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LosNYC

LosNYC

Jersey City, NJ
May 2007

JUN 16, 2011 06:48 AM

Ladies what would you think if your bf or husband suggested that he'd like to see you fuck other guys besides him?

catflap

catflap

United Kingdom
October 2011

JUN 16, 2011 07:06 AM

Bye.
mind the door don't break your nose on the way out.

Shema

Shema

USA
December 2010

JUN 16, 2011 09:01 AM

catflap said:
Bye.
mind the door don't break your nose on the way out.



Lol yea thats a really dumb husband/bf right there.

Coyotemike

Coyotemike

USA
May 2006

JUN 16, 2011 09:04 AM

Why do you only want ladies to answer? Why can't we males also call such a guy a douchebag asshat tool?

LosNYC

LosNYC

Jersey City, NJ
May 2007

JUN 16, 2011 09:07 AM

No all are welcome to answer. I thought considering the nature of this site that people would be more open minded though.

catflap

catflap

United Kingdom
October 2011

JUN 16, 2011 09:09 AM

LosNYC said:
No all are welcome to answer. I thought considering the nature of this site that people would be more open minded though.



open minded to the betrayal of the purpose of marriage? nah.

Coyotemike

Coyotemike

USA
May 2006

JUN 16, 2011 09:10 AM

The nature of this site? What is the nature of this site?

catflap

catflap

United Kingdom
October 2011

JUN 16, 2011 09:15 AM

we must just all be a bunch of sex addicts that don't respect pretty simple boundaries. you know?

Coyotemike

Coyotemike

USA
May 2006

JUN 16, 2011 09:17 AM

Here is some simple advice to all: If you have to ask a group of strangers on the Internet whether or not you should do something, you shouldn't do it. And you already know that. Don't use us as an excuse to do something you know you shouldn't.

LosNYC

LosNYC

Jersey City, NJ
May 2007

JUN 16, 2011 09:21 AM

Well I'm pretty sure the nature of the site is about beauty outside the "norm" of what society considers beautiful. That being said I think the question relates in that it is not what would be considered "normal" relationship.

lil_tuffy

lil_tuffy

MODERATOR

San Francisco, CA

JUN 16, 2011 09:22 AM

enh... it really doesn't seem like that much of an unusual fetish. it's a pretty common theme in porn. It seems like a personal decision and I don't really see the point of a public opinion poll.

lil_tuffy

lil_tuffy

MODERATOR

San Francisco, CA

JUN 16, 2011 09:24 AM

LosNYC said:
Well I'm pretty sure the nature of the site is about beauty outside the "norm" of what society considers beautiful. That being said I think the question relates in that it is not what would be considered "normal" relationship.



Just because the site it about alternative beauty standards does not mean it is contrary to everything normal or mainstream.

catflap

catflap

United Kingdom
October 2011

JUN 16, 2011 09:25 AM

LosNYC said:
Well I'm pretty sure the nature of the site is about beauty outside the "norm" of what society considers beautiful. That being said I think the question relates in that it is not what would be considered "normal" relationship.



Thistle

Thistle

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

JUN 16, 2011 11:00 AM

catflap said:

LosNYC said:
No all are welcome to answer. I thought considering the nature of this site that people would be more open minded though.



open minded to the betrayal of the purpose of marriage? nah.



This is kind of an over reaction. Lots of people have open marriages or have different definitions of cheating than you. That doesn't mean their marriage betrays the purpose of the institution. I don't see how a husband bringing up the possibility is being such a gigantic tool. Presumably in a marriage boundaries are discussed and agreed upon rather than assumed.

mydogfarted

mydogfarted

Oakland, NJ
June 2003

JUN 16, 2011 11:05 AM

Thistle said:

catflap said:

LosNYC said:
No all are welcome to answer. I thought considering the nature of this site that people would be more open minded though.



open minded to the betrayal of the purpose of marriage? nah.



This is kind of an over reaction. Lots of people have open marriages or have different definitions of cheating than you. That doesn't mean their marriage betrays the purpose of the institution. I don't see how a husband bringing up the possibility is being such a gigantic tool. Presumably in a marriage boundaries are discussed and agreed upon rather than assumed.



This.

Coyotemike

Coyotemike

USA
May 2006

JUN 16, 2011 12:47 PM

Thistle said:

catflap said:

LosNYC said:
No all are welcome to answer. I thought considering the nature of this site that people would be more open minded though.



open minded to the betrayal of the purpose of marriage? nah.



This is kind of an over reaction. Lots of people have open marriages or have different definitions of cheating than you. That doesn't mean their marriage betrays the purpose of the institution. I don't see how a husband bringing up the possibility is being such a gigantic tool. Presumably in a marriage boundaries are discussed and agreed upon rather than assumed.


Husband bring it up to his wife? Fine, cool, wear a condom and get to it. Husband bringing it up to a group of strangers to either justify himself for wanting it or to get some sort of backup when he does bring it up? Not so cool.

But that's just my read on it.

Mantis

Mantis

SUICIDEGIRL

Texas, USA

JUN 16, 2011 12:53 PM

Coyotemike said:

Thistle said:

catflap said:

LosNYC said:
No all are welcome to answer. I thought considering the nature of this site that people would be more open minded though.



open minded to the betrayal of the purpose of marriage? nah.



This is kind of an over reaction. Lots of people have open marriages or have different definitions of cheating than you. That doesn't mean their marriage betrays the purpose of the institution. I don't see how a husband bringing up the possibility is being such a gigantic tool. Presumably in a marriage boundaries are discussed and agreed upon rather than assumed.


Husband bring it up to his wife? Fine, cool, wear a condom and get to it. Husband bringing it up to a group of strangers to either justify himself for wanting it or to get some sort of backup when he does bring it up? Not so cool.

But that's just my read on it.



We don't know his motives for asking. Personally, I'd be stoked. Guess I'm kind of a lady tool. Toolette.

Coyotemike

Coyotemike

USA
May 2006

JUN 16, 2011 01:01 PM

I said some things wrong in here and I apologize to all involved.

Keith

Keith

Oklahoma City, OK
August 2002

JUN 16, 2011 01:02 PM

You know, you go and fuck the same person for a decade and see if you don't both start getting pretty fucking open to some shit you never thought you'd like before. And it's not even necessarily boredom. It's trust. And love. And a desire to please the other person beyond your own personal hangups. And realizing that you have nothing to hide anymore, because your partner's not going to judge you for what you like in bed.

It's not "betrayal" if you're both into it. What the fuck? Did I walk out of SuicideGirls and into a meeting of the Catholic Prudes Society?

Which is not to say that not being into cuckolding makes you a prude. But disapproving of other what other consenting adults legally do in bed sure does.

Fatality

Fatality

SUICIDEGIRL

USA

JUN 16, 2011 01:19 PM

Try the Swingers Group or Group Sex Group for more open discussion

Thistle

Thistle

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

JUN 16, 2011 01:22 PM

Coyotemike said:

Husband bring it up to his wife? Fine, cool, wear a condom and get to it. Husband bringing it up to a group of strangers to either justify himself for wanting it or to get some sort of backup when he does bring it up? Not so cool.

But that's just my read on it.



As Mantis said, we don't know why he posted. People post a lot of threads about various fetishes on this forum, usually more as an "Am I the only one?" kind of thing.

LosNYC

LosNYC

Jersey City, NJ
May 2007

JUN 16, 2011 01:33 PM

Ok...call me whatever but the reason I brought it up was to hear other people's experiences or views on the subject. I have brought it up to my wife several times and she seems open to it. I've also searched the internet which has several sites related to the subject but most of it just seems like fantasy. I guess I was just looking for a more real point of view from a group that I expected to be open minded. I appreciate everyone's point of view whether you agree with that type of lifestyle or not.

LosNYC

LosNYC

Jersey City, NJ
May 2007

JUN 16, 2011 01:38 PM

Fatality said:
Try the Swingers Group or Group Sex Group for more open discussion



Thank you. I didn't know there were separate groups.

Keith

Keith

Oklahoma City, OK
August 2002

JUN 16, 2011 01:43 PM

LosNYC said:
I've also searched the internet which has several sites related to the subject



Got to be the understatement of the century. tongue

Psyche

Psyche

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

JUN 16, 2011 02:49 PM

LosNYC said:
Ladies what would you think if your bf or husband suggested that he'd like to see you fuck other guys besides him?



I had a boyfriend that was really into cuckolding. He really got off to watching me hook up with other guys, and then joining.

I don't think it's "dumb" or betrayal at all. I had never done anything like that before when he propositioned it, but I thought it was kind of cool, and I got really into it at times. I was really excited that I had the chance to experience a wild lifestyle that was completely foreign and new to me.

I had nothing but good experiences from it, and if I dated another guy who was into the same thing, I would definitely do it again. Also I think that cuckolding with my boy actually made me develop a stronger bond with him and fall harder for him than I ever had before, but I must be a sex addict. tongue

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