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Domnicella

Domnicella

Flushing, NY
March 2004

APR 10, 2004 03:17 PM

Who has/is participated-ing in this program?

I sure havent but sometimes I wish I did.But I cant since im in a tight relationship.
Damn hormones.

Sliverz

Sliverz

Salem, OR
October 2002

APR 10, 2004 03:24 PM

I have... and still do. But, the only reason, is because she's an ex. I'm not sure how one might start, or even pull off, such a thing with someone they've never been hooked up with before.

littlefragile

littlefragile

Antarctica
February 2004

APR 10, 2004 03:27 PM

I did that too, but was with an ex... I could use some of that right now, I'll tell ya! wink

zumbi22

zumbi22

I'm lost
January 2004

APR 10, 2004 03:28 PM

if i could only swing this arrangement with my current female friends... frown

hyparxis

hyparxis

Oakland, CA
January 2003

APR 10, 2004 03:29 PM

A good stop-gap as long as those involved are on the same page.

It pales in comparison to the real thing...for me at least.

Oracle

Oracle

Courtenay, BC
September 2003

APR 10, 2004 03:29 PM

I thnk if you are in a relationship and your partner goes away for a period of time friends with benifits suck cause someone WILL get hurt even if its just you knowing you cheated on someone you care about BUT...if you are single and you have a fuck friend who is also single and you both know there are no emotions or strings attached it can be a great great thing smile

AceTracer

acetracer

Hollywood, FL
January 2004

APR 10, 2004 03:31 PM

I'm not sure how to answer this, I don't have any fuck buddies or kissing partners, but I do have several female friends that aren't shy about nudity, lapdances, and occasional fondling. I'm perpetually single and virtually a monk otherwise so I guess they just think it's fun to play with the little virgin blush whatever

MisterJesus

MisterJesus

United Kingdom
November 2002

APR 10, 2004 03:36 PM

yeah right.


All I got is Friends with problems.

Domnicella

Domnicella

Flushing, NY
March 2004

APR 10, 2004 03:36 PM

Hmm..yeah thats the thing..emotional baggage.

Friends that tease is cool with me but then again if his girl friends were to start him up id be Lorena Bobbit .
Nah too harsh.

Franklin

Franklin

I'm lost
October 2003

APR 10, 2004 03:46 PM

I did this with a good friend, and it caused NOTHING but emotional scars. To the point where we can't even look each other in the eye without cracking our knuckles and preparing for a fight to the death.

If you're currently pursuing a relationship on the basis of friends-fucking, more power to you. As for me, my senior year would have been a lot less traumatizing.

[Edited on Apr 10, 2004 by Franklin]

PanxRomana

PanxRomana

Chicago, IL
October 2003

APR 10, 2004 03:54 PM

these things can go both ways. i have had fwb's that have worked out great, and some that haven't. depends on the people involved.

Alisa

Alisa

SUICIDEGIRL

Ohio, USA

APR 10, 2004 04:08 PM

I love it!!!!!!!!! always have always will. sometimes it could even turn out to be your true love. ask TWO it happened to him.


but it only works out if both parties are mature enough to handle it.. and are really friends first. so there's no hard feelingsif one of you meets someone else they want to be "friends" with.

jnthn

jnthn

New York, NY
October 2002

APR 10, 2004 04:12 PM

yes, it's a very good, effective program. I approve.

BukkakeGod

BukkakeGod

Congers, NY
August 2003

APR 10, 2004 04:13 PM

sign me up for this one. do we get paid for it?

Literary_Voyeur

Literary_Voyeur

Seattle, WA
January 2003

APR 10, 2004 04:15 PM

I am currently enrolled in the friends with benefits program. It is just kind of on again, off again depending on whether one of us is in a relationship or not. been like this for about 3 years. Works very well. She's a bit older than me (34) and so everything is pretty laid out, no strings.

Domnicella

Domnicella

Flushing, NY
March 2004

APR 10, 2004 05:05 PM

They sound like fun,very adrenaline-ish for me even...if I was totally with that 1 person I fancy I think I would and have this huge guilt trip.I have that problem.

louisthunter

louisthunter

Schaumburg, IL
March 2004

APR 10, 2004 05:10 PM

I've been in a Friends with benefits situation with a few different people over the years and I'd say more often than not, it ends up badly. Same with the open-relationship thing. But I think both can work, if there's maturity and luck involved.

Fu

Fu

Los Angeles, CA
November 2003

APR 10, 2004 05:16 PM

It will never work if you're not honest ... that being said, I'm currently enrolled and excelling in this program.

Dragonchylde

Dragonchylde

Wheat Ridge, CO
December 2003

APR 10, 2004 05:26 PM

I have some Fwb as well..problem is, is that they live to far away from me..so if I want to get any I have to drive down to them. sucky!

Barroomhero

barroomhero

USA
August 2003

APR 10, 2004 05:27 PM

MisterJesus said:
yeah right.


All I got is Friends with problems.



Amen. Its never worked for me. blackeyed

MiSSing_Girl

MiSSing_Girl

Jacksonville, FL
February 2004

APR 10, 2004 05:57 PM

I have been and am currently enrolled in this strange program. I think it sucks if your not up front at first. A long time frienship (12yrs) turned into this, but eventually turned SOUR! We didn't talk for a couple of years after everything went bad...so why do you ask did I just get currently involved again??!........The world may never know.........

~MG

friedbanana

friedbanana

Clayton, CA
April 2003

APR 10, 2004 06:03 PM

I've had a couple in the past. Some were ex girlfriends...It always seems to be drama filled even if there's discussion beforehand.

Roby

Roby

SUICIDEGIRL

I'm lost

APR 10, 2004 06:03 PM

I HATE THIS ARRANGEMENT. i've tried it and it blows.

germ13

germ13

United Kingdom
September 2003

APR 10, 2004 06:05 PM

Both my gf and I screw other people and have never had any problems. We don't attach emotion to sex, to us it's just like any other activity.

Runk

Runk

Inver Grove Heights, MN
January 2004

APR 10, 2004 06:09 PM

Yep. This is how I am in my situation today, 6 years later. Position: neutral leaning toward negative.

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