seriously... wtf...

i got married jan something...
being with my fiance... we had AMAZING sex.. best i had ever have.. multiple orgasms..etc..
ever sense we got married.. gotten off like 3 times...
i think im broke.. idk whats going on...
and its REALLY starting to bug me..
any thoughts? suggestions?
i mean the sex hasnt really changed still good.. just doesnt get me off..
any input is appreciated!

Hilarious and informative.

might work... might just hurt

yeah... butt is not an options.. we have had cllose encounter we shall say and it doesnt go over well AT ALL... >.<
just.. i mean hes still good.. this still feel great...
im just not getting off at all..
and i really dont know why...
its been over a month and i just cant seem to.. no matter what....
=/.

I think Yahoo Answers might be more helpful to you at this point.

and this all happened around the time you got married?

how long were you together before you got married?

Get a boyfriend.

Perhaps you should take things other than the fact that you got married into account, or things derivative that may be affecting you psychologically or physiologically. New pressures at home or work, dietary changes, static with in-laws. What specifically has been stressing you out or changing your standard day to day routine the last month?

Hey, she's open to any input--she's just picky about where it's put in!

Marriage ruins everything.

This speaks volumes.

Indeed.

Embarrassingly, my wife and I couldn't remember the year we were married in recently. And neither could two other people in the room who were at the reception and have know us for years.

Apparently we know how to throw a party.

Can you still finish when your by yourself? God I need a way to phrase what I'm thinking without sounding like a perv. Maybe its not the sex that is the problem maybe its more of a emotional state that is holding you back?

Fixed.

bwhahahahaha thank you I stand corrected

Are you stressed out? Is having another person in your space at all times making it hard for you to have "alone time"? Does sex feel like an easy obligation rather than something you need?

Keep going out on dates with your husband. Not like, "oh hey, we're going to the bar with our friends" or "we're getting pizza and renting a movie" kind of dates, but the kind you prepare for. Get dressed up. Wear your sexy underwear. Go out and do something you don't usually do. Don't let things become routine!

Above all, don't feel pressured to give in to having sex just because it's available (or just because YOU'RE available). In order for it to be really good, you have to want it.

If the sex is the same then maybe you're just bored of him. Emo Phillips said in one of his acts "married sex is a paradox. It's either 'not this again' or 'where did you learn this'

Or wear sexy underwear when you order pizza and watch movies at home. That's what I do.

not to be nosy, but have you started any new medications? changed things in your life other than the marriage? sometimes the outside things that you do not see as effecting you really do. medications are a REALLY big part of this. even if you didnt just start it; sometimes different meds will effect your sex life, but it may not start for months or it may go away after a few weeks. my antidepressants would be fine for months and then all of a sudden i lost my sex drive for a long time, then in some random turn of events it would be fine.

First thing I thought, and there's not much wisdom i can add on top of what Shal already covered. Just to say that sometimes worrying about why you're not getting off can be what keeps you from getting off. Let go, enjoy what you have, coming or not.

In all seriousness, what were you hoping to gain out of marrying your partner? No sarcasm or negativity meant. What were you hoping would be different or come out of it? Maybe this isn't what you thought it would be and your body is rebelling.

I hear overusing ellipses hinders the female orgasm.