2-sexual

defenitions:
homosexual and heterosexual ar defined ...
but when you love both men and women? why do they call this bi-sexual?
bi mean 2: so doesnt bisexual not mean that you love 2 women/men?
ok, i know thats called a threesome: but thats pretty undefined: man/man/woman, man x3, woman x3 or woman/woman/man ...

is it -once again- just me?

QUESTION: I read that most of the members on suicide girls are women, and that bisexuality is an overall turn-on for man ... but how many men of the SGmembers are bi? (in the loving man and woman kind of way)

"bi" can also mean "both"

and i don't believe in gender.

gender is socially constructed. there are several different biological sexes as well. i identify as bisexual, but it gets kind of murkey when you toss in all of the gender stuff.

1. not believing in gender? gender is defined for reproducing ... (not living is the original goal for all living cells; but surviving as a specie ...)
2. murkey? (darkish?) struggling with your own sexuality, confronting it with others ... strange feelings and thoughts ... it only feels weird fuckedup strange over the top for me ...

and it gets even more complicated. My best friends and I have determined that homo,hetero,bi- sexual is only part of the equation. some people can be defined as bi-emotional, or bi-erotic, but only be hetero or homo sexual just due to preference. we presented that theory to some friends and most agreed. so then how definite is a person's sexuality in any case...I guess, as in all things, it just depends on the person.

as far as i know, gender (socially assigned characteristics that we tend to associate with "boy" or "girl") is not necessary for anything.

it is a crazy wonderful thing, sex. i call myself bi for political/visibility reasons, but i wish it wasn't necessary. when i fuck my boyfriend with a strap on while he is wearing a dress, i don't really think of it as heterosexual

i hate referring to myself as bisexual. it sounds so fucking trendy. but at the same time, people feel the need to use these labels. it makes them more comfortable.

erin

i identify as bisexual to make my life easier. i just don't really care about the sex of the person i'm dating, although if i had to choose one over the other i'd probably say i'm more attracted to men than woman, but only by a slight margin

or to the the big boobed vamp?
haha

i just love everyone who loves me
-no matter boy or girl-
and crushes just gives meaning to my life

I thought everyone just used the term queer nowadays.

I ain't no faggot. I'll ass rape you, N' I won't even like it....



Macsissyla-la

i tend to just define myself as a "pervert" and leave it at that. the rest is just details.

yeah... pervert. that's a good definition.
I could live with that...

Pervert is also good...

wow. i think identifying oneself as bi makes things harder. heteros tend to say something along the lines of "you're just curious/confused", while homos tend to say "you're a lesbian, admit it." both of which make me froth at the mouth.

I dunno this is a relly old post but this is a very true comment.

if everyone is gay "to some degree" my degree must be low enough that zero can represent it. sorry, i like women only.

and as for bi-sexuals, i dont get the specific attraction. im into dating girls one on one, so why would bi-sexual be specifically appealing to me? i dont want a threesome with my girlfriend and some random girl.

i am bi. always have been, and most likely will be. i am not going to marry a guy though. but that does not mean i don't find some really hot, and attractive.

that is an old quote! I almost forgot saying it and almost said it again as a result...good thing I scanned!
I still rest on the caveat that all people are individual and there is no accouting for personal taste. I have friends who insist that everyone is potentially bisexual and are very firm about it...and I concede the point if they are equally willing to concede that all people are potentially likely to give up sex with anything but warm homemade pastries or some such. Anyhow...for myself. I would have to say that I am certainly bi-emotional, but I am intrinsicly heterosexual...I just really really really like girls...and penises are just goofy.
anyhow.

pervert works.

I usually refer to myself as a slut and don't try to think of the who's body part is this definitive stuff...

I have no interest in gender identity or sexual identity, it's just language

I think people's ideas about sexuality/gender are more or less autobiographical - we are always talking about ourselves and we apply our understanding of ourselves to the rest of the world.