Ladies first

After reading the "shortest sex" thread, I felt so bad that some guys lasted a number of "pumps".

Guys, sound off if you wait for your woman to orgasm first!

Always! (with very occasional minor exceptions when I am told 'it's just not happening for me tonight')

At first I thought this thread was a bit retarded, but that's because I immediately thought, "Duh, who doesn't? But then I changed my mind...

If any guy can't "sound off" truthfully in this thread, then dude(s), take this as a wake up call: You seriously need to fix that.

Otherwise, you really don't deserve to have a sex partner.

Amen Gringo. It should go with out saying, you selfish fucks! (pun intended)

Wouldn't it get boring if she was always the one to get off first? And aren't there more methods than just fucking to get to orgasm?

Hell no. That's a total turn on, actually and is what helps drive me to climax.

You mix it up with styles..rough - which is hot...and then there is....well...other people's stuff. Whatever works.

Well yeah, but a climax is preferred far more...but that's just my perspective with the partners I've experienced.

But I guess your mileage may vary.

*Raspberries*

the female orgasm is the equivalent to bigfoot, i have heard a lot about it but never seen it in person or proof that it does exist, therefore it doesn't exist.

It ranks right up there with that "g-spot" thingy.....whatever that is.

I really don't enjoy sex if I can't make her climax. For me (most guys?) thats pretty much the entire point isn't it? If I just wanted to orgasm I could take care of it myself lol.

I guess this also ties in with the 'guys who enjoy the cunnilingus' thread. Helping a woman orgasm is among the most intense and enjoyable things I do.

I have a strict no intercourse before her second orgasm rule.

I don't think my hand is capable of having an orgasm.

Your hand is such a slut.

No....personally, I think that's ridiculous.

You make it sound like men are slaves to the female orgasm. Especially when the female orgasm via vaginal intercourse is much rarer that you may care to believe. It doesn't have to sting one's ego...it's simply the truth.

Some women I've been with....actually enjoy a little quickie every now & then....regardless of whether they climax or not. It's like they're saying "good boy...here's your reward".

Sex isn't supposed to be about what you want...and what you want for your partner. Ultimately...it should be about what you both want for each other.

I've never been with a girl who could cum. What are you suggesting? that i should sit here just not cumming either? It's not my fault that they're all broken.

It is starting to sound like too much of a sexual checklist. Changing to harder or softer doesn't really seem like much of a change if you have an order of events in mind that stays the same.

clearly...you have a small wiener...and don't deserve to come.

A guy should try to make the girl cum first (because when he cums he can't continue in the same way as a woman). Sometimes though it's just not going to happen. The effort should always be there though.

When exactly did women lose their hands & tongues?

How about both people try to just enjoy the time, instead of setting goals and benchmarks?

Nice Rizz. I've been a Jazzer for so long I almost forgot that Queen Latifah was a kick ass hip-hop artist at the time.

Definitely, ladies first is the rule.

Yeah, nice work on that one, god.

If we're on a sinking ship, ladies first. If we're in a race to cum...well fuck you, that's just rude.

hey! dont you know its your job to service the queen and you should just be grateful that a woman graced you with her vagina?

How is climax different than orgasm? I'm very confused. I believe Coyote was saying that you can still get your girl off without your cock.

Personally, I think the key is not to treat the male orgasm like the definitive end of sticky, sexy playtime.

95% of the time I wait until my lady has cum a few times. Sometimes I can't help it and it just goes.