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Cyranodb

Cyranodb

Bayside, NY
July 2010

JUL 06, 2010 03:51 AM

Just wondering about the general opinion. Do you think it's better to have lost a love, than to never have found love at all?

damieno9

damieno9

Iraq
May 2010

AUG 04, 2010 10:57 AM

Negative. Better off without.

Cherry2000

Cherry2000

Calgary, AB
July 2009

AUG 04, 2010 01:33 PM

Absolutely! It's a cliche for a reason.

Coyotemike

Coyotemike

USA
May 2006

AUG 04, 2010 02:14 PM

It all depends on who or what is involved. If you are talking about loving cheese, the answer may change.

Martini

Martini

SUICIDEGIRL

Ontario, Canada

AUG 04, 2010 02:44 PM

Coyotemike said:
It all depends on who or what is involved. If you are talking about loving cheese, the answer may change.



wait... i can lose cheese???

xo

Coyotemike

Coyotemike

USA
May 2006

AUG 04, 2010 03:00 PM

Martini said:

Coyotemike said:
It all depends on who or what is involved. If you are talking about loving cheese, the answer may change.



wait... i can lose cheese???

xo



Someone might steal it off your plate. Or, it might fall on the ground.

Martini

Martini

SUICIDEGIRL

Ontario, Canada

AUG 04, 2010 03:07 PM

Coyotemike said:

Martini said:

Coyotemike said:
It all depends on who or what is involved. If you are talking about loving cheese, the answer may change.



wait... i can lose cheese???

xo



Someone might steal it off your plate. Or, it might fall on the ground.



i'm quick with a knife and the 5 second rule. YOU LOSE.

xo

Coyotemike

Coyotemike

USA
May 2006

AUG 04, 2010 03:09 PM

Martini said:

Coyotemike said:

Martini said:

Coyotemike said:
It all depends on who or what is involved. If you are talking about loving cheese, the answer may change.



wait... i can lose cheese???

xo



Someone might steal it off your plate. Or, it might fall on the ground.



i'm quick with a knife and the 5 second rule. YOU LOSE.

xo



What if it falls in poo?

Martini

Martini

SUICIDEGIRL

Ontario, Canada

AUG 04, 2010 03:15 PM

Coyotemike said:

Martini said:

Coyotemike said:

Martini said:

Coyotemike said:
It all depends on who or what is involved. If you are talking about loving cheese, the answer may change.



wait... i can lose cheese???

xo



Someone might steal it off your plate. Or, it might fall on the ground.



i'm quick with a knife and the 5 second rule. YOU LOSE.

xo



What if it falls in poo?



then i feed it to you?

xo

Coyotemike

Coyotemike

USA
May 2006

AUG 04, 2010 03:25 PM

Martini said:

Coyotemike said:

Martini said:

Coyotemike said:

Martini said:

Coyotemike said:
It all depends on who or what is involved. If you are talking about loving cheese, the answer may change.



wait... i can lose cheese???

xo



Someone might steal it off your plate. Or, it might fall on the ground.



i'm quick with a knife and the 5 second rule. YOU LOSE.

xo



What if it falls in poo?



then i feed it to you?

xo



You're very mean frown frown frown frown frown

I'm not gonna give you my cheese

Martini

Martini

SUICIDEGIRL

Ontario, Canada

AUG 04, 2010 03:26 PM

Coyotemike said:


Martini said:

Coyotemike said:

What if it falls in poo?



then i feed it to you?

xo




You're very mean frown frown frown frown frown

I'm not gonna give you my cheese



awe... there there... i'll just stab you and steal it. smile

xo

Coyotemike

Coyotemike

USA
May 2006

AUG 04, 2010 03:37 PM

Martini said:

Coyotemike said:


Martini said:

Coyotemike said:

What if it falls in poo?



then i feed it to you?

xo




You're very mean frown frown frown frown frown

I'm not gonna give you my cheese



awe... there there... i'll just stab you and steal it. smile

xo



I think I love you. lovelovelovelovelove

RudieCantFail

RudieCantFail

Baton Rouge, LA
January 2006

AUG 04, 2010 04:19 PM

Martini said:

Coyotemike said:
Someone might steal it off your plate. Or, it might fall on the ground.



i'm quick with a knife and the 5 second rule. YOU LOSE.

xo



I knew it! Coyotemike is a mouse and Martini is the farmer's wife!

Martini

Martini

SUICIDEGIRL

Ontario, Canada

AUG 04, 2010 09:25 PM

Coyotemike said:
I think I love you. lovelovelovelovelove



sweeeet...

xo

Evilgasm

Evilgasm

Netherlands
April 2007

AUG 04, 2010 10:47 PM

Martini

Martini

SUICIDEGIRL

Ontario, Canada

AUG 04, 2010 10:49 PM

Evilgasm said:



*curtsies*

xo

LeStrange

LeStrange

HOPEFUL

Sarasota, FL

AUG 04, 2010 11:16 PM

cyranodb said:
Just wondering about the general opinion. Do you think it's better to have lost a love, than to never have found love at all?



No. i believe no heartache can make me happy that i had them at one time. i rather have not met them and be happy in my life now than to be heartbroken and sick over them.
plus it also depends on who you are loving. a significant other, a child, a pet...

RudieCantFail

RudieCantFail

Baton Rouge, LA
January 2006

AUG 05, 2010 05:44 AM

Well, if we're going to go back on topic, then I'll give a serious answer to the original question.

SPOILERS! (Click to view)

Twelve and a half years ago the only person I ever loved was taken from me in a car accident. She was the kindest, most amazing person I have ever known. She was my world. Except for a handful of dates that never amounted to anything, I have spent those years entirely alone, completely depressed, and often suicidal because the pain of her absence lingers with me like a chronic illness. I would not, however, give up a single second of my time with her, even if it means spending another hundred years living with the pain of her loss.

karamazov30

karamazov30

Ontario, CA
May 2009

AUG 05, 2010 07:26 AM

The loving part is always nice but its like getting slammed in the face by a door once it is over. Still, you have to know how vinegar tastes to really appreciate how sweet sugar is.

Coyotemike

Coyotemike

USA
May 2006

AUG 05, 2010 08:31 AM

Speaking for the "never have loved at all" side of things, it really really sucks. Waking up alone every morning. Knowing that if I die at home, it might be days before anyone even notices. Not having someone's eyes light up when they see me (other than my dad's dog, but that's because I give him food and scratch behind his ear).

bean

bean

STAFF

Los Angeles, CA

AUG 05, 2010 12:42 PM

Coyotemike said:
Speaking for the "never have loved at all" side of things, it really really sucks. Waking up alone every morning. Knowing that if I die at home, it might be days before anyone even notices. Not having someone's eyes light up when they see me (other than my dad's dog, but that's because I give him food and scratch behind his ear).



Not just that, but never having experienced the thrill of connection, the butterflies of infatuation, the pangs of longing. All of the highs and lows of love are a core part of living, and love is, along with curiosity and laziness, one of the few key motivators for human endeavors. Never having experienced love is like never tasting life.

Martini

Martini

SUICIDEGIRL

Ontario, Canada

AUG 05, 2010 06:29 PM

bean said:
Never having experienced love is like never tasting life.



well said.

xo

Foxtrot_Uniform

Foxtrot_Uniform

Phoenix, AZ
January 2009

AUG 05, 2010 06:55 PM

It's better to have loved and lost otherwise there would be know hope at all. People would not even try to get involved for fear of heartbreak.

hor

hor

USA
June 2005

AUG 05, 2010 07:01 PM


Moot question. It is impossible to experience both.

fountainofdreams

fountainofdreams

Batavia, IL
January 2005

AUG 05, 2010 08:56 PM

Coyotemike said:
Speaking for the "never have loved at all" side of things, it really really sucks. Waking up alone every morning. Knowing that if I die at home, it might be days before anyone even notices. Not having someone's eyes light up when they see me (other than my dad's dog, but that's because I give him food and scratch behind his ear).



Fucking bingo.

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