gay? bi? straight?

me I'm straight but have an attraction towards awsome cutie girls what that may mean I'm not quite sure...but I am always up for expirementation

This was well said I agree with you completely.

i like everybody

this pansexuality thign sounds like a mutch better concept of Bi tha nthe one I so frequently run into. I'd say that I openly support anyone who believe int he dogma of said pansexuality. the problem for me is that the average "bi" girl I meet (or have met) is susually just doign it "because it's fun" or "because it turns their boyfriends on" or "because it's somethign I dod to make my bnoy more hot and happy". that's fucked. I really really dont' want ot say this, but it seems like the whole casual refference to bisexuality in the media, culture, and entertainment industry, especially porn (but htere was an episode ofWill and Gracve with a three way for crying otu loud, laugh track and all), is makign it seem like all nomral hetero girls should be into girls, because htat's just sexy. the smae way that women are all wearing high heels becasue men told them it was sexy decades ago, in a few years, I'm afraid all women will be "into girls" because mean and their socially accepted sexual fantasies have begun to involve this image more and more. I challenge you to find a soft core porn or hard core porn withotu a "girl on girl" scene, and most of these women are not "pansexuals". They're just kinda slutty, and do it because it's sexually different than being banged by porn guys over and over, and "that shit sells". I really don't want ot sound even in the least bit bigotted or sexist. anyone who knows me here knows that that is NOT me, but I seriously get concerned for the effect all of this has on the legitimacy of the monogamous, intelligent lesbian relationship, and what it will do to the integrity of the ideal of lesbianism beign a normal way to live your life as a female. more and more, my lesbian freinds hear "you just haven't been with the right man, baby" or "I can change you over" or "that's cool, my girlfriend digs chicks too, maybe we can have some fun together" ALL the time from guys, because the sexual media is tellign them that sexy girls get it on with other girls, regardless of their relationships with guys. and that's not fair to women that don't want men, and don't want to be told that they should, since a lot of women like women AND men. for a long time, It has seeme like bisexuality is too often used as a crutch for being a non-commital, selfish, often emotioinally damaing, and sometimes just premiscuous person, regardles of it's effects on your relationships long-term.
-Is willign to type all this because he is drunk and feeling lesbianish,
Dave

oh, and also, me am a cuddlign feind.
-wants to cuddle REAL bad,
Dave

sexual and gender identity means nothing to me. I don't feel like anything. maybe pathetic loser would be the best desricption?

I've had few sexual experiences and they generally weren't positive, I'm much rather have someone to cuddle with.

[Edited on Oct 02, 2002 by siouxsie]

this cuddleing thing sounds good too im in and so is my girlfriend.

i like who i like, love who i love & fuck who i fuck. don't really pay attention to gender & have a hard time finding a label i fit in.

and in the end - does it really matter? you hook up with who you want - no gender issues at all

i can't really put a label on myself. my desires vary too much. sometimes i want a girl, sometimes i want a guy, and sometimes i just don't care. plus, there are far too many stereotypes associated with bisexuality.

as for what poopydave said about girls doing it because its cool, i get really pissed when i tell a guy that i like girls too and he says shit like that. i usually end the conversation there with a very cold, "if i wanted to do that, i would have suggested it."

I'm straight....and I've never had a homosexual experience. But, I will find myself looking at an attractive guy. Not out of a sexual attraction....I just think that nice looking people are nice to look at.

I actually got into a heated discussion about sexuality a few months ago. one fo the guys I used to work with was flamingly in the closet...you wanna talk denial.

Anyway.....he was dead set in his belief that "noone is gay or straight, there's only a sliding scale of bisexuality" I didn't want to start offending people but to make that kind of assumption was ludicrous. I might look at attractive people of both sexes because they're nice to look at....but the thought of any cock but mine near me gives me the willys.

the 'doing it for the boyfriend' thing really irritates me. this is why i don't want to be bisexual; i hate all the stigmas that are attached.
maybe i can be a lesbian who likes boys. that would work right???
then people could say "hey look, it's eve, the lesbian who likes boys."
...except that no one would actually say that.

don't mind me, i'm in an odd mood.

Even though I've never fucked a guy and I've never met more than a handfull of guys I was "attracted" too, does the fact that I don't rule it out entirely make me bi? I've always kinda' thought everyone is bi naturally, but they lean one way or the other. Obviousley some pople lean WAY one way or the other, but the average person is in the middle. Just a thought.

yeah, it irritates me and frustrated me as well. and i hate the way people stick bisexuals into such steriotypes. i am bisexual and i like being bisexual. i dont want to deny that because people think that i am just "experimenting" or "doing it for my boyfriend" i have had a lot of lesbian and gay people put me down because i am bisexual and they dont think that is valid. well fuck that. whos to judge anybody and tell them that there sexuality is not valid?

i really like the "lesbian who likes boys" thing though.

i'm not big into labels.. i love people.
girls, boys, girls who were boys, boys who were girls, girls who identify as boys, boys who identify as girls.. whatEVAH. some more than others of course, but that's based on chemistry and personality and cuteness, etc.

if you can work it, and you wanna swing it my way.. it's all good.

'doing it for the boyfriend'...

i've always thought that if a man wants his girlfriend to have a threesome with another girl, he should be just as willing to bring in another guy.

i'm straight up to this point, but the pansexuality thing makes a lot of sense. maybe i'll convert

I'm with Freyj on this one...whetever works, works. Hell, I always said if I saw Kermit the Frog wandering down the street and he caught my eye...

God I love that frog.

apparently i'm a gssm.

well you rock for that!!