Virgins? What do you all think?

Maybe an odd topic in here but as a virgin still, I am quite curious about sex. Not that I haven't had chances, I just decided for myself to try my best to hold off until I met someone really great. Although, I am starting to hit that wall where I am tired of being a virgin. Anyone else here relate?

Virginity is just a state of being.

I don't think having dirty meaningless sex has made me unable to feel connected to someone great during sex.

You should give it a try and see for yourself.

I would give it a try if I could. Kinda hard when countless women reject you, lol.

i can relate entirely, while i am not a virgin, i was a late performer

not through lack of trying though, rejection was my friend

I am not embarrassed at all about being a virgin still. I just seem to have like the worst luck ever with women. Even women that actually like me reject me. It's seriously that bad, haha.

Telly loves 'em.

You need confidence. That will help you out with women.

Eh...I'm not happy with it but there doesn't seem a whole lot I can do about it.

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I have that and yet I still get rejected. Like I said, I have even had women who are actually interested in me reject me. It's almost like a curse, lol.

Man, fuck virgins.

(I would also like to note that "have confidence" is possibly the least useful advice one human has ever given another. It's like telling someone who can't reach the top shelf, "Be taller!")

In time you'll realize masturbation is way more fun.


Yeah, I'm totally kidding.

no your not

this is probably the truest thing i have ever heard

Not really. You can't make yourself grow, but you can believe in your own self worth. Yes it takes work, but it can be done.

Just believe in yourself.

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and the second...and third....and fourth...and...yeah you get the idea

Well son, let me tell you about the birds and bees.

You can still get (a) girl pregnant, and you can still get an STD even if you are a virgin.

Be careful of putting sex on a pedestal. It's amazing, but not in the ways I imagined while a virgin.

Also, be careful of waiting for someone you care about to come along. I know so many people who lost their virginity to someone they thought they really loved, and were later mistreated in some way, and now when they remember losing their virginity, they remember all the other BS and its a black stain on their life. Me, I lost my virginity to some girl I had no emotional connection to outside of wanting to fuck. As such, I can just remember it being a good moment.

I think I am going to have to try that route. Like I said, I am kinda getting out of that mindset of waiting anymore. It's a waste of time overall.

Dude, you live in Morgantown. Get naked, stand outside a bar, wait. You will get laid in no time.

If you want it to be with someone you care about, good luck with that. I didn't try and put love/caring and sex together for a while after I became sexually active.

There comes a point where no matter how you intended to pop your cherry, you get too horny and impatient and just go for it. The whole love/caring + sex thing came way after for me as well.

I'm still wearing my un-punched v-card proudly.
I had the whole be cared/care for someone, respect and all that jazz too and came close to losing it the way I wanted. I still have the love+sex in high regard and feel that is how I'd like to be with, with my partners in the future when I do become sexually active. I don't desire sex or love at this moment in time, granted a few months back it was all i could think of for a while, it comes and goes I guess, right now, I'm rather focus of my business and I've never been happier. I do suspect that because I've found something to focus all my energy on, that soon in its own time love+sex will pop up and who knows I might be ready for it this time