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Anarchie

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SUICIDEGIRL

Vatican City

JUN 16, 2011 03:01 PM

Keith said:
What the fuck? Did I walk out of SuicideGirls and into a meeting of the Catholic Prudes Society?

Which is not to say that not being into cuckolding makes you a prude. But disapproving of other what other consenting adults legally do in bed sure does.



Seriously. The knee-jerk judgemental reaction in this thread is astounding!

catflap

catflap

United Kingdom
October 2011

JUN 16, 2011 03:14 PM

Sorry for having an opinion that's not the same as yours, guys...whatever

My last comments make it look like i care way more about this sucject than i actually do. it's not even something i care for. i think i just responded snarky because he asumed because we're on SG we can't be moderately *normal*. & plus if you asked me that on the spot that would be my instant reaction with no real thought behind it. naturally, i don't want to watch anyone fuck my boyfriend...

i'm done.

BrightRedScream_

BrightRedScream_

Stoney Creek, ON
April 2005

JUN 16, 2011 03:32 PM

You can still say your opinion without coming across the way that you did.
Just sayin.

It's not for me either, but if people are into it, and consenting adults enjoy it - that's their prerogative, and their choice.

Comic_Guy

Comic_Guy

Dundalk, MD
May 2011

JUN 16, 2011 03:47 PM

I'm not for it but if that's your thing then more power to you.

Gordex

Gordex

Canada
July 2010

JUN 16, 2011 04:46 PM

I'm sure Dan Savage would have a few things to say on this topic if you cared to look them up.

lil_tuffy

lil_tuffy

MODERATOR

San Francisco, CA

JUN 16, 2011 07:13 PM

He asked for opinions. He got them. Catflap is entitled to hers and I have no problem with it.

TheFuckOffKid

TheFuckOffKid

NEWSWIRE

Australia

JUN 16, 2011 07:42 PM

catflap said:
Sorry for having an opinion that's not the same as yours, guys...whatever



Oh please. Different opinions are fine. Casting your opinion as the only valid one is kinda unpleasant.

Psyche

Psyche

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

JUN 16, 2011 07:53 PM

I think people were responding to the fact that she implied that people who engage in that kind of behavior are sex addicts who don't respect personal boundaries. Her other comments ("mind the door don't break your nose on the way out") were fine, because that was just her stating her opinion when presented with that scenario.

TheFuckOffKid

TheFuckOffKid

NEWSWIRE

Australia

JUN 16, 2011 08:01 PM

Psyche said:
I think people were responding to the fact that she implied that people who engage in that kind of behavior are sex addicts who don't respect personal boundaries. Her other comments ("mind the door don't break your nose on the way out") were fine, because that was just her stating her opinion when presented with that scenario.



Pretty much.

Subrosa

Subrosa

San Francisco, CA
July 2004

JUN 16, 2011 10:24 PM

catflap said:

LosNYC said:
No all are welcome to answer. I thought considering the nature of this site that people would be more open minded though.



open minded to the betrayal of the purpose of marriage? nah.



The "purpose" of whose marriage? Because all sorts of different people get married for all sorts of different reasons. Who are you to define one particular purpose for all of them?

Schmelectra

Schmelectra

I'm lost
February 2006

JUN 16, 2011 10:25 PM

If it came out of left field, I'd be pretty weirded out. LIke, it would make worry that there was something wrong with our sex life or worry that he thought that I thought that there was something lacking.
But that's in my current relationship where I know where we both stand on things of that nature.
In a different circumstance I'd just tell him that it's not something I'm into and leave it at that.

Subrosa

Subrosa

San Francisco, CA
July 2004

JUN 16, 2011 10:30 PM

catflap said:
i think i just responded snarky because he asumed because we're on SG we can't be moderately *normal*.


Yeah, fuck him for failing to be open minded with regard to the the purpose of the sex talk board.

Morgan

Morgan

SUICIDEGIRL

Illinois, USA

JUN 16, 2011 10:58 PM

LosNYC said:
Ladies what would you think if your bf or husband suggested that he'd like to see you fuck other guys besides him?



Ignoring some of the pointless moralizing going on in this thread.

For me specifically? I'd tell him that I understand if that's a fantasy of his but it is unlikely to be something I'd ever be comfortable fully playing out for him. I'm happier in monogamous relationships and I just can't see that working for me.

I certainly wouldn't think he was a jerk for even thinking it as long as he brought it up politely, without trying to put a lot of pressure on me.

hor

hor

USA
June 2005

JUN 17, 2011 07:05 AM


I don't really care for the term cuckolding bok, but I think in some respects the basic idea of it is the epitome of an open relationship. Not only is someone letting their [sic] partner pursue sex with other people, but they are also deriving pleasure from that idea. Alas, given the general population's sexual education/sexual responsibility I'm still rather wary of any kind of open relationship.

Guns

Guns

HOPEFUL

USA

JUN 17, 2011 08:23 AM

i dont think i would let my significant other watch.
but an open relationship is fine.
i dont think an open relationship means "you're missing something in the bed room."
i think its all about experience keeping your sex life exciting.
then temptation wouldnt be as bad knowing you can go out and do whatever you want.. whenever you want.
biggrin

VirgilTibbs

VirgilTibbs

San Francisco, CA
May 2011

JUN 26, 2011 12:11 PM

Nothing wrong with it at all. To quote my favorite Seinfeld quote "Peoples personal sexual preferences are no ones business but their own". I agree that I don't care for the term cuckolding, implies a dominance/submissive roll as opposed to wanting to see your partner with someone else and join/or not. But I think the idea is hot. To see your partner in pleasure is a total turn on. But hey, I like the group thing, fine without it too, but it is hot.

Juke

Juke

SUICIDEGIRL

Illinois, USA

JUL 02, 2011 05:23 PM

If a boyfriend asked me that my first reaction would be that hes trying to trick me into admitting that I would want to fuck other guys besides him, i don't think i'd take it seriously or would be too paranoid to be open to it and have him be like "I WAS KIDDING...slut" .... haha. If he was serious I would still probably be uncomfortable with the thought, I don't think i'd be able to get off with someone else while hes watching because id rather be fucking my boyfriend instead.

cali77

cali77

Irvine, CA
July 2011

JUL 17, 2011 10:25 PM

I have shared girlfriends in the past with other men and was always a huge turn on not just for me for for the girls as well. My turn on was watching a girl i was into being pleasured.

That being said, it took strong relationships, a lot of discussions, communication and understanding but I never had an issue with it, it was very hot and would do it again, anytime.

hammer63

hammer63

USA
January 2008

JUL 22, 2011 08:06 PM

Psyche said:

LosNYC said:
Ladies what would you think if your bf or husband suggested that he'd like to see you fuck other guys besides him?



I had a boyfriend that was really into cuckolding. He really got off to watching me hook up with other guys, and then joining.

I don't think it's "dumb" or betrayal at all. I had never done anything like that before when he propositioned it, but I thought it was kind of cool, and I got really into it at times. I was really excited that I had the chance to experience a wild lifestyle that was completely foreign and new to me.

I had nothing but good experiences from it, and if I dated another guy who was into the same thing, I would definitely do it again. Also I think that cuckolding with my boy actually made me develop a stronger bond with him and fall harder for him than I ever had before, but I must be a sex addict. tongue




I think the point here is that you were BOTH into it. If its consentual and both are into it then go for it . . .sounds like a great idea to me in theory. I don't think I could watch my gf with another guy but that's just me (my gf and I have discussed the idea and she's not into it either (although, and this is a double standard, she wouldn't mind see me with a guy) which makes it mostly discussion) We discuss things and set boundaries and our relationship is good because of it.

DevilsReject

DevilsReject

Cleveland, OH
February 2007

JUL 22, 2011 08:26 PM

If two consenting adults are into it and alright with it, and their partners are fully of what is going on i seriously don't see a problem with it. I think that being open an honest through the entire thing is the key to it, not only with your partner (wife, gf, husband bf) but with the people that they are choosing to sleep with.

Like Juke said though, i am pretty sure my girlfriend would suggest this and if i even hinted at agreeing with it, i would be crucified before i could make it out of the room.

PuckLuck

PuckLuck

USA
April 2011

JUL 30, 2011 05:06 AM

Fear is never a valid choice. I know what goes on in the head of a monogamist. Sex is not holy. Sex is a beautiful thing and of course we can share, just as you should have been taught as a child to share and that you don't always get to have things your way all the time, it's not all about you. Emotional maturity is what I would call it.

And don't even bring up the disease propaganda, that would pretty much make you a 9/11 extremist bomber, of people's minds.

Just my opinion. wink

chrismischief

chrismischief

USA
September 2007

AUG 02, 2011 01:51 AM

My wife and I have this dynamic in our relationship. though we didn't start out that way. Everything was pretty vanilla until two years ago when she broke down in tears and confessed to having an affair with a mutual friend of ours. She told me that guilt had been eating away at her and she had tried several times to break off the affair, but that the physical response this man brought out in her was very seductive. I found myself asking her about their sex and felt humbled. Over the next six months, with lots of heart-felt conversations, we finally arrived at the solution that she should be free to explore her sexuality without guilt or shame.

Things got a little harder after we got married, But with a lot work on trust and honesty, things ultimately did work out. But It was not without difficulties. Soon, we found that we were both surprisingly content with this development in our lives. She was even comfortable enough so that on our honeymoon, traveling by train through Italy and finding ourselves sharing our seating-berth with a beautiful young Italian man, she sent me out to the dining car for three whole hours while they had sex.

lectorvyal

lectorvyal

Australia
May 2006

AUG 02, 2011 02:42 AM

between you and your willing partner, everyone is different, i think an answer would consist of a simple yes or no...end of story

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