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JodyTea

JodyTea

HOPEFUL

France

NOV 11, 2012 04:44 AM

I'm both. Most of the time I'm submissive, and somethimes I like to be a dominatrix too...
Pretty funny to know both sides. When I'm dominating a guy, I can tell him "Do it better, I know what you feel and I'm a better slut than you."
Haha biggrin

SquirrelyGirl

SquirrelyGirl

Cincinnati, OH
July 2012

NOV 13, 2012 05:18 PM

I'd say I'm generally submissive but that's not a "free for all" for the other person. I have plenty of limits as to how I'll allow my body to be used. That said, I think some folks here are conflating submissive with masochist and that's just not always the case.

Annatole

Annatole

HOPEFUL

Argentina

JAN 20, 2013 10:23 AM

I'm adaptable. It depends of the situation, i mean, i used to date guys way much older than me, and i get used to be submissive, but arround 17/18 i started dating a lot of girls and younger boys (or my age) and i became dominant, cause... They didn't have quite enought experience. But if i had to choose, i think i would say that i like being Dom.

CoyoteMike

CoyoteMike

Iowa City, IA
May 2006

JAN 20, 2013 10:31 AM

I can ACT dominant, but I'm really not. I can't act submissive.

LEtranger

Letranger

Brooklyn, NY
September 2005

JAN 20, 2013 03:22 PM

I learned a new word today. switch.

i've never really been in a sexual relationship as the sub except for one where i pretty much resisted her dominating me and it ended pretty quickly.

that said i do fantasize about a bit. maybe its time to try out this whole switch thing.

Andysith

Andysith

United Kingdom
January 2013

JAN 22, 2013 04:09 AM

Im really a sub at heart and im still learning about all that means.. I have a mistress online that gives me things to do...smile as she calls them daily chores

PunkAnimator

PunkAnimator

Australia
July 2011

APR 02, 2013 07:59 PM

Bit of both, Girlfriend prefers to be submissive though.

Caiaphas

Caiaphas

Austria
January 2013

APR 05, 2013 02:28 AM

Both...else it would quickly become boring...

Chr15

Chr15

USA
March 2012

APR 16, 2013 07:11 AM

Sub

Kingslayer669

Kingslayer669

USA
April 2013

APR 24, 2013 03:59 PM

I say why be one or the other. I fancy myself a dynamic creature and variety is the spice of life after all. Though it is true some women aren't very good at being the dominant ones in the bed room and are better off just surrendering their flesh to me to do with as I please. But if a woman can really take control and isn't afraid to slap me around some, why I'd say she could do just about anything she wanted to. My ultimate thrill when I'm with a goddess is making that oh so glorious and profound connection with her sexuality and making her deepest sexual desires a reality no matter how dark and depraved. I'll be as dominant or submissive as you like.

Squeak

Squeak

SUICIDEGIRL

Pennsylvania, USA

APR 28, 2013 07:38 AM

I am very very very submissive.

Not just sexually but in all things really. I tend to be a bit of a push over as a result and I have a hard time saying no. But I will do almost anything to make people happy or go above and beyond what they asked of me.
Sexually, I love to be given a chance to please others. I have had very good experiences as a sub thus far. But maybe I have just always been lucky to very good dominants. wink

Ocean_

Ocean_

HOPEFUL

I'm lost

APR 30, 2013 03:35 PM

both, definetly. I enjoy being dominated as much as I enjoy dominating my partner. It's not complete if I don't do both or I just don't enjoy it as much wink

Lone_Ranger

Lone_Ranger

Antarctica
September 2004

MAY 03, 2013 12:07 AM

I prefer exploring the dynamics of both with a woman, I pay attention to how the events play out. it's the best game.

KirstyClare

KirstyClare

HOPEFUL

United Kingdom

MAY 04, 2013 04:09 AM

Always submissive.

Being a good girl is fun.
And it gives you the opportunity to be a brat whenever you like.

cactusgeeves

cactusgeeves

Lansing, MI
November 2007

MAY 10, 2013 08:55 PM

I'd say I'm more dom.

Donatella

Donatella

Jacksonville, FL
OLD SKOOL

JUN 07, 2013 11:14 PM

I am very submissive. I have always been with both men and women that were all VERY dominant. Men that I have been with were more violent and forceful with various things, but very steady and predicable, and not always knowledgeable. Women, who could also be quite violent and forceful, but more unpredictable...and always seemed to know EXACTLY what they were doing...not always to my favour in either case. Cannot always trust who you are with, and sometimes boundaries are forgotten in the heat of the moment. Hard to say safety words when you are gagged, or screaming. Sometimes it just is not any fun to be a submissive...but it is the only role I am good at...

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