So, one of my couple friends have offered to have a threesome with me.
They recently opened their relationship up and are trying new stuff. I have been friends with them for years. I am better friends with the guy, and am quite attracted to the girl.
So, as a relatively inexperienced/prudish person what should I do? Above all I don't want to fuck up their relationship, or my friendship with them both. But I do really want to try this.
Coming from someone who is in an open relationship and we've had several threesomes, don't do it. You don't sound like you're in the right place to do it, and if it is their first threesome, it may get awkward for the three of you. Should you decide to go forward with it, it could be a lot of fun. Just be aware of the fact that things could get weird afterwards, and DO NOT expect it would happen again.
If they're still feeling out the "open relationship" thing, don't go there. It works great for plenty of couples, but it also goes terribly with plenty of couples. If it works for them, you'll have time to do that later. If it doesn't work for them, chances are pretty good that they won't want a reminder of it hanging around all the time.
Not that I'm an expert...but I definitely am voting for NO in this situation seeing as you're friends, and all first timers.
Why risk fucking up a friendship when they can find another 3rd wheel to try until they're more comfortable in the 'rules' and boundaries of their newly decided open relationship...and likewise why don't you find a couple where emotions and friendships can't be tested for your first time?
Terome said:
Not that I'm an expert...but I definitely am voting for NO in this situation seeing as you're friends, and all first timers.
Why risk fucking up a friendship when they can find another 3rd wheel to try until they're more comfortable in the 'rules' and boundaries of their newly decided open relationship...and likewise why don't you find a couple where emotions and friendships can't be tested for your first time?
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also, as a newly openrelationship couple they should maybe take it a bit slower. talk about the deep end.
Threesomes with friends are either a very interesting experience (although you could propably get the exact same experience with strangers) or it can be very very awkward.
And I mean VERY awkward.
PabloBrew
I'm lost
May 2008
FEB 16, 2010 07:41 AM