I have a dominant fetish. Dont like it all the time, but it's definantly one of my favorites. My question is... Is that realy a fetish for men, is it just man's nature, or am I just a 'lil bit shovanistic? Answer with what your prefer
There are both male and female dominants. Can men be dominants? Sure. Can you? Read some books, get involved in a BDSM community and find out for yourself. Only you can decide whether you're into power exchange or just like telling your sex partner what to do.
Well I want to but I'm a gemini so naturaly my second favorite is tantra lol, meaning its easier to find a girl interested in tantra vs. BDSM I just have to look around lol
Please consider that either of those practices require years of experience to be considered well-versed in them, and fumbling it can get someone hurt. Also, women who are really into either of them can smell poser.
I guess I'm slightly dominant. Not in the tie you up, slap your face and call me daddy kinda way but I usually prefer to be in control of a situation in bed or otherwise.
rudewordsmith said:
Pretty much every dame I've been involved with has been more submissive, where as I'd like to come across a dominant.
So, I guess what I'm saying is... You come down here, Oximoron, and I'll take your place in WA. Solve both of our problems. Ha ha.
Thanks for the offer, and your right the are more submissive down there, but i lived in jacksonville for 2 years and im never goin back lol. I need mountains
lil_tuffy said:
I guess I'm slightly dominant. Not in the tie you up, slap your face and call me daddy kinda way but I usually prefer to be in control of a situation in bed or otherwise.
I'm pretty much the same, but only in bed. Otherwise, I usually prefer to be mostly invisible.
lil_tuffy said:
I guess I'm slightly dominant. Not in the tie you up, slap your face and call me daddy kinda way but I usually prefer to be in control of a situation in bed or otherwise.
More in a "I'm going moderate the hell of that comment" kind of way?
lil_tuffy said:
I guess I'm slightly dominant. Not in the tie you up, slap your face and call me daddy kinda way but I usually prefer to be in control of a situation in bed or otherwise.
More in a "I'm going moderate the hell of that comment" kind of way?
He lands all sorts of SG's by threatening to "Zot them". It's all a game of course. And ladies, his safe word is always BACON.
oximoron42
Everett, WA
January 2006
JAN 13, 2010 08:51 PM