Because straight men don’t watch sex and the city I don’t think you have to worry about that saying affecting your chance of marriage if you do take it up the butt.
Chispa said:
is this truuuue??? when i heard this on Sex and the City, it scared me hahaha. which is why im saving myself for marriage...am i lame?!
No, it's not true. You can save yourself for marriage if that is what feels right to you, but no man worth a damn will decline to marry you because you've had sex, anal or otherwise. If he does he is sexist and has double standards and probably a lot of other issues.
Chispa said:
is this truuuue??? when i heard this on Sex and the City, it scared me hahaha. which is why im saving myself for marriage...am i lame?!
No, it's not true. You can save yourself for marriage if that is what feels right to you, but no man worth a damn will decline to marry you because you've had sex, anal or otherwise. If he does he is sexist and has double standards and probably a lot of other issues.
Also, Sex and the City is just a comedy program, not a guide for life. The sooner everyone realizes that, the better off we will all be.
im an anal virgin. that's what i meant. i know sex and the city is just a show...but i have a lot of guy friends and know what they really think of girls who take it up the butt...
Chispa said:
im an anal virgin. that's what i meant. i know sex and the city is just a show...but i have a lot of guy friends and know what they really think of girls who take it up the butt...
Most of us think "huh, she takes it up the butt." And that's about it. It doesn't change who you are as a person. Unless you let that one thing become what defines you.
I'm pretty sure a lot more dudes would not consider you marriage material because you have highly visible tattoos on your neck than because you might or might not like it in the butt.
I don't know how you could not already know that. It feels inauthentic to me.
If a man truely loved someone and wanted to marry them, I really doubt that fact that the woman having previously had it up the pooper would change his mind about marrying her. Unless of course he is one of the rare men these days that is saving himself for marriage and wants a partner who shares the same values and beliefs.
On another note, like Thistle suggested, if you are saving yourself for marriage, then that's great, but do it for you, and not because of something that someone wrote into the script of a tv show.
Chispa said:
im an anal virgin. that's what i meant. i know sex and the city is just a show...but i have a lot of guy friends and know what they really think of girls who take it up the butt...
sounds like your guy friends aren't exactly marriage material anyway.
MrCrisp said:
I'm holding out for an up-the-butt girl. Or gay marriage. I'm not that picky.
just you wait. someday our government will recognize the love that you and i share.
Scotty said:
If a man truely loved someone and wanted to marry them, I really doubt that fact that the woman having previously had it up the pooper would change his mind about marrying her. Unless of course he is one of the rare men these days that is saving himself for marriage and wants a partner who shares the same values and beliefs.
On another note, like Thistle suggested, if you are saving yourself for marriage, then that's great, but do it for you, and not because of something that someone wrote into the script of a tv show.
i have nothing to say in response to this, except duuuuuuuuur.
MrCrisp said:
I'm holding out for an up-the-butt girl. Or gay marriage. I'm not that picky.
just you wait. someday our government will recognize the love that you and i share.
Scotty said:
If a man truely loved someone and wanted to marry them, I really doubt that fact that the woman having previously had it up the pooper would change his mind about marrying her. Unless of course he is one of the rare men these days that is saving himself for marriage and wants a partner who shares the same values and beliefs.
On another note, like Thistle suggested, if you are saving yourself for marriage, then that's great, but do it for you, and not because of something that someone wrote into the script of a tv show.
i have nothing to say in response to this, except duuuuuuuuur.
Well, she wanted answers and opinions, I gave her some.
It may be "duuuuuuuuur" to some people, but obviously, it wasn't to her, otherwise she wouldn't have asked.
Scotty said:
well, she wanted answers and opinions, I gave her some.
It may be "duuuuuuuuur" to some people, but obviously, it wasn't to her, otherwise she wouldn't have asked.
if you're looking for people from the internet to validate a decision you are making based on information given from a shitty tv show, you sort of deserve what you get.
this sort of nonsense is why the terrorists hate freedom.
Squints
USA
December 2009
JAN 02, 2010 06:29 PM