know thats called a threesome: but thats pretty undefined: man/man/woman, man x3, woman x3 or woman/woman/man ...

is it -once again- just me?

QUESTION: I read that most of the members on suicide girls are women, and that bisexuality is an overall turn-on for man ... but how many men of the SGmembers are bi? (in the loving man and woman kind of way)

vena666

vena666

Colts Neck, NJ
OLD SKOOL

JUN 11, 2002 06:21 AM

"bi" can also mean "both"

and i don't believe in gender.

ver0nika23

ver0nika23

New Orleans, LA
OLD SKOOL

JUN 11, 2002 08:59 AM

gender is socially constructed. there are several different biological sexes as well. i identify as bisexual, but it gets kind of murkey when you toss in all of the gender stuff.

residue

residue

I'm lost
OLD SKOOL

JUN 11, 2002 09:10 AM

1. not believing in gender? gender is defined for reproducing ... (not living is the original goal for all living cells; but surviving as a specie ...)
2. murkey? (darkish?) struggling with your own sexuality, confronting it with others ... strange feelings and thoughts ... it only feels weird fuckedup strange over the top for me ...

Volkov

Volkov

San Antonio, TX
OLD SKOOL

JUN 11, 2002 09:22 AM

and it gets even more complicated. My best friends and I have determined that homo,hetero,bi- sexual is only part of the equation. some people can be defined as bi-emotional, or bi-erotic, but only be hetero or homo sexual just due to preference. we presented that theory to some friends and most agreed. so then how definite is a person's sexuality in any case...I guess, as in all things, it just depends on the person. wink

ver0nika23

ver0nika23

New Orleans, LA
OLD SKOOL

JUN 11, 2002 10:36 AM

subphertron said:
1. not believing in gender? gender is defined for reproducing ... (not living is the original goal for all living cells; but surviving as a specie ...)
2. murkey? (darkish?) struggling with your own sexuality, confronting it with others ... strange feelings and thoughts ... it only feels weird fuckedup strange over the top for me ...



as far as i know, gender (socially assigned characteristics that we tend to associate with "boy" or "girl") is not necessary for anything.

ver0nika23

ver0nika23

New Orleans, LA
OLD SKOOL

JUN 11, 2002 10:39 AM

Volkov70 said:
and it gets even more complicated. My best friends and I have determined that homo,hetero,bi- sexual is only part of the equation. some people can be defined as bi-emotional, or bi-erotic, but only be hetero or homo sexual just due to preference. we presented that theory to some friends and most agreed. so then how definite is a person's sexuality in any case...I guess, as in all things, it just depends on the person. wink


it is a crazy wonderful thing, sex. i call myself bi for political/visibility reasons, but i wish it wasn't necessary. when i fuck my boyfriend with a strap on while he is wearing a dress, i don't really think of it as heterosexual

tongue

Dia

Dia

SUICIDEGIRL

Monaco

JUN 11, 2002 11:37 AM

Sexual lust is a gender spectrum, not 3 absolutes (gay, straight, bi)... it's all some fucked up blend. I think everyone is gay, to some degree, and straight, to some degree.

You are all gay!

Haha, I said that before.

hatefulerin

hatefulerin

Bellingham, WA
OLD SKOOL

JUN 11, 2002 01:07 PM

i hate referring to myself as bisexual. it sounds so fucking trendy. but at the same time, people feel the need to use these labels. it makes them more comfortable.

erin

phaedraeos

phaedraeos

Ithaca, NY
OLD SKOOL

JUN 11, 2002 08:16 PM

i identify as bisexual to make my life easier. i just don't really care about the sex of the person i'm dating, although if i had to choose one over the other i'd probably say i'm more attracted to men than woman, but only by a slight margin

residue

residue

I'm lost
OLD SKOOL

JUN 11, 2002 11:40 PM

glib909 said:

Dia said:
Sexual lust is a gender spectrum, not 3 absolutes (gay, straight, bi)... it's all some fucked up blend. I think everyone is gay, to some degree, and straight, to some degree.

You are all gay!

Haha, I said that before.



in a nutshell, this means that to some degree everyone is attracted to the t-shirt guy ... tee hee wink



or to the the big boobed vamp?
haha

i just love everyone who loves me
-no matter boy or girl-
and crushes just gives meaning to my life

christine3782

christine3782

Olympia, WA
OLD SKOOL

JUN 12, 2002 12:04 AM

I thought everyone just used the term queer nowadays.

macbastard

MacBastard

North Hollywood, CA
OLD SKOOL

JUN 12, 2002 01:07 AM

I ain't no faggot. I'll ass rape you, N' I won't even like it....



Macsissyla-la

gomiboy

gomiboy

I'm lost
OLD SKOOL

JUN 12, 2002 06:05 AM

i tend to just define myself as a "pervert" and leave it at that. the rest is just details.

mechanic

mechanic

I'm lost
OLD SKOOL

JUN 12, 2002 07:19 AM

yeah... pervert. that's a good definition.
I could live with that...

christine3782

christine3782

Olympia, WA
OLD SKOOL

JUN 12, 2002 01:18 PM

Pervert is also good...

tryptamine

tryptamine

Svalbard And Jan Mayen
August 2002

JUN 12, 2002 08:01 PM

phaedra said:
i identify as bisexual to make my life easier.



wow. i think identifying oneself as bi makes things harder. heteros tend to say something along the lines of "you're just curious/confused", while homos tend to say "you're a lesbian, admit it." both of which make me froth at the mouth.

l0nd0

l0nd0

I'm lost
OLD SKOOL

AUG 29, 2002 02:02 AM

I dunno this is a relly old post but this is a very true comment.

Volkov70 said:
and it gets even more complicated. My best friends and I have determined that homo,hetero,bi- sexual is only part of the equation. some people can be defined as bi-emotional, or bi-erotic, but only be hetero or homo sexual just due to preference. we presented that theory to some friends and most agreed. so then how definite is a person's sexuality in any case...I guess, as in all things, it just depends on the person. wink



chapter_one

chapter_one

I'm lost
OLD SKOOL

AUG 29, 2002 09:39 AM

if everyone is gay "to some degree" my degree must be low enough that zero can represent it. sorry, i like women only.

and as for bi-sexuals, i dont get the specific attraction. im into dating girls one on one, so why would bi-sexual be specifically appealing to me? i dont want a threesome with my girlfriend and some random girl.

Al

Al

SUICIDEGIRL

Christmas Island

AUG 29, 2002 10:48 AM

tryptaminefirefly said:


wow. i think identifying oneself as bi makes things harder. heteros tend to say something along the lines of "you're just curious/confused", while homos tend to say "you're a lesbian, admit it." both of which make me froth at the mouth.



And it hurts so much! "It's just a phase" really gets me... but for many homosexuals it WAS just a phase.

Powdered_Toast_Man

Powdered_Toast_Man

I'm lost
August 2002

AUG 29, 2002 11:43 AM

i am bi. always have been, and most likely will be. i am not going to marry a guy though. but that does not mean i don't find some really hot, and attractive.

Volkov

Volkov

San Antonio, TX
OLD SKOOL

AUG 29, 2002 03:45 PM

l0nd0 said:
I dunno this is a relly old post but this is a very true comment.

Volkov70 said:
and it gets even more complicated. My best friends and I have determined that homo,hetero,bi- sexual is only part of the equation. some people can be defined as bi-emotional, or bi-erotic, but only be hetero or homo sexual just due to preference. we presented that theory to some friends and most agreed. so then how definite is a person's sexuality in any case...I guess, as in all things, it just depends on the person. wink





that is an old quote! I almost forgot saying it and almost said it again as a result...good thing I scanned!
I still rest on the caveat that all people are individual and there is no accouting for personal taste. I have friends who insist that everyone is potentially bisexual and are very firm about it...and I concede the point if they are equally willing to concede that all people are potentially likely to give up sex with anything but warm homemade pastries or some such. Anyhow...for myself. I would have to say that I am certainly bi-emotional, but I am intrinsicly heterosexual...I just really really really like girls...and penises are just goofy.
anyhow.

badm0j02

badm0j02

I'm lost
August 2002

AUG 29, 2002 06:01 PM

pervert works.

I usually refer to myself as a slut and don't try to think of the who's body part is this definitive stuff...

shocked

Psmith

Psmith

Fountain Valley, CA
OLD SKOOL

AUG 29, 2002 08:51 PM

I have no interest in gender identity or sexual identity, it's just language

Psmith

Psmith

Fountain Valley, CA
OLD SKOOL

AUG 29, 2002 09:01 PM

I think people's ideas about sexuality/gender are more or less autobiographical - we are always talking about ourselves and we apply our understanding of ourselves to the rest of the world.

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