Sex as a Mechanical Act

Fun and tickles aside, is there anyone else who needs sex to the point that it warps the fabric of their life, like a stone on a sheet? I just don't pursue anything else the same way.
To me it feels like I don't respect sex, or use it as its meant. I can't stand starting relationships because they're just cheap and empty without love. It's like, why not just have the sex?

It's like I'm being whipped, pulling my genetic code on a sled.

Is this just me?

I think that's called "addiction."

huhuhuhu

So assuming there is room for incorporating multifaceted and quite complex idea's gradually into our mind states and not outrightly rejecting them as unfounded speculations on the nature of consciousness, i shall explain something of the purpose and mechanism through which the effects we experience as reality are related to our sexual impulse and how through mastering and respecting the creative power of the orgasm we can direct the relationship of causes which are our life.

IMPULSE is an important word.
ATTRACTION and REPULSION are also important words.

One of the difficulties in understanding the process of creative interaction with reality is the notion that mind produces body as opposed to the idea that a body has a brain which thinks.

We could say that the mind constantly reaffirms is current mode. So what we believe to be true based on our experience will continue to prove itself to be true until it is required that it be proved false.
Here the word 'required' refers to the general assumption that beings would prefer to choose to survive than to experience death as a result of a belief being held.

And so... to truly see how consciousness becomes what we know as material manifestations we must understand the complex interactions of the beliefs or laws being used as the substrate upon which to place the creations.

Further still, it is important to see that the mind is beyond its own laws, silent. There is vast peacefulness existing as the emptiness in which beliefs about the nature of that which has arisen become fundamental pillars of whole realities.

Our origin within that eternal undefined awareness having arisen from "I am" and onward into identification of the characteristics of that "I am" can be known.

Once our current mode of existence has manipulated and moulded itself in such a way that it can perceive its most pure silent and eternal origin, which produces as effects various realms of reality, it is possible then to understand how that "I am" which is constantly defining itself will behave and continue to produce in the same fashion those things with which it identifies.

So... from our current standpoint, embedded within the system which we have defined as ourself we continue to define ourself based on our assessment of relationships between elements.
To some things we find ourself attracted...
To some things we find ourself repulsed...
Both of these forces have the same potency in effecting the self defining of the being.


It is by identifying oneself with the eternal origin and becoming free from IMPULSIVE ATTRACTION and REPULSION that one can choose those things which they create.

The choice does not arise in the moment... it is a 'process' of choosing.

And so, we can say that this is the purpose of sex... to consciously choose beings through which we
would create ourself once again... our mind in a state of desire is attracted to elements which we would like to embody.

Similarly... when we make choices in our daily lives, we are basically assessing whether in future we would choose that same element as suitable for us.

It is for this reason that we should respect our choices... for they create our tomorrow and whole periods of eternity.

When you take command of creating your own reality and selectively decide what is the right choice for representing your highest wishes for yourself... the highest and most valuable gift and creations will be presented before you... as you have defined it to be so for yourself.


So let us presume that we can see the soul living inside the body and that soul is resting in an infinite ocean of desires made manifest into objects and elements of which that soul is composed and defined.

When this soul leaves the body at death and the condensed desires dissolve into super subtle non-matter substrate consisting of ghostly visions, flashing "memories", scents, sounds, loving voices, shapes, textures, words and the infinite array of sensory information possible to experience, awaiting the process of condensation into a form consisting of the composition of those same impressions, it is IMPULSIVELY drawn to those things through which is has previously defined itself. This process is due to interdependence.

This means that when a being dies and its soul floats off into the cosmos... if it liked bananas its will seek out bananas and be drawn through its impulsive desire for sex into a being eating bananas maybe near a certain place that it was drawn to at a specific time and onwards into the entire complexity of its life, and then through that being it will be born.

Images of the sex act are similar to the way in which we experience our prospective mothers and fathers in the in between life state. We can be drawn into a body by getting too enthralled in witnessing the sex of bodies whilst we are still a floating soul.
We must be careful to choose rightly which sex experiences we are drawn into through our desire and intense compulsions, lest we be sucked in a moment of orgasmic bliss into an undesireable body form.

In our current life, it is for us to PRACTICE self control such that when we are free of our bodies we can rightly choose our new parents and co-create our self. According to the images and identifications we have decided are our passion.

We should approach this power with serious respect because it is through our daytime desires that our dreams are formed...

It is possible to understand that the impulse and pleasure involved in sex is the impetus for all attractions and repulsion relationships in our life, from food to music to clothing. The sexual orgasmic pleasure underlies all our choices, as we are in search of that peak experience and to reveal the underlying bliss of existence.

We can get lost in the pleasure of an experience and then we find ourselves in a short burst of creative energy lost in another uncontrolled and ill-defined life.

Once this mechanism has been properly integrated as the mode through which one exists. What the being actually is... then there arises a well defined PURPOSE. Once we have a purpose for a thing, we can develop structures for achieving the purpose... it is through these structures that we understand and implement control.

The purpose of the sexual impulse is to create oneself.

Therefore choose only those things through which you would identify yourself.
You will LOVE the things with which you wish to be identified.
LOVE is being in harmony with your creative power and can only be known once we are responsible for one and other.


LOVE.

what he said even though I didn't read it all

The way I see it sex isn't about love and love isn't about sex. Sex can actually get realy boring but sometimes you can u have great sex without love. If you're just trying to get laid you're gonna be unhappy, but if you do it with someone you'd have a good time with anyway then it can be pretty good

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Moderator...
Why did you move my other thread?
What sort of discussion would you prefer to see in "sex talk"...

if it was other members who ruined a thread based on absolute not silliness then deal with them... dont disrespect the information i am trying to share with people who could probably do with a bit of exposure to something a little psychologically healthier than "how to ask for a blowjob" i mean come on...

i was for some reason under the impression that the calibre of the girls on this site would give rise to a higher calibre of information as well... not just settling for immature wankers who have no understanding of what the penis is actually for.

i dont understand your choices...

you should move the thread back to where it belongs...

maybe ask your girls what they think. and then decide what to do.

peace.

because no matter how many times i read this shit i have no fucking clue what you are talking about, not to mention the rest of it...

we join this site to look at beautiful women...END

obviously if they are not up to YOUR expectations its time to move on

In the end...

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BOOBS RULE!!!!

I'm not a moderator, but:

Your thread was moved because it is a long-winded and incoherent litany of pseudo-profound gobbledygook, and Silliness is where it belongs.

Now you know.

the girls are beautiful...

it seems to be the general immaturity of the members that i am struggling to understand.

the fact is... if you use perverted eyes to view the beautiful bodies you pervert the beauty of the bodies...

now i dont know where you draw the line as to what is ok to think and feel about another person, but the type of things y'all posted in the other thread was pretty unneccessary. u might find it funny, and i know moaning myrtle is funny, but the thread got ruined by said lack of understanding.

just because one or two or ten people dont understand, doesnt mean that the entire thread should be defiled by facetious attempts at humour.

i just thought this place had some higher standard...

there are no places on the internet to discuss these idea's, and though they might not be important to you personally, they are important... as artifacts of world culture.

"spiritual sexuality" is a large part of sex. if not the whole of it... its not all about whatever you call what goes on here.
maybe i was wrong to expect that there would be some others interested in these things...
maybe the membership base would even expand if some more intelligent information was provided by existing members...

most 'emotionally mature' people i know who like to look at beautiful women wouldnt think much of the quality of information on this site.

excuse me for sharing my idea's, i didnt realise it would cause y'all to need to get distracted from the beautiful women you obviously understand and love so much.

in the END it makes no difference. but its kinda like a waste to have no room for discussion.

if u dont understand feel free to ask questions... though that would probably threaten your cyber masculinity...

Why? Because someone has to buy these:

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Oh yeah? Well, I know even more people who are even more emotionally mature than your friends and they all think you're dumb.

The attempts at humor are the relatively polite attempts at telling you that you are the only person who thinks this is all incredible.

attempts? ATTEMPTS? I'll have you know, I'm fucking FUNNY, you bastard!!!

I wish people would stop babbling about their wacky religion whenever sex enters the discussion.

You should pray over that.

And people say I'm pompous and condescending. Wow.

Today's lesson: A lot of words doesn't necessarily make something worth reading.

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Coyotemike said:
In the end...

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BOOBS RULE!!!!

That. And chloroform.

i still want to know what this means, as far as i can see it has something to do with incest

I would like you to use your imagination and picture yourself after death floating in some form of aether type substance half dreaming half aware...

you find yourself a witness to two people making love...

you are so enraptured by the pleasure of the sex act that you cannot break your focus...

your mind pulsates with energy and colours, sounds and smells stream around you...

without even a conscious choice you find yourself rushing towards an inevitable explosion of everything that makes you... human.

if you are a male, you are drawn down into through the eyes and into the phallus of the man and are ejaculated out finding a warm home inside your new mothers womb...

little did you know what you were getting yourself into, as you blindly ignored the advice of your "spiritual" teachers, half of who didn't understand the very perfection of freewill they were teaching...

if you are destined to be a woman, an internal surge like a billion universes overwhelms you and the very heat of the sun bursts open your skin and you begin to grow from inside your own self... having just met, through your mother, your father to be.

our sexual desire draws us towards those copulating beings.
or we can rest for infinite eternity in peace free of desire and rebirth

having repeated this cycle mindlessly infinite times you stumble upon a bright light and it reveals to you the intimate and primal sexual impulse through which we have each chosen the parents of our present life and through which we shall choose those of our future lives.
at such a time the practice of control of the passions becomes a necessary reality, like choosing your genre of tattoo art, so as not to stumble blindly into the desire for inferior forms of being.
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is what it means

u think about incest?
like a King shouldnt marry his uncles daughter or something, or r u just trippin or what?