Asking for a blowjob

seriously? I never thought it was faux pas to ask for a short blowjob during sex, it's natures viagra. It seems less weird to m,e then experiences most guys here have had too where a girl gives you one out of the blue, I had one girlfriend who'd do it whenever we were alone in an elevator.

Its easier for you to say sometimes you dont like to than for me to say "stop sucking my ..." and risk never get another one again.

Seriously tho, most guys arent 100% convinced girls even enjoy doing it so it wont ruin anything as long as you tell him how you feel

I dont mind being asked for a blowjob. And depending who it is I'll usually do it

So just to be clear, if I we're talking and I interject with "you know, you should give me a blowjob..." I might or might not get one, but at the very least, I can be confident that I'm not gonna get slapped for it?

I don't think guys really need to ask. If you're fooling around with a guy it's almost always a given he wants his dick in your mouth. Just don't ask me to go ass to mouth, that's gross.

i like to write it on one of those little white boards '3..2..1....GO!' ...no confusion that way

to be honest iv never asked for a blow job....its all up to the girl unless in the heat of the moment AND the guy returns the favor then i think its ok

Yeah that is usually how I am about it and I'm pretty dam giving when it comes to it in this way. I did try saying "no" once because we already had been going at it for sometime and he also admits it takes him forever to cum from a bj. and it does. I have not had this prob before. he takes like 45 + mins and really hes lots of work compared to most (without going into much detail) anyways he took me saying "no" fine but the next day we were about to have sex and I sat up and the jerk pushed! my head down there and when I was suddenly face to face with his dick I must have given him a look because he was all 'will u give me a blowjob?' I have loved this guy forever but he is also a total asshole I am learning and has very little respect for women or the people he screws it kinda sucks (no pun intended)

See, once I know that I'm with a girl with your orientation, I have no problem asking, commanding, or controlling her. Otherwise I don't have a problem being sweet and passive, and reciprocal about it either. The only thing I'm not very good at is being submissive but maybe someday.

Reviving a slightly dead thread to say... Yup, this. Though only in a relationship for me, since otherwise it would feel too forced and then we get into male entitlement and boundary issues and that's just not fun...

However, if she's not into it, like wee innocent me a few years back, asking only makes them more gung ho about refusing Be warned...

I think my fella is sick of me offering to blow him. In all honesty, I doubt he'd have the ability to walk if we did that as much as I'd like.

Ahem....

I have a question to ask you.

I have no problem asking, but I've been with my girl for a good 11 years. I would prefer her to initiate though but I find the only way to get one is to pop the question.

She knows me well enough to know when I'm in the mood for one and I know her well enough to know when not to look "needy." She loves doing it (I'm a bit of a control freak . . . in a nice sort of non-psychopathic way . . .and she loves the fact that its one thing that makes me loose my composure and control) . . . I think it gives her a feeling of superiority.

We also know each other well enough to know if it doesn't happen today it will tomorrow when work/kids/life isn't intruding.

I ask all the time, and it always goes well.

"I really, really want your cock in my mouth"

- "Sure!"

(and variations thereof)

Seriously though, I don't think Mr. S has even had occasion to ask.

If he is polite about it I would gladly give him one.

*cough* *cough* *clear throat* excuse me ma'm? could you give me a blow job please? key in getting one... always finish with a smile and use the magic word... please

I feel people should always try to communicate what they want with a sexual partner. I've never really thought twice about letting girls know what I want and I always try and make them feel comfortable with telling me what they want too. As long as it's not a demand then it's good to be honest about your desires, otherwise you could go for years without the other person knowing what really turns you on and you could be missing out on a load of fun!

Oh, as for the taking a long time to cum from a blowjob...that's the best part about it isn't it?

may I please have a blowjob?

i desire you to perform fellatio on my erect phallus?

It would be nice if more girls thought your way.

HAHA!

I've had ex's where I've had to ask, and sometimes beg for a blowjob. My wife on the other hand will just give me a blowjob, and I'm pretty sure I've never asked her for one.

i think if your going to ask, at least be prepared for a no, whats the point in asking if your going to get all shitty because she knocks you back.

Reading this thread has put me in the mood to give head....

You should practice saying no, NEVER feel pushed into doing anything you don't feel comfortable with.. This guy doesn't seem so nice..