Can i get some breakup advice?

hahahah thats amazing. Ill try everything and let you know how it worked out. mmmmmh electrodick

also ive found that laughing works pretty well too

Make a list of all the things you don't like about her and keep it someplace handy.

I made a list of all the shitty things my ex said and did to me and read it whenever I found myself "missing" him. He tried to get back with me but I remembered everything I wrote on that list, so I told him there was no way in hell.

I also started dating other guys...not so much with thoughts of getting into another relationship but more or less to remind myself of all the choices I have.

You could also take up drinking or smoking. Preferably both at the same time.

cheers!

same thing with me, lost the love of my life after six 6 years, she fucking hates me and wants her own life and i love her to death and cant move on but she wants to still be fuck buddies till she "fully" moves on...she also says that when she says she misses me and what we had and all that shes just doing it because she feels bad, what should i do?

What a shitty girl. You should let her go. You are better off without that on your back. Its not your job to pleasure her or take that crap from her. If she doesnt mean what she says she should talk to someone else. She has other friends?

Same thing happened with my girlfriend and me. We didnt really have a lot of friends around so we kept talking and that hurt even more.

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DO NOT, i repeat DO NOT give her any degree of comfort, she is using you for her own benefit.....and treating you with minimal respect......treat yourself better than that mate

i am going through my own shit a the moment, my fiancee just broke up with me out of the blue.....no real reason, though i suspect it was cheating, and what i have found has helped me is to keep busy....and talk it out....be it with friends, family or a in my case a therapist......this will help process some of the emotions

I know it sounds cruel, but you have to start to focus on the things you did not like about her. it is always harder to be the dumpee as opposed to the dumper.

Being "fuck buddies" with your ex is a really bad idea, especially when one person feels more strongly about the relationship than the other, and it sounds like that is the case with you two. If you want a fuck buddy go to the bars or a dating website..or maybe even find one on SG. Trust me, the sooner you get your ex completely out of your life for good, the sooner you will feel better about the breakup.

Not always the case. My ex-fiancee took our break up harder than I did, and she dumped me. And I took it pretty damn hard.

In any case, agreed with the above posts about talking it out with friends, and especially the keeping busy suggestions.

Ob-La-Di, Ob-La-Da.

That fourth point is fantastic. Breakups are a huge (and terrible) ongoing part of my fickle life, and this, right here might just be the lesson I've been needing to learn all this time.

How have I never thought of it that way before?