Okay, so maybe love and lust are rather strong words compared to what I am really asking. Well... Probably not lust. At any rate, who is into sex purely for the fun of it and will sleep with someone at the slightest attraction or sign of interest, and who likes to have more of an emotional connection? I personally need the emotional connection, whether it takes time, or just clicks. I have tried it the other way and couldn't even finish. It felt like nothing it was super bleh. But when the connection is there it's..... WOOHOO! Feeling the warmth of them, touching them, them touching you, kissing licking, excitement, ecstasy! Where do you stand?
Both have their merits for me. The ideal is to have the connection, but for some reason just the sexual connection is way less complicated for me and therefore easier to manage.
Nef
Cleveland, OH
July 2011
JUL 06, 2011 05:49 PM